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    Default Hello Girls!!

    Hi I'm Tasha! I've been creepin around the camming page for a couple weeks now. Have plans to begin camming next week... So I thought I'd say hello!!

    Also, I have on question that I'm a little confused about. I've seen a lot of (good) advice given that you should not do stripping/camming/sex work/ANY work, if you can't do it sober. Well my question is, if you already have a preexisting condition, and have been taking medication or for that matter self-medicating, for years before you ever feel the appeal to doing work in the adult industry---- is it okay to do it then. For instance if a girl is on Prozak for depression do you think she should not be able to cam. Just wanted to delve a little further into that and gain some opinions... Thanks
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    I still can't understand why people care about OTHER PEOPLE'S choices that don't affect them or hurt anyone. I go with the whole "ONE DAY WE ARE ALL GOING TO BE DEAD AND DUMB CRAP YOU CARED TOO MUCH ABOUT WON'T MATTER" and then they usually come to their senses. But its true. One day we will all be dead or dying or too old to function and the things you cared too much about won't matter, and the things you didn't care enough about (like FRIENDSHIPS) will be all you regret.

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    Default Re: Hello Girls!!

    um..no. im on anti-depressants as well as suboxone and been stripping for awhile now. they just mean don't pick up a habit of medicating before work just so you'll be able to " get in the zone" because then it WILL become a big habit.

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    Just my opinion ---> if you read alot of posts on stripperweb there are girls that sip wine at work, do shots on cam, some pretend shots (of water in a vodka bottle) some real shots of alcohol, some take meds for different things, some are 420 friendly etc. I think its personal preference, alot prefer to do it without those things, some cant do it without something, just do whatever works for you (mentally, socially, medically etc)
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    There is a big difference between being "sober" and being "on medication". I would never consider taking anti-depressants to mean that you are not "sober" - you can be straight edge and still take prescription medications!! As long as they are actually prescribed to you and taken in the way that they are intended.

    The main reason that I, personally, tell girls that they should start off doing it sober, and make sure that they can always work sober, is that if you rely on alcohol, you end up drinking too much. I work 4-5 days a week, sometimes more or less. And that is usually 5 hours a shift. I drink on my nights off, and when I am done work and hanging out with people. If I was ALSO drinking at work, and before work (to "prepare") then I would get to a point where I was drinking 40-50 HOURS a week, and then some. That's just not healthy.

    Drinking every time you work also tends to lead to suppressing negative emotions, allowing your boundaries to get pushed, crossing lines you shouldn't....having a drink at work can be really great to loosen up, have fun, etc (as long as you can handle it) but NEEDING a drink is just not good news.

    Similarly, if you are taking drugs to relax, get high, etc. Same rules apply. If you are taking prozzac as part of your normal life, that is completely different.
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    Default Re: Hello Girls!!

    Hi TaTasha and welcome! I agree with the other girls that it is okay to choose to work with a slight buzz but NEEDING to be intoxicated to work is a real problem for your health and well-being. If any job is so upsetting that one needs to be intoxicated just to get through their shift that is definitely not the job for them. If you are self-medicating already- either to feel normal or recreationally- and you choose to continue to do so on cam I don't see the problem as long as it's not affecting the quality of your work (ability to make money).

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    I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety. No medications really helped except weed. However, I always do sexwork sober and if I smoke it is on my time off to relax.

    Also, a lot of medications don't mix well with alcohol and can be very dangerous. Not sure what your situation is, but wanted to throw that out there.
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    Thanks for your advice girls. I have anxiety and depression big time. I've been self-medicating with 420 for years, but at times have been on Prozak instead. When I stripped for four days last time, two years ago, I drank 3/4 days. I don't drink very much/often now, and I would definitely do this stuff sober as far as alcohol goes now. I do lingerie cleaning right now(really just clean guys homes in my underwear) and I never drink before I go there, but I do 420.
    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    I still can't understand why people care about OTHER PEOPLE'S choices that don't affect them or hurt anyone. I go with the whole "ONE DAY WE ARE ALL GOING TO BE DEAD AND DUMB CRAP YOU CARED TOO MUCH ABOUT WON'T MATTER" and then they usually come to their senses. But its true. One day we will all be dead or dying or too old to function and the things you cared too much about won't matter, and the things you didn't care enough about (like FRIENDSHIPS) will be all you regret.

