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    i have a question for dancers. i mentioned to a well paying customer that i sometimes clean houses for friends of mine as another means of income. this customer is a local DA and asked me directly if i would be willing to do house cleaning for him. i am uncomfortable with the idea of being alone in the house with him, usually i clean house alone and the key and cash are left for me. i gave him my text number and he keeps texting me about when i can come over to clean. he wants me to clean in lingerie and says how he wants to meet me and buy me specific lingerie for me to wear while i clean. i told him i charge $150 to do a standard 2 hour clean, he said he would pay me $500 to do same 2 hour clean in lingerie with him present. is this a good idea??? i havent set up an appt with him yet because i am worried he will try something i am uncomfortable with. i know he is good for the money but i dont knowi i can trust him, he refuses to tll me his real name for example, and he said he wants to "put a collar on me" and metioned that when we go ingerie shopping i need to get measured for the collar. how should i respond to him??

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    I've done the whole house cleaning nude/lingerie. From the information you've typed out I'd say avoid it. If you're not comfortable it's no point putting yourself in a situation that could cause you to really be uncomfortable or even fear for your life.

    I'd avoid dealing with any DA because so many are crooked and next thing you know he'll be telling you to do things "or else"

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    when u did the nude house cleaning how did u keep your personal boundaries with the clients??? thanks for responding to me trixxi

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    Most places will send 2 cleaners or at least have a guy waiting nearby for "safety". If you're not comfortable I wouldn't do it but if you don't mind just let him know your boundaries and if he crosses them kick him in the balls, have your cell phone on you at ALL TIMES and hightail it out of that bitch as fast as you can. Also, if you're going to meet him ask a few questions like what the quality of his home is like, is it dirty, pet hair, what areas you'll be cleaning etc. Take those things into consideration and have him put a deposit down at the meeting if he's serious.

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    A collar??? I would stay far, far away.

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    $500 for two hours of cleaning his house in lingerie while he has a collar on you? Plus the trip to the lingerie store while you try on (model) lingerie and a collar for him? That seems pretty low. Girls get paid more than that just to go out to dinner with guys. You'd make more doing two hours in VIP just sitting there. I don't know, it just doesn't seem worth it...
    Also, trust your gut and if you're not comfortable, just tell him you changed your mind and don't go!

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    Yeah, that sounds like an all day affair (escorting standards) without the sex. He sounds dominant so I'd be very careful and charge him a lot more than $500. He's trying to spend the day with you and have you clean while he basically strokes off and tells you what to do? He needs to come off that cheese.

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    Noooooo!!! Please don't. I was going to say okay just bring security with you to make sure you're safe, but that all went out the window as soon as I read about the collar. I'm getting bad vibes about this. Please don't do it. If you are though bring a 250lb bouncer, get all of his ids, screen like an escort would, and charge $500/per HOUR not for 2 hours, at least.
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    thank you all so much for the advice!!! because he is a DA i was worried of some possible entrapment ... the collar is especially what made me weary! i was thinking this could be easy money but i think everyone is right that its better to make the money in the club instead!!! the advice really helped me to see more clearly thank you girls i think everyone brought up really good advice and i dont want my personal safety or boundaries to be at risk!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by trixxi View Post
    thank you all so much for the advice!!! because he is a DA i was worried of some possible entrapment ... the collar is especially what made me weary! i was thinking this could be easy money but i think everyone is right that its better to make the money in the club instead!!! the advice really helped me to see more clearly thank you girls i think everyone brought up really good advice and i dont want my personal safety or boundaries to be at risk!!
    If he ups the price or your resolve shakes .... just wanted to throw out that you can check pictures of your and his local DAs online? Bc I saw you said he wont give you his real name, so if he says he is a DA that is super easy to find. A DA is a super public and googleable office, so him telling you that is just a blueprint to find his info since you already know: a. what he looks like. b. he lives in the area. So youd just need to check your state's list of DAs? http://tinyurl.com/USdistictattorneys and look up pictures?

    Basically if you find yourself reconsidering doing this but you cannot find anything online to verify his backstory - maybe... dont reconsider it too much?





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    Uhm.... NO!
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Default Re: customer wants house cleaning services etc

    If you genuinely want to do this, go through an agency. I wouldn't even entertain the idea of simply catering to this customer's "fetish" or proposition because you would most likely end up being expected to do things outside of the agreement and that you are not comfortable with, why put yourself in that position? Your safety is too important.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    If you genuinely want to do this, go through an agency. I wouldn't even entertain the idea of simply catering to this customer's "fetish" or proposition because you would most likely end up being expected to do things outside of the agreement and that you are not comfortable with, why put yourself in that position? Your safety is too important.
    He needs to try collarme or fetlife and someone that's already in the scene. There's subs out there that will gladly wear a collar and clean. I don't know why he was trying to recruit you into his lifestyle choices.

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    thank you so much for this information, i am again truly educated and grateful for the info. i was pretty ignorant about this and now i am just going to ignore his texts. i am still a newbie which isnt an excuse, i just am still learning the best ways to interact with customers. i really have a hard time saying no to out of the club dates even though i havent gone on these dates. i am sure there are better responses though any suggestions?

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    Quote Originally Posted by trixxi View Post
    i really have a hard time saying no to out of the club dates even though i havent gone on these dates. i am sure there are better responses though any suggestions?
    You can start by saying no while still giving them hope that you might change your mind, if you think it will help your money to keep stringing them along. Something like, "Hehe, I usually don't do that! I would have to get to know you a little better!"
    However, if a guy won't let up and is constantly badgering you about it, or you just don't want to play that game anymore, just firmly let him know that EVERYTHING you do stays in the club and you will never meet anyone outside of there for any amount of money. You can suggest an ITC date and he can buy an hour of your time in the VIP room and you guys can order a pizza together or something if he wants a damn date that badly lol

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    Okay I know you already decided it was a no go (good choice!) but I still want to put in my two cents, haha. I had a situation sort of like that there where a guy sincerely did just think I was cool and wanted to be friends. I met him on fetlife and I knew he was a dom, but I told him I was NOT a sub and he was totally fine with that. Well, long story short...this ended up in an armed guard having to escort me around everywhere for a while. Not good.

    I'm not against BDSM of course, but I do not get how being a dom means you can dominate ANYONE YOU WANT NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY. Certainly men like that have to be an embarrassment to the rest of the daddy dom community who obtain an initial, respectful CONSENT from their sub.

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    not only no but hell fucking no!

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    The fact that he is pressuring you makes me uncomfortal.

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    this guy is why they have assault weapons and large capacity magazines.

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