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    The search function is being dumb so I'm sorry ahead of time for this. But whats your opinion on denying Cam2Cam? Honestly I've felt like I've lost so much business I constantly get asked that question and I just don't do cam2cam, at my husbands request. I'm not sure why but he is super uncomfortable with it. I'm not sure how I personally feel about it and I would have to actually do it to really get a personal opinion But I've felt like I've lost so much money because I get asked that ALL THE TIME and ALL THE TIME I have to say no....

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    Seriously, even in the How to Search Stripperweb thread that is stickied in this forum it tells you how to search.

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    By far the most effective method of searching SW which will show ALL the relevant threads (even with abbreviations) is to type into google "stripperweb" then your search term.



    Also when you DO find a thread that helps you, scroll all the way to bottom of the the page it'll bring up a list of 5 relevant threads from the past few years under "Similar Threads" for you to read too
    Also, your husband needs to grow up and deal with c2c. It's a big draw for a lot of customers. Try playing it off as if you don't want to get caught or something. "Sorry babe, I can't do cam2cam. It gets loud and then people hear me and might catch me doing naughty things."
    EDIT: I erased everything in the quote but the part that explains how to use google to search. I know the insite search is down.

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    The search function is playing up...along with our posting.

    I don't know which site you're on but on Adultwork I do a lot of cam2cam in private (1-2-1) paid sessions, so yes it does lose business. It's a shame when it seems to be because he has insecurities. I'd have a chat with him about it.
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    I know how to search every time I did it gave me database error or tell me it couldn't find anything relevant. I looked up cam2cam, cam to cam, c2c, sm c2c, streamate c2c, streammate c2c ect ect. even when i tried to make this post it gave me a data base error(i copied my message thank god) but thanks for opinion.

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    I agree with Katy, you should sit down with him and have a talk about what exactly bothers him about it, and try to reassure him. If you really don't want to do it, don't stress. Some girls don't do certain things. They're still going to jerk off whether you look at a grainy picture of their disembodied ween or not Unfortunately cam2cam is hugely popular, so that does mean you'll miss out on some money.




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    Quote Originally Posted by JJLights89 View Post
    I know how to search every time I did it gave me database error or tell me it couldn't find anything relevant. I looked up cam2cam, cam to cam, c2c, sm c2c, streamate c2c, streammate c2c ect ect. even when i tried to make this post it gave me a data base error(i copied my message thank god) but thanks for opinion.
    I edited the quote and deleted the section explaining the in site search leaving only the section explaining how to google search for SW threads.

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    C2C is a big part of my camming, and I know I'd lose business if I stopped accepting. A huge thing many of my highest-paying regulars have in common, is that they ALWAYS turn on their cams. It hugely enhances client-performer interaction, enabling them to not only feel "closer" to you, but you're also able to step up how much you personalize your interaction (i.e. complimenting certain things about them, asking them to do things, praising them for doing things (great for domination if you comment on how "good" or "bad" they are at something), knowing when they've spunked, and finalizing your show with them).

    If your husband is already requesting you alter your business, your way of making money for him, you need to discuss further with him. Just as various aspects of camming can be a deal-breaker for guys, various aspects of intrusions upon your business can be a deal-breaker for camgirls. If he is asking you to change how you make a living for yourself, I'd say that is a serious thing. Not necessarily a warning sign, but if not resolved it could certainly cause further problems down the line. If doesn't want you to have C2C with guys because it makes him uncomfortable, to me that's a warning sign that he may not be entirely comfortable with your work, whether you do C2C with guys or not.. I could be wrong, but I'd definitely advise having a discussion with him about your work.




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    I've heard of some people putting post-its over it so they don't have to look
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    Cam2Cam is a great selling point, i wonder why ur husband is against it, i mean he is ok with u camming but not with u watching these guys on cam? Bet he dont want u to 'fall in love' with one of ur clients, this is a sign of insecurity from his side and pretty egoistic too. I mean if my man (i am single but speaking in general) would sabotage my ability to make money i'll tell him to provide for us so i dont need to cam at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissSassyPickles View Post
    I've heard of some people putting post-its over it so they don't have to look
    I wonder why some people will do this, our clients are humans not monsters, even they not looking their best every of them has something nice u can compliment them on, i always find something nice to tell them and make them feel special, good even what i see is not something very aesthetic.

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    I hate cam to cam .... but I do it to make that money honey

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    I love C2C because guys tend to stay in pvt/exclusive longer so more money for me. I also like to see how big da dick is!
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    Quote Originally Posted by AliceFun View Post
    I wonder why some people will do this, our clients are humans not monsters, even they not looking their best every of them has something nice u can compliment them on, i always find something nice to tell them and make them feel special, good even what i see is not something very aesthetic.
    Agreeeeeeee!

