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    Default Who the heck are you? I'm a BBW. Fuck You. :)

    When someone compliments a BBW and someone else says it doesn't count because she's fat it upsets me. It seems like whenever a bigger gal wants to feel good about herself someone wants to tear her down. Big boobs don't count because she's fat. Pretty eyes? Well hell nope, she's fat. What eyes? Is she eyeing the Twinkies? Great work ethic? Well heck, does she ever really get off that fat ass? My answer is yes I do. I work damn hard, I may not be able to strip in clubs but I'm not a waste of too much space. I'm a valid human being and I'm just as valuable as the lovely little ladies. They are gorgeous and relevant, but so am I. Give people the recognition they deserve.
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    Default Re: It's not okay. BBW oriented. A personal plea.

    i feel your pain, although im not BBW, im extremely small and skinny and i hear "eat a burger/sandwich" constantly, everyone has to comment on it. fuck them all, own your body type, and forget what they say. the BBW niche is huge so don't let it get to you. i used to hate my body but now i love it

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    Don't let anyone steal your joy. You define you! If you feel that you are drop dead motherfucking gorgeous, then you are! No justification needed!
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    Marina, No one could ever steal MY JOY. Sister I'm gorgeous. I know that. So ARE YOU.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Default Re: Who the heck are you? I'm a BBW. Fuck You. :)

    Body shape and where you gain weight is mostly genetic. People are just dumb. You get the satisfaction of laughing at their ignorance.

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    Default Re: Who the heck are you? I'm a BBW. Fuck You. :)

    Preach! It's amazing how these backhanded compliments and straight up insults can get under yours skin but at the end of the day, as long as you're happy, fuck 'em. I personally love being thicker now, since I've gone up a size I'm actually making more money and I'm not driving myself crazy and miserable trying to look a certain way. I actually think camming is a great self-esteem boost because even though mainstream society might say I don't have the ideal body or whatever I got a ton of compliments and make money with this body. Haters gonna hate but you know what?


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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    Preach! It's amazing how these backhanded compliments and straight up insults can get under yours skin but at the end of the day, as long as you're happy, fuck 'em. I personally love being thicker now, since I've gone up a size I'm actually making more money and I'm not driving myself crazy and miserable trying to look a certain way. I actually think camming is a great self-esteem boost because even though mainstream society might say I don't have the ideal body or whatever I got a ton of compliments and make money with this body. Haters gonna hate but you know what?
    I agree. I almost think the sole reason why more girls don't get into adult work like this is because they don't think they will make money because they don't think they have the ideal look or idea body.

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    It's both the great and shitty thing about camming- there will always be the loser who wants to tear you down (how deep do your issues gotta be if you need to hide behind the internet to feel secure) but there will always be the guy who thinks you're exactly what he's been looking for.
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    Foxxyredd you are such a motivator. I feel better about myself. Thank you.





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    Default Re: Who the heck are you? I'm a BBW. Fuck You. :)

    agree and a lot of "owners" turn down BBW women for nightclubs and it is a huge mistake.

    I have friend who hires as long as the person can perform, he does look for pretty of course but he has hired some not so pretty women and he has never regretted it. He feels like he is turning away money due to the fact there are men who love BBW women performing. He looks for confidence, if a person has that, she is hired. He fired one manager for turning away a BBW that he sent to club, the manger would not let her in the club. When she got in the car , she called him crying bc the manager basically laughed in her face. The owner drove to the club, fired the manager and hired the girl on the spot. The owner re hired the manager and bumped him down to asst manager @ 8.00 per hour.
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    I agree. I almost think the sole reason why more girls don't get into adult work like this is because they don't think they will make money because they don't think they have the ideal look or idea body.

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    Default Re: Who the heck are you? I'm a BBW. Fuck You. :)

    You can't win no mater what size you are. If you are skinny you must have an eating disorder, if you are larger you are fat and if you are in the middle you are blahh. I am 5'6 and 125. I always have some asshole make a stupid comment on weight or looks. Sadly it comes with the job and you have to try to not get offended by it. It's just some dickhead asshole trying to ruin your day.



    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    When someone compliments a BBW and someone else says it doesn't count because she's fat it upsets me. It seems like whenever a bigger gal wants to feel good about herself someone wants to tear her down. Big boobs don't count because she's fat. Pretty eyes? Well hell nope, she's fat. What eyes? Is she eyeing the Twinkies? Great work ethic? Well heck, does she ever really get off that fat ass? My answer is yes I do. I work damn hard, I may not be able to strip in clubs but I'm not a waste of too much space. I'm a valid human being and I'm just as valuable as the lovely little ladies. They are gorgeous and relevant, but so am I. Give people the recognition they deserve.

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    ^^^ Yes, i think everyone experience this kind of attitude if it's about weigh, skin color, location, they will pick on what they think it'll hurt us. I am sensitive about my looks and location, what can i say? Trolls will never go away. I always wonder Who the trolls are actually. Freechat is difficult to handle cause non paying members have access to our rooms and are able to see and abuse us, before when there was no freechat u'll get only the paying members that were into you, the abuse level was very low. Now is different, we have to put up with the haters, this is a big turn off for me as well and i wish people would not be soo mean but i am idealistic, they'll continue to troll and be mean no matter what. All my love and support for u sweetie!!

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