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    Default Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    I want to become a camgirl, but I have a few questions. The first one is the one in the title, do you guys think is a good idea to tell the costumers that I am virgin? Is that a turn on or a turn off? The second one is that I am applying to MyFreecams right now, what do they expect from you at the Please tell us about yourself question? And what kind of pictures? Do all of them need to be nude and full body pictures?
    I am really sorry if someone asked those things before, but I looked for it and I could not find.
    And thank you anyone who is patient enough to help a newbie :)

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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    No offense but..ARE YOU SERIOUS?!?!?!?!

    Make your cam name VIRGIN NINA.
    Put on your profile in big, bold letters "I AM A VIRGIN".
    tell literally everyone in your cam room that you are a virgin.
    then charge ridiculous amounts of money just for a PEAK of your virgin vagina.
    When you finally decide to lose your virgnity, film it and sell the video for $250 a pop.

    I would seriously do anything to be able to go back in time and tell my one-week-away-from-18-year old self to not have sex with that guy, to wait a week, and become a cam girl. There is a cam girl right now who's a virgin with an intact hymen with a huuuge following. When she finally does have sex she's going to be rich.


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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    ^ what she said. Go for it.







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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    thank you guys
    I really did not knew since some guys may ask for me to finger with more than one finger, and it hurts quite a bit :p

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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    "Tee hee. I can't stick in more than one finger cuz it hurts. My tiny little virgin pussy can't take it. Tee hee" WORK IT


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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    Agreed with everyone. Personally I wish I auctioned off my virginity instead of having sex with some random guy because I knew it was going to hurt and wanted to "get it over with."
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    ^^ I did the same thing,oh to be able to go back and have a LONG talk with that girl from so long ago...

    Nina,I second (or is it 30th?) what Jaana said and like she said,you'd be swimming in $$ if you filmed losing your virginity.If you're entertaining that idea,I know since it will be your first time you're probably gonna be nervous as hell and may feel too embarrassed and/or self-conscious to record it but keep in mind that this is what guys WANT to see.They know the drill and know you most likely wont be *sex goddess on fire* your first time but that's what turns them on,besides your cherry being popped of course.

    I'm sure you've already thought of this but remember that you are going to have guys CONSTANTLY begging you to pop your cherry for them in private/exclusive.Is it considered losing your virginity if you use a dildo and break your hymen yourself ladies? Im guessing the answer would be you TECHNICALLY wouldnt be a virgin since the hymen was broken during a sexual act but would still be considered a virgin since you hadn't had sex with another person yet? So a half-virgin?LOL.I dunno,this could be hotly debated,Im sure! I guess that's Briadda's trivia question of the day!

    ANYWAYS - the point I'm getting at is,you're going to have tons of guys begging,possibly quite a few trying to persuade you with LARGE amounts of cash but keep in mind that once its done,its DONE.You cant play the virgin card any longer and your appeal will be lost on many of them (not all,as Im sure you will earn yourself QUITE a few regulars who will love to take you private after you lose it) since your whole allure is that you are still completely "pure and untouched".

    So dont rush in and lose your virginity right off the bat just bc a customer waves $500 in your face - milk it,drag it out for ALL that its worth.Believe me,if they are willing to pay BIG bucks for you to pop it when you first start (and if they actually really HAVE that money they're so eager to spend),they'll end up paying just about any amount for you to finally do it if you drag it out quite awhile.Im sure there's an expiration - at some point,big spenders may become uninterested if they believe you will NEVER do it or are dragging it out way too long- but you'll always have new customers that havent been waiting months like some have.So take your time girl,you have all the time in the world and you're gonna bank every min of it,Im sure.Take your time bc the money wont be as good once you finally "give in"..

    That being said,besides just filming it to sell later,you can do it live as well and charge a RIDICULOUS amount for the privilege of watching it happen in real time.And I mean RIDICULOUS. Im not sure what would make you more money-setting it at an absolutely ridiculous amount like in the thousands and letting one lucky viewer watch by Skype etc or charging a lower yet still REALLY expensive rate and letting more than one guy watch?

