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    Default How to deal with guys who invite you back to hotel

    okay, so i go over to an after hours club that is open until 4amsometimes and the other night i met this guy, and he had $500 he was willing to spend if i could be with him for 1 hour!



    and so i was dancing for him and he was like, so how much can i give you for you to come back to my hotel



    and i said i dont do that. and so i was doing nude dances.....and so it is $50 per song essentially



    and then he was trying to put my hand on his junk and i kept moving it away and finally he was like, how about we just do 2 songs and leave it at $100

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    How do you deal with guys like that?! everyone always tells me that i need to be more flirtacious and say things like, "Oh, haha maybe if your lucky" or, "We'll see" to keep leading them on persay without saying "No" so abruptly to try and get as much money as possible. but i just can't do that!! It isn't in me! I would rather say no because i mean no and i dont want to somehow get in trouble. I know that you can't get charged with prostitution until you completely say Yes or ask for money upfront then say you will meet later for it. even if you arent intending to go.
    anyone have any advice for this??


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    Quote Originally Posted by Smofle View Post
    okay, so i go over to an after hours club that is open until 4amsometimes and the other night i met this guy, and he had $500 he was willing to spend if i could be with him for 1 hour!



    and so i was dancing for him and he was like, so how much can i give you for you to come back to my hotel



    and i said i dont do that. and so i was doing nude dances.....and so it is $50 per song essentially



    and then he was trying to put my hand on his junk and i kept moving it away and finally he was like, how about we just do 2 songs and leave it at $100

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    How do you deal with guys like that?! everyone always tells me that i need to be more flirtacious and say things like, "Oh, haha maybe if your lucky" or, "We'll see" to keep leading them on persay without saying "No" so abruptly to try and get as much money as possible. but i just can't do that!! It isn't in me! I would rather say no because i mean no and i dont want to somehow get in trouble. I know that you can't get charged with prostitution until you completely say Yes or ask for money upfront then say you will meet later for it. even if you arent intending to go.
    anyone have any advice for this??

    Girl you need to get a handle on that and fast. Guys will only do what you allow. If you don't get more assertive and quick you'll hate your job and yourself. That's disgusting as f***. If it was me after he moved my hand a second time after I warned him I'd just get up and leave.

    Wouldn't you deal with it the same way you would outside the club? Guys proposition girls for sex all the time just not in the SC handle it the same way you would in real life. And just say no like you did. Keep it flirty to keep him spending but if he's making you uncomfortable take his money and leave. No money is worth someone disrespecting you.

    I would never say things like "you'll see" or "maybe you'll get lucky" in regards to responding to him trying to pay you for sex. Your job is to dance and that's it. Not have sex OTC or give HJs And he knows that too. You said the right thing by saying "I don't do that". If it offends him that's HIS problem and he needs to look elsewhere preferably not a SC.

    Guys asking you for sex and attempting to "try" things is apart of what will happen. You need to somewhat expect it and know how to respond.

    Before you start the dancing you should give him a run down of your rules in a "flirty" way since men have fragile egos. After he knows your rules and purposely continues to break them I'd take his money and walk.
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    Default Re: How to deal with guys who invite you back to hotel

    Some girls are totally able to be vague about OTC and it can definitely work to their advantage sometimes. The downfall is that it makes the customer feel like he can get away with more, so you're stuck defensive dancing on high alert. Now, when there's no other prospects in the club, it might be worthwhile. When there are other customers in the club who will likely be less of a hassle though? Move on to the next one!

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    Default Re: How to deal with guys who invite you back to hotel

    A lot of guys are idiots. They think just because dancers get naked = escorts.
    Just friendly remind the noob that "you do not do that type of work".

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    ^I doubt the guy in this scenario is new. He's just good at finding dancers who are.

    As for dealing with customers like these, you need to realize that a customer who says he will give you $500 for an hour of dancing at his hotel room DOES NOT EQUAL a customer who is willing to give you $500 for an hour of dancing at his hotel room. And there are very few circumstances under which a customer who tries to make you touch his "junk" is worth any more of your time. Btw, how is he doing this? Grabbing your wrist & forcing your arm? If this happens with any regularity, I would re-think your lap dance choreography. Try practicing at home with an empty chair or a very close friend.

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    It's not worth it. Especially with guys you don't know that well or even if you do.

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    For guys that say that stuff to me, I usually (depending on how they asked) laugh in their face and say something like, "You're joking, right? There isn't enough money in the world for me to go home with you." Seriously. They've insulted me by insinuating that I'm a prostitute, so I will insult them right back! But really, the answer is that it depends on your comfort level. If you feel like just saying "no" rather than leading the guy on, then do that. He sounds like he was a nightmare to dance for in the first place.

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    "I fuck for fun and not for money and you don't look like a lot of fun!"

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