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    Default Is this customer humoring me?/Going through the motions.

    Has anyone else ever done a cam show and felt like "that was crap" compared to what they usually do. The customer seems happy and I've I gotten my money but I sometimes feel that wasn't my best. I never try to do less than my best on purpose but some days I'm slightly not as into it. Or I'm just physically tired from doing show after show and take on another to not turn down money sometimes when I'm burnt out.

    I mean money is money but does anyone every feels like a customer gives them money sometimes repeatedly as a sort of "I think you're cute" thing than based on the quality of the cam show.


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    Default Re: Is this customer humoring me?/Going through the motions.

    Yes and the same goes for my movie clips LOL.
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    Default Re: Is this customer humoring me?/Going through the motions.

    LOL. I don't feel as guilty then. haha

    Making clips makes me nervous.lol For some reason even though I have good equipment/lighting and put good effort I always feel like they suck. Like a bad youtube video.lol

    It's like as if my mom was trying to make money off selling videos of my birthday parties as a kid. When I make clips it feel like what I'm making is so unrelevant in a way.


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    Maybe make clips that you find fun and want to make just for the sake of it. I often think my clips suck straight after I've made them, then when I come round to uploading them I feel like they're not so bad. There are so many things that they can see in a clip that makes them want to buy it. I'm really limited with where I can film, so I'm conscious the my environment isn't ideal but some won't care and others may like the homey feel.
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    Thanks :] Doing what I like anyway should translate much better. I guess I don't find myself all that interesting but I'm sure others feel the same way too yet they have a audience. One girl just sells clips of her talking about different topics like a vlog.

    I'm limited too. But I prefer to be in the same location so things couldn't be pieced together. The loners we entertain probably appreciate hominess.lol


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    Default Re: Is this customer humoring me?/Going through the motions.

    i used to feel like that to a point where i stopped doing shows because i became OCD about the quality after being rated so highly in the free chat i thought id dissapoint. it cost me a lot of money and made me really depressed. im back on my feet now and i have an 'i dont give a shit' attitude where i really dont give a shit, i just go full on actress and perform to my best and if they leave... they leave. life goes on.

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    It sounds like you have a classic case of "perfectionism". I do too! I made a thread asking for advice and got some amazing replies, you should read it: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...w-do-you-deal-!
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    Default Re: Is this customer humoring me?/Going through the motions.

    i feel like that a lot, especially when its regulars paying, like you said they just think im cute and it doesn't count and i feel like im not doing my best and need to switch things up a bit

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissSassyPickles View Post
    It sounds like you have a classic case of "perfectionism". I do too! I made a thread asking for advice and got some amazing replies, you should read it: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...w-do-you-deal-!
    Thanks for sharing that :]
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    i used to feel like that to a point where i stopped doing shows because i became OCD about the quality after being rated so highly in the free chat i thought id dissapoint. it cost me a lot of money and made me really depressed. im back on my feet now and i have an 'i dont give a shit' attitude where i really dont give a shit, i just go full on actress and perform to my best and if they leave... they leave. life goes on.
    I took a long break too due to camming anxiety once.lol But thinking of all the money I missed out on sucked.

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    i feel like that a lot, especially when its regulars paying, like you said they just think im cute and it doesn't count and i feel like im not doing my best and need to switch things up a bit
    I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels like that. I think I feel most confident when the guy is completely enamored with me. And I dominate the situation. But if the guy is very confident himself it makes me feel me feel a little embarrassed. Like my pay was a consolation prize for attempting.

    But money is money. I can't lose if I simply show up. I can't let my thoughts distract me.


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