    Obviously,this is an unfamiliar field for me so I cant tell you exactly what you SHOULD do,only just point out some of the options that you do have.Im sure there are many more I havent even thought of.I'd research the SHIT out of this though - I mean,hours and hours,days and days worth of research and find out what other virgins are doing,what others have already done,what some have been able to charge etc.And keep in mind that just bc one or several virgins charged X amount,DOESNT mean that YOU have to charge that! Remember what you have is so highly sought after that men will pay amounts that you would never even dream possible - so dont doubt your worth and DONT SELL YOURSELF SHORT! SOMEONE will pay WHATEVER you ask!

    Good luck to you girl,Im sooo excited for you,I almost have butterflies like its MY first time,except the butterflies are from the $$$ signs in my eyes and not from being nervous LOL! You lucky,lucky,SMART girl,you!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    I am not virgin but i cant stick more than one finger either! Take many pictures of your vayjay wwith intact hymene, maaany closeups as guys will go crazy and wanna buy! maybe make some videos where you show a close up of your hymene, telling guys blah blah... you might wanna keep those for when you are no longer virgin





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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    i think its a turn on for guys. but i think a lot of guys won't believe you and that trying to convince them could become boring real fast. i think its a fetish for a lot of guys. give it a try it cant hurt. i think its a good idea.

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    ^^ She could go to the dr for an exam and get a signed statement that she was still a virgin as of whatever date she went.I've seen a few virgins around the web do this - some even had them notarized lol But of course,guys could always argue that she lost her virginity after she went to the dr or that its just a forgery but I'm sure there are other ways to prove her virginity that Im not thinking of.Backing it up would be the way to go as far as proving you're the "real deal" OP,so I'd def do some major research on that as well.Good luck!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    t is still so weird for me that in real life when you say to a guy that u are a virgin, probably you will never see him again, coz they think that being with a girl for the first time and take away her virginity is too complicated.
    But in the virtual life I think is the most precious gift you can offer for a lot lot lot!!!!
    If I were you i wouldnt sell it for cheap. I would make them guy to tip you ti get at least the chance to know you better then they can tip a lot to get you even naked....then even more to use fingers maybe and for the actual performance i would ask for a ridiculosly high price in a one on one action mabe on skyp i dunno how u plan that
    and i would record that, and sell that video for at least 300 bucks!

    U know im really dreamy so this theory might be wrong, but the way I see how top top it girls of MFC are working it is all based on that the guys want the girls to be only theirs. And they act like animals, the toughest one wins the prize!
    So based on that I think you can milk them by u being a virgin like crazy!!!

    P.S.: You have no idea of how much I respect you for keeping it! <3<3<3<3<3 and the best of luck for u sweety

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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    http://defloration.com/ Oh I almost forgot! I consider this site as a fetish site but, there are useful tips on for example the confirmation of virginity and stuff like that! XOXO

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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    As mentioned it will be a selling point for a lot of guys. Play up your innocence, let them know you are a virgin but don't harp on it to the point where it is your whole identity. Charge big for everything you do in public shows and vids IF you decide to make them. Now having said that don't let the fact that you are a virgin become your only selling point. Cultivate a general good girl next door image, because what do guys who love a a virgin love just as much? Thinking they are the one who made a girl go bad. that will also allow you some wiggle room with your persona if you need it. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    Hello
    When I cammed last year I had virgin in my screenname. Having virgin in my screen name is helpwhat brought the guys to my room. It is a niche/category. I cammed on MFC and did better then on Streamate because the encorder did not work well on my computer I did not have toys ( I just order hitachi last week). It will work in your favor. I do not think it will be a good idea to use toys to penetrate yourself, I remember last year another girl had virgin in screename and was using dildo and the guys accuse her of lying and was being mean and rude. I brought a dildo but I will only use it to make bj videos and shows. I will get to camming next week. Good Luck!
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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    Thank you girls, seriously. You were all very nice and helpful, I am way more confident now ^^

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    Default Re: Being a virgin, a turn on or a turn off?

    being a virgin is something most guys would find appealing

    but i don't think most guys would believe you and see it as something you say just to earn extra $$$
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