    If I can't find anything at all to compliment them on, I compliment them on their cock. Never fails! (Unless they're into SPH, in which case, "pff, tiny cock!" lmao).

    Never do something you hate just for the money though! I always think it's things like which lead to midlife crisis' and nervous breakdowns and all those nasties. If you subject yourself to something in your job that you hate, but perform over an extended period of time, it will take it's toll on your quality of life mentally, even if financially you're great (and then your feelings catch up with you...) Look out for yourselves, mah bbs. <3
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    Quote Originally Posted by Incantatious View Post
    Never do something you hate just for the money though! I always think it's things like that to leads to midlife crisis' and nervous breakdowns and all those nasties. If you subject yourself to something in your job that you hate, but perform over an extended period of time, it will take it's toll on your quality of life mentally, even if financially you're great (and then your feelings catch up with you...) Look out for yourselves, mah bbs. <3
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    If it's just you're hubby you should definitely talk to him about why camming is okay but c2c isn't...My fiance isn't exactly thrilled with my camming, but he hasn't tried to put any limits on it all he's told me is "I think you should do whatever you're most comfortable doing". And sometimes c2c freaks me out, but not bad enough to not offer it completely, and it is a big part of the $$ making.

    I think even worse for me is phone...I should logically like it, less dirty talking I have to do because they're usually moaning on BUT I have an anxiety disorder and my whole life it has singled out the use of a phone for me..So whenever I get on, it's like *donthaveapanicattackdonthaveapanicattack* I instantly want to clam up. But anyways, phone is a whole different beast..
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    Quote Originally Posted by JJLights89 View Post
    The search function is being dumb so I'm sorry ahead of time for this. But whats your opinion on denying Cam2Cam? Honestly I've felt like I've lost so much business I constantly get asked that question and I just don't do cam2cam, at my husbands request. I'm not sure why but he is super uncomfortable with it. I'm not sure how I personally feel about it and I would have to actually do it to really get a personal opinion But I've felt like I've lost so much money because I get asked that ALL THE TIME and ALL THE TIME I have to say no....
    You already know and have experienced that you will lose money if you refuse cam2cam.

    I am confused to why you need to know my opinion on it?

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    you might want to add on SM the box is really small unless yo maximize their cam. It is amazing what you DO NOT see on cam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    You already know and have experienced that you will lose money if you refuse cam2cam.

    I am confused to why you need to know my opinion on it?
    that my friend is a very good point.

    (its only giving me a option to "report" and not "thanks" but thanks BB add one to your count)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilynne View Post
    I think even worse for me is phone...I should logically like it, less dirty talking I have to do because they're usually moaning on BUT I have an anxiety disorder and my whole life it has singled out the use of a phone for me..So whenever I get on, it's like *donthaveapanicattackdonthaveapanicattack* I instantly want to clam up. But anyways, phone is a whole different beast..
    lol I have disabled phone while they where trying to call and blame SM for it

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    Obviously,since I cant see nor hear your husband,I cant accurately judge why he would be feeling this way but it sounds to me like hes scared,not egotistical.How many times have yall heard a typical man ask "Is he bigger than me?" or "Was he better than me?" Most men are constantly in a pissing contest when it comes to other men and their cocks and their woman and Ive seen even the most confident of confident ask insecure questions like that.

    So he may have penis issues (even if you consider it average or big,my husband thinks hes small even though he has a perfect cock,drives me up the wall) that are in turn fueling his fear that you may be getting off to these guys and enjoying it way more than you do with him,and that you may eventually leave him one day for one of your customers.He may fear that you will see all these other dicks and realize that he isnt quite as big as what you thought and you may begin to fall out of love with him,make fun of him behind his back/lose respect for him,even have extramarital affairs IRL.

    My husband was worried when I first started camming,he would never come out and really say what was wrong but I KNEW it was his insecurities and fear that I would suddenly lose interest in him.I honestly cant blame anyone's husband/fiance/SO for worrying - it'd be stretching it pretty far to say that none of us would ever feel this way to some degree if the shoe were on the other foot.Im sure even the most secure of us would worry atleast a little bit at some point that our men were getting off like never before with ladies far more attractive than us,with better tits,ass and pussies - that they may fall in love with one of their hottie customers and leave us for them,have an affair with them,become dissatisfied with us in bed and with the relationship in general.

    Those are all valid feelings that most ppl in a relationship will have at some point,especially when you bring sex work into the picture.I mean...we are all getting naked and masturbating wildly with other men,men who can see us on their computer screen and have the ability to send us their live webcam feed as well.I think sometimes we forget that most people DONT do this for a living or have even entertained the idea - so I really try to empathize and cut the guys some slack when it comes to insecurities with our jobs.

