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    Default Insufficient tippers: how to deal?

    Ladies, here's a question to those who don't set fixed prices for freechat requests letting members tip "whatever they think it's worth". What do you do if a member is trying to make advantage of your tipping policy giving you the smallest tip possible (or just a ridiculosly small one) for a fancy item off your freechat menu?
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    Oh, i wont let members decide what they think i'm worth, i have it written in my room topic '5 gold for flash or tease', some will tip 1 gold and expect a flash, i laugh and tell "read my room topic above dear, it says 5 gold, add 4 more and i show u", most will add as they spent already the $1 so they dont wanna loose it, very few will not, their loss if so. in case u dont want to set a price for flashes or requests and somebody tips too little then, well, u could say "it's too little" but u could get the answer "that's what i consider it's worth". kind of difficult situation...

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    Default Re: Insufficient tippers: how to deal?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    Ladies, here's a question to those who don't set fixed prices for freechat requests letting members tip "whatever they think it's worth". What do you do if a member is trying to make advantage of your tipping policy giving you the smallest tip possible (or just a ridiculosly small one) for a fancy item off your freechat menu?
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    It really annoys me when guys WITH REQUESTS are so stingy with their money that they'll only tip pennies to the model for that request. Sure, I am grateful for ALL tips and always say 'thank you' when I'm tipped. But I think that if you have a request, you need to tip me a decent amount for it. If you don't want to tip the amount that's stated in my room topic, then all you'll get from me is a smile and a 'thank you'.
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    If a crappy tip is all he really thinks it's worth...he needs to GTFO. You know a guy like that is not going to go private or continue tipping, and he has just insulted your personal value.
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    To me, these guys will take advantage of any loophole you leave them so it is best not to leave them one.


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    Default Re: Insufficient tippers: how to deal?

    Seeing it from the other side, if I were allowed to take anything I wanted from a shop deciding what to pay I'd give the less possible... and so would most people.





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    I wont even flash unless 3 other members all tip $5 gold, sorry but the whole room isn't seeing my huge tits for $1.75, I'm gonna need at least $5 my take haha.

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    So, I dealt with something similar tonight. I had about 4 tippers tip me. They tipped first THEN asked me to do shit. That doesn't fly with me and a few of them lost out because I said no and they left lol. Sorry, you're not going to tip me less than what I want for my pvt rate. I don't flash nudity, I'll stand up, show feet, etc but no nudity unless there are more tippers tipping at the same time. I charge $5.99 per min in pvt.

    This guy tipped me $5 then asked if I had nude pantyhose, I told him yes, I said I'd grab them for him and we can go in private. He then asked if I would put them on, I told him again, I would in private and he mentions that seeing me put them on in free chat was what he tipped for AFTER he tipped me, and I should carry out my end of the deal. Wha?? No sir, I never agreed to that. I need to warn them in my room message, please ask before tipping for flashes or whatever. Like, he was being cheap as I would've taken well over a minute to put those damn pantyhose on! One other guy tipped first and then asked me something outrageous and I told him no and he left.

    I guess I shouldn't complain about tips but it would be nice for them not to assume I'll do anything just because they are throwing money at me. I'd hate to get rated badly or have disgruntled men because they think they got weaseled out of something. Silly me, I assumed they tip because they think I'm the cutest thing since marshmallow peeps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    I'm the cutest thing since marshmallow peeps.
    Those are fun to put in the microwave.

    It's in my mfc profile that all requests must come with a tip and they must consult with me first. Or I put prices in my topic to cut down on that. I run the show not them.lol They'll play stupid and will try but that's more tips I didn't have to do s*** for.

    After I explain it to them they always say they understand and chalk it up as to being their "stupid tax". Most will come back and tip me the proper amount.


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    My flashes are 5.00 gold for tits or ass. I no longer stand up, show feet, or any of that shit. They can tip me..I don't care. You learn fast that's for sure. I have had a few guys tip less for tits or ass and expect that shit to fly, when its posted what I will do. Nope! Guys I don't know..doesn't bother me in the least. What pisses me off is the regulars who know how my room works asking for deals then saying to me "you know me baby can I get a little love" Fuck you regular..like seriously? Now I do have to admit if I have a big spender in my room I will give extras too automatically.

    I have noticed that I'm getting more and more bitchy with men on here. I don't put up with shit like I did when I first started camming. Its kinda sad really..LOL You go from being excited and ready to "Oh jeez its time to get ready for work..no one better piss me off" LOL Camming loses it's excitement in time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLexy View Post
    My flashes are 5.00 gold for tits or ass. I no longer stand up, show feet, or any of that shit. They can tip me..I don't care. You learn fast that's for sure. I have had a few guys tip less for tits or ass and expect that shit to fly, when its posted what I will do. Nope! Guys I don't know..doesn't bother me in the least. What pisses me off is the regulars who know how my room works asking for deals then saying to me "you know me baby can I get a little love" Fuck you regular..like seriously? Now I do have to admit if I have a big spender in my room I will give extras too automatically.

