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    Ok so I have been crushing on this really cool customer at work. He is super cute and we have so much fun when he comes in(it usually on a slow day). However I'm kind of apprehensive to pursue him. He is a little older(37) and I'm 23. He has a daughter and I'm afraid he won't take me seriously as a long term girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Iyss View Post
    I'm afraid he won't take me seriously as a long term girlfriend.
    ^It's never a good idea to mix business with pleasure . And, if you suspect this will be the case, trust your instincts and don't put yourself in that position to begin with.
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    Default Re: Crushing on a custie!!!

    Agreed with Olive. Keep yourself distant in regards to personal lives. These are customers. I know sometimes we connect with them but it is important not to forget why we are here and what we are doing as individuals. Please consider your heart and even potentially the child's heart in mind while deciding on your next course of action.

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    Thanks guys!

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    i say use those passions to give memorable lap dances and suck that money outta him be careful..i've dated customers before and only one of them turned out ok, the rest were disasters!

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    NO, NO, NO (all capital letters to stress a point). This will turn out VERY BAD. Keep dancing for him, even crushing on him but don't take it farther.

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    For what it's worth, it would probably be better to crush on a custie than get caught up with a 'bad boy' that doesn't do anything but suck the money from you. But, with that being said, I'd keep the crush to the limitations of enjoying him at work.
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    Well I've actually never done a dance for him. He generally doesn't get lap dances. He just comes in after his soccer game to unwind before going home and hang out with the bartenders(I used to bartend). He tips well and buys everyone drinks so he's not a cheap custie trying to see a free show.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Iyss View Post
    Well I've actually never done a dance for him. He generally doesn't get lap dances.
    ^Don't let your feelings for him have an impact on your income or distract you from making money-if he doesn't get dances then don't waste your time socialising with him, unless it's quiet and you are fishing for tips .
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    Yes that is the only time I sit with him. He usually comes in on slow nights and he knows when a new customer comes in that I will leave. I like money much more than I like men. lol

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