    Lord knows I would have concerns if it were my man stripping or camming and I had the regular old vanilla job,having NEVER cammed before and not knowing that its more acting than wild crazy passionate sex all day for money.And believe me,we've been together so long that jealousy/insecurities went out the window LONG ago - but I still believe at some point I'd have to wonder WHAT IF just a lil...

    Anyways,when I saw the worry in my husbands eyes after the first few nights I started camming,and when he made a small joke about me leaving him,I knew it was time to sit him down and lay it out for him.He is literally THE MOST unjealous/laid back person Ive ever met,and hes so incredibly sweet - I want to clarify that so that no one gets the wrong impression about him.I told him I knew he was worried, whether he would ever admit it to me or not (because he was trying SOO hard to support me) and that I wanted to get some shit straight with him right that sec.I told him I havent left him for another man in 14 yrs and I damn sure wasnt going to start now,that I laugh at most of the guys in my room and find them pathetic bc theyre just freeloaders/30 sec peepers etc.That it is NOTHING BUT ACTING and that I dont derive ANY sort of pleasure from my shows (besides making money and having fun acting out fetishes/roleplay etc)

    Now this is true for me,I havent gotten off once on cam and I doubt I ever will.My clit turns to steel and I cant feel SHIT when I start masturbating on cam but thats just fine with me,I actually PREFER it that way.I made sure to look into my husband's eyes the entire time and convey just how sincere and honest I really was.I also talk about my work with him ALOT - I want him to feel included,not like Im ever hiding anything I do from him and I know it has to make him feel more reassured when I come in talking about how pathetic this or that particular person was today lol We often crack up from me recanting my shift to him and I know it helps reassure him hes still #1 in my life and always will be..I visibly saw the fear/anxiety leave his body with a huge sigh when I finally sat him down and explained that this is purely an acting job for me.I havent seen a single hint of fear/doubt/worry in his eyes or body language since that night almost 8 mths ago and I'm positive that he no longer fears he will eventually lose me-he's by far my biggest cheerleader and helps me in any and every way possible when it comes to my job.

    So maybe sit with hubby and show him some statistics? Show him how many guys log off or dont take you private when they find out you dont do C2C and attempt to equate that into some sort of $$ figure for him to see how much money you are losing.Then maybe ask why he doesnt want you to do it,explain that you arent wanting to do it so that you can orgasm to strange men's cocks all day-just that you are simply losing ALOT of customers and money by not offering C2C when almost all of your coworkers do.Most likely he wont just come out and tell you all of his fears - you'll have to guess what they are,but you should know him well enough that it shouldnt be too hard to figure out.And then just address those issues/fears without him telling you anything or you saying " I know youre afraid that Ill do this" but instead say " I want you to know that I'd NEVER do this or that etc"

    Sometimes we all just need some reassurance,especially with something that is new and foreign to us...

    Now if your husband is being a total dick about it,demeaning you in any way,treating you differently now that you are camming or acting like you are a total cumslut if you even mention the word C2C,then it sounds like issues that are way different from my husbands and if thats the case,should most likely be handled differently.But I'd give him the benefit of the doubt if hes just acting uncomfortable and try to get to the root of whats really going on inside of him and whether hes uncomfortable with what you do or just plain scared of losing you.
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    I'm blind, so i really can't see other cams, especially on SM. The idea that i'm wacthing them is all in their head.

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    I prefer C2C over performing to a black screen. The interaction is more accurate and personal, which is the reason he's camming instead of just watching any of the 1,000,000,0000 free porn sites out there. See what he is doing gives me something to talk about and respond to more easily then just hearing his voice. I can compliment the money shot, and do, even with small penis humilation guys. Plus, its better tham watching myself!

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    I honestly prefer c2c but honestly, who says you *have* to watch them? I've had a couple (luckily only a couple!) of rather unattractive guys c2c with me and I just rearrange my windows so that their cam is covered and I can't see them but they think I am still watching. Maybe that would be a strategy to consider?

    I also don't see the big deal in watching guys stroke it. Does your husband not want you to watch porn, either?

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    I agree with the other ladies on having a serious sit down with him. Ask him why it bothers him and tell him that you would only do it to bring in extra money, even better if you can hide their window. Let him know you love him and dont care about these ranom men, just their money. I dont know how long you have been married, but a strong marriage is built on trust and communication, so yes an honest talk is in order.
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    I like c2c and it usually makes them stay longer. It does make it a bit awkward when they are just staring at me... so I tell them how handsome they are, and how much I want to see their cock.... I can ignore grainy dicks and hands on my screen, but a face makes me keep glancing over to see a facial expression or try to judge how much they are liking what I'm doing.
    I also always make sure my speakers are off, and tell them I can't hear it if they talk. That's not really a problem 99.9% of the time.
    I agree you should chat with your husband. I think he will realize that he has nothing to worry about once you start accepting c2c's.




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