    I have noticed that I'm getting more and more bitchy with men on here. I don't put up with shit like I did when I first started camming. Its kinda sad really..LOL You go from being excited and ready to "Oh jeez its time to get ready for work..no one better piss me off" LOL Camming loses it's excitement in time.
    You and I are on the same page this week. Some of my regs have been trying to take advantage lately too. I'm pretty mad at myself for giving in a little bit yesterday. Oh well, live and learn. I won't let it happen again!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLexy View Post
    "you know me baby can I get a little love" Fuck you regular..like seriously?
    I think I love you. The last couple of your post I've been like:



    Anyways on to the topic at hand. I set a fixed price. $2 for feet, $3 to stand, $5 to turn around, $8 to stand and turn. Flashes aren't really my thing so I don't do them. I'm a control freak so I need to be in control of almost everything. I don't feel comfortable with guys having control over certain or any aspects of my room. I get slightly annoyed when guys come into my room and tip like $2 or $3 and then expect me to stand up and show my ass. Or tip $1 and ask to see my tits...like whaaaaaaaaat. If I'm feeling nice I'll tell them its $3 or $2 more gold to see my ass. If I'm feeling annoyed I'll say thanks for the tip but you should've asked first or I'll ask "so your just going to assume that I'm going to do what you want just because you tipped". They generally answer yes but sometimes I'll get a smartass response like "that's what you're here for". I'll explain to them why they should ask about things first instead of just assuming. Some will say sorry, ask can I do whatever their request was, and then tip the proper amount. Smh its like you have to train some of these guys.

    Ugggggh to those dudes who tip and expect you to perform a pvt show in freechat. They use to get my blood boiling but now I try to ignore them. They'll sit and argue with you for like 5-10mins just because you didn't perform a pvt show for the price of gold lol. Say for instance you're wearing a long shirt. He tips 5 gold for you to turn around. You stand up, turn around, shake a little bit, and then sit back down.

    Him: I didn't get to see your ass.
    You: I turned around for you like you requested.
    Him: I paid you $5 to see your ass.
    You: I did your request. If you'd like to see more then you can join me in pvt.
    Him: I gave your $5. That's all I get? You didn't do what I asked. Stand up and let me see your ass.
    You: Like I said if you want to see more then you can join me in pvt.
    Him: You're not going to get any business this way.

    You blankly stare at the screen as he keeps rambling.

    I tend to lmao at these types of men now a days. Like Sir why are you going so hard for $5. If you just went pvt with your big $5 then you could've seen my bare ass for as long you wished. I'm laughing just thinking about this.
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    That reminds me, I've been trolled with low tips in past and recently. Once was on mfc: a member kept tipping 1 token several times, in a try to put me down, also attached bad tip comments. I let the member go on and kept ignoring for days. Recently was on str when i guy tipped $1, then asked me to show my ass. I split cam and teasing with my ass in free chat always gets me private somewhere, so i said what the heck, and started teasing only for him/her to blurt out - i give that ass a 7- So take it for what it's worth, but do not give in to the cheap mofos.

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    I don't do gold shows but I asked $15 gold ($5 from three guys, at the same time) to flash my tits in free chat and it worked. Bwhahahah! You can hustle em' ladies!
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    As the old saying goes.. you have to ask for what you want or you won't get it.. Have a tipping schedule.. guys are really cheap and will always give you the least.. and I know that from experience.. They once thought I was only worth $1 as well.. But now they know what I am worth Because I tell them.. Imagine if your private rates were not set and you told the customer to choose their own per minute rate.. most would choose the least.. Very few would choose more only your biggest fans who want to impress you, spoil you and adore you would pay more.

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    Sadly, the guys who want to cheap out on you are more numerous than those who want to spoil you. From what I can see, having those price stickers all around you seems to be the best option)))
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    I will show my tits for 20 gold. To be honest, I don't want to show them to a whole room AT ALL but 20 gold I know that the guy is serious and I think that is worth it. When they tip less I thank them and then shame everyone else in my room for not tipping. If they all throw in and I end up with 20 gold I will flash and it is more than momentary but it's not like, for more than a minute or two max.
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    I had more tips yesterday but they were all what I'd call "interior motive" tips. At least today's tips were just because. One Austrailian guy asked me a question and I gave him a really thoughtful explanation and he tipped me $5. Hey, it was $1.75 for doing nothing and I appreciated it haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luscious sadie View Post
    I will show my tits for 20 gold. To be honest, I don't want to show them to a whole room AT ALL but 20 gold I know that the guy is serious and I think that is worth it. When they tip less I thank them and then shame everyone else in my room for not tipping. If they all throw in and I end up with 20 gold I will flash and it is more than momentary but it's not like, for more than a minute or two max.
    Wow. I thought I was asking a lot at 10. That's awesome that you can get them to pay that much for a flash!


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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Wow. I thought I was asking a lot at 10. That's awesome that you can get them to pay that much for a flash!
    My trick is to get at least three guys in public chat to tip at the same time. So basically it's a gold show without all the effort haha. It actually works as I did it for $15 the other day.

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    I agree with what these ladies are saying and I even asked a male friend of mine if on Naked.com it's better to leave it up to the guys or to set prices myself..He said "they will pay the least possible or expect it for free, set your tip rates!".

    There's always a chance one guy will tip more


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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Wow. I thought I was asking a lot at 10. That's awesome that you can get them to pay that much for a flash!
    I'm asking 5 for feet, stand up, ass
    10 for tits
    hard enough to get them to tip for even that! B

    But we do need to let them know it's not free from all of us.


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    I think the issue with the guys is that they don't realize how much we actually make. I'm sure I'm not supposed to mention this, but I had one guy say, "OMG, you guys only get 35%?" "You should be making 100%, let's see the owner stick a bowling pin up his ass for 35%!" (discussing a different goldshow performer)LMAO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Wow. I thought I was asking a lot at 10. That's awesome that you can get them to pay that much for a flash!
    Well I don't WANT to do it so I am rewarding the ones who WILL. It happens that I will get dudes who do tip the whole 20 but I don't care if they don't. I'm not putting a lot of effort into doing anything or showing things for free to lots of people for less than 2$.

    obviously to each their own. It's similar to people who don't want to go pvt. and jack up their prices until they do want to. I'm rewarding the people who are serious enough to pay the big bucks but don't care if any bucks are spent otherwise.
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