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    P.S. It's my birthday today, and my sister is coming to minneapolis and renting a hotel downtown. We're gonna go trying on wigs, and clubbing and to the adult store) So excited, anyway... I have one more question!!! Do any of you know, if you make a profile of myspace for your cam personality, do you use myspace classic or myspace new?? I haven't been on there forever!!
    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    I still can't understand why people care about OTHER PEOPLE'S choices that don't affect them or hurt anyone. I go with the whole "ONE DAY WE ARE ALL GOING TO BE DEAD AND DUMB CRAP YOU CARED TOO MUCH ABOUT WON'T MATTER" and then they usually come to their senses. But its true. One day we will all be dead or dying or too old to function and the things you cared too much about won't matter, and the things you didn't care enough about (like FRIENDSHIPS) will be all you regret.

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    I don't know the answer to your question but Happy Birthday!
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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    um..no. im on anti-depressants as well as suboxone and been stripping for awhile now. they just mean don't pick up a habit of medicating before work just so you'll be able to " get in the zone" because then it WILL become a big habit.
    Holy shiznizzle,here I was thinking I'm the only camgirl that takes suboxone! yay for sobriety! I think I lurv you babay!
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    Tatasha - people still use myspace? Kidding! Yea noooo clue on what kind to use,I havent seen a myspace profile in yrrrrs lol

    Lingerie cleaning? What a cute idea! Well as long as you have all the proper safety measures in place first of course.

    Good luck camming and read read read Stripperweb til your eyeballs beg for mercy! Its literally the ONLY reason Ive been camming for more than 8 mths now,I would have totally crashed and burned without it!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    I would not waste time with MySpace honestly. I doubt it will get you any customers.


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    I agree, afaik, Myspace has been kind of dead for a while. Happy birthday, welcome, and good luck.
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    Happy birthday! And I'd also say myspace would be a total waste of time, I didn't even think it's still relevant anymore? Marketing yourself through social media is a good idea but I would say better sites to do that on would be twitter and tumblr.

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    [QUOTE=VoluptiousBriadda;2481805]Holy shiznizzle,here I was thinking I'm the only camgirl that takes suboxone! yay for sobriety! I think I lurv you babay!
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    nice! yeah, isn't it a life-saver?? i love it, just wish it was cheaper hehe.

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    [QUOTE=simone87;2482097]
    Quote Originally Posted by VoluptiousBriadda View Post
    Holy shiznizzle,here I was thinking I'm the only camgirl that takes suboxone! yay for sobriety! I think I lurv you babay!
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    nice! yeah, isn't it a life-saver?? i love it, just wish it was cheaper hehe.
    It literally saved my life,eating 50-70 pain pills a day is no bueno.Not to derail this thread,but I just started receiving generic suboxone 2 mths ago.The first time they handed it to me and told me the price I just about creamed in mah panties lol I have insurance so I dont have to pay nearly as much as I used to when I didnt (I think I was paying anywhere from $400-600 per scrip) but I was still skipping for joy for everyone else that doesnt have insurance.

    I dunno how many people I know that have genuinely wanted to get clean,but couldnt do it on their own (hey,I couldnt,opiate addication is a BITCH)- they just absolutely couldnt afford to pay upwards of $700-$800 a mth between their prescription and their mthly dr's visit.So Im as pleased as can be to see they now have a MUCH cheaper option,its about fucking time!

    Ok now,back to the show folks!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    LOL I take around 17 pills a day, mostly psych meds. I cam just fine. I'm bipolar, have panic disorder w. agoraphobia, ADHD, DID, BPD, and am drugged to hell. Cam just fine, in fact can't really get moving most days if I don't take my meds and that goes for life in general- not just camming. It's no bodies business what youre on as long as youre doing your job. I'm on controlled substances, but theyre legal and I'll be dammed if anyone is gonna try and tell me I should be camming "under the influence". I also used to do illegal drugs, altho I won't delve into detail on a public forum. I never did them right on cam, I still did my job, and did it well. No one's business but youre own. Working from your own home on your own time is a bit different from a public vanilla job IMO.
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    Seriously, Like I said- drugged to hell and ain't nobody gonna tell me to keep my ass off cam
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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    I would not waste time with MySpace honestly. I doubt it will get you any customers.
    Yeah, that's what I thought too.. Haha, I deleted my myspace probably a good three years ago.. then I was reading the camming thread and saw all this advice from girls saying cam girls should set up a myspace..I was soo confused- I must have been looking at very old posts lol, my apologies~~
    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    I still can't understand why people care about OTHER PEOPLE'S choices that don't affect them or hurt anyone. I go with the whole "ONE DAY WE ARE ALL GOING TO BE DEAD AND DUMB CRAP YOU CARED TOO MUCH ABOUT WON'T MATTER" and then they usually come to their senses. But its true. One day we will all be dead or dying or too old to function and the things you cared too much about won't matter, and the things you didn't care enough about (like FRIENDSHIPS) will be all you regret.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TaTasha View Post
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