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    Default been wanting to dance for a few months now..ive finally hit rock bottom and need $$

    Any advice to me getting the courage to just go audition!!!? I can't live paycheck to paycheck anymore I'm so sick of it. I don't have money to go buy call new attire until I start stripping, can I just wear heels to tryout? or what Please help ladies I am desperate.

    p.s. I got my boobs done about two months ago and want to make sure thats fine to have in clubs. I live in sf area.

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    Default Re: been wanting to dance for a few months now..ive finally hit rock bottom and need

    I feel you girl. My bank account over drafted finally so I went to audition...only to get turned down. At this point I am living on borrowed money until I have a chance to audition again.

    Anyway, I'm sure your boob job is fine to have in clubs. Why wouldn't it be? For shoes, I wore some 4 inch strappy heels from Target and they were fine. You can wear civilian heels as long as the club you're auditioning at doesn't have a regulation. Call and ask. And for courage, I'll tell you that I made a REALLY big deal out of my first audition. There was about 6 years between when I first started thinking about stripping and when I actually auditioned. I was convinced I didn't look good enough or that I wouldn't be able to handle men leering at me or that I needed a friend to show me the ropes, etc. But hear me when I tell you: it is NOT a big deal. There is NOTHING to be scared of. Worst case scenario is that they say no. Well it happened to me and guess what...it was not that bad. You just go to another club until someone tells you yes. You can do this.

    If it makes you feel better you can try going to the club you want as a customer first. I did that and it helped a ton. You can see what the other girls wear, what they look like, what the customers treat them like and how the place is laid out. Plus, just being physically inside of the club puts you in a totally different mood than when you're comfortable at home hiding behind a computer screen. You feel MUCH braver once it's real and right in front of you.

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    Default Re: been wanting to dance for a few months now..ive finally hit rock bottom and need

    There's a really good thread about SF clubs in Club Chat section, by screen name BringOntheMen. Good luck!


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    Think about all the money you could be making tonight if you had just auditioned instead of starting this thread. Let that be your motivation!

    Wear whatever heels you have for your audition and buy a pair of stripper platforms as soon as you know dancing is for you.

    Did you get a bad boob job or something? Boob jobs are usually a great thing in the club. Be confident and rock your assets.

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    Default Re: been wanting to dance for a few months now..ive finally hit rock bottom and need

    Quote Originally Posted by cree66 View Post
    can I just wear heels to tryout?

    p.s. I got my boobs done about two months ago
    ^To audition, just wear any stiletto type heels that you have and a matching bra and g-string set (even if they weren't meant to be a set i.e. same colour would be fine). If you have a baby doll dress, lingerie or a short clubbing dress already then you could always wear that for the actual audition (under your normal clothes if you can or bring it with you).

    If there's a club you are interested in auditioning for-just visit the club (with some heels/dress just incase) and ask to speak to the manager. Tell them that you are looking for a job and they'll arrange an audition if they're hiring or maybe even hire you on the spot.

    I'm not sure about the SF area, but fake boobies are usually always welcome in Stripper land . There may be some info' in Club Chat about your area.

    Also, everyone heals differently, but two months should be enough time for you to get back into physical activity like dancing ! If you are worried though, just be careful on the pole, if you are learn some tricks, just in case.

    Good luck and read through Hustle Hut, The Newbie Thread and Body Business for tips and tricks
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    Default Re: been wanting to dance for a few months now..ive finally hit rock bottom and need

    I feel you girl! Same reason I'm starting. Work completely cut down on my shifts and started paying us monthly instead of bi-weekly. Couple that with being a student who is two courses away from graduating and it's not a fun situation!

    I wish you so much luck <3 xxxx

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