so far i've been meeting the men to exchange (at coffee shops, etc). but after a couple of no shows, i think it might be easier to sell online - get payment up front, then mail the panties.

i put up an ad stating that i'd mail the panties, and most men want to pay through paypal (which i'm not ok with doing - not only because they don't allow these transactions, but also because i have a really unique name).

so i'm wondering how do you get guys to pay through alternative methods?