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    I've been in and out thinking of trying camming for a while now since I've not managed to get any sort of other employment and the dancing situation for me has been a fail. But my big problem is what do I do about my young son (he's four months old) I don't want to leave him alone in his room for long periods of time while I'm doing this, and nobody's going to watch him for me if I'm at home... So what do girls with small children do? I don't want to have him around where if he starts crying people are going to hear it and I don't want people on these sites to be able to see him..... so should I just try to keep him out of cam range and close it if he needs some attention or should I just forget the whole thing? I'm not really planning on masturbating with him in the room, the idea of this is just a no for me, but really just chatting with people, dancing around and whatnot. I don't mind him being in my room while I try to work out on my pole.

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    I do it during nap time and after they go to bed. I have 2 year old twins, but would not be comfortable doing this line of work with them awake. I'm fairly new to this. And I wouldn't recommend having him in the room with you and definitely allowed to be on cam!

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    I have twins too that are 3 and when I do have them with me, I cam while theyre sleep and in their own room, even though sometimes one of them wakes up crying and screaming because she has nightmares and I just log off quickly and go check on her. Idk if they can hear the crying or not but the guys never say anything. But even as a baby I wouldn't have them in the same room as me while camming, just weird. Hes a baby and it shouldn't be hard just work around his sleep. Especially if he has a secure crib, just go check on him every hour. Whens hes bigger itll be even harder to cam unless you put him in daycare so enjoy now, plus youre lactating and definitely want to bank on that

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    I have a 20 month old and I cam at night after her and her daddy goes to sleep. The rough part for me is that my daughter is teething so sometimes she wakes up a few times a night and thus in turn, wakes dad up.Last year, I was still sleep training her and that was rough! I would have to stop camming and try and put her back down, and sometimes it would take an hour! She isn't a good sleeper, she wakes up really easy. And on top of it, she only naps like 30 min at a time! Her dad would try to put her to sleep, but she would end up crying the whole time. I guess theres nobody like mommy!Camming is my only income; the bf works a solid job. We are considering taking the little one to daycare so that I can cam during the day. I would def not cam with the little one in the room and one thing with kids is they really thrive on routine. So set yourself up with a daily routine and it will make your camming life sooo much easier.Also, you coukd use a baby monitor and keep it really low while you cam so that you can hear if baby needs you. My computer picks up my voice, and usually cancels out background noise esp if you keep the mic low. Play w your computer's settings. It might help.

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    Yup,naptime is def the way to go.Im sure there are some ladies that leave their babies alone in another room while baby is awake but that idea always makes me cringe.Sooo potentially dangerous,even if they arent crawling yet,not to mention lonely - they need interaction especially once they start getting out of that sleeping constantly,waking only to eat and poop newborn stage and obviously theres just no way to give them that interaction/attention if mom is working in the other rm.He should still be taking long naps or LOTS of shorter naps at only 4 mths so I think its def do-able! Obviously,all you can do is try and see if its feasible for you!

    Keep in mind that if you keep him in the room with you while you're in free chat/public chat and just dancing,talking etc there will come a point when someone is going to want to take you private or see you naked (if you try MFC or one of those type sites for example) since that's obviously where we make most of our money and it may be extremely difficult or lose you your customer if you have to say "hang on!" and rush off screen to put him in his crib or bouncer.When you come back,the guy that took you private may be gone by then or pissed that he had to wait since hes spending $$ per min.

    Not to mention it may not be just a smooth transition from cam-room to other room- you can always run into potential problems such as your son screaming his head off the sec you take him into the other room bc he was happy/comfortable where he was or he could start crying hysterically the sec you leave the other room.Or he could start spitting up,you may realize he had a bomb go off in his diaper and poo is now running down his leg,refuses to go in bouncer,crib,swing etc and becomes so upset you cant leave him alone etc.Million potential scenarios there LOL!

    If you use the search here,there are TONS of other threads about camming with babies,small children in the house.You should be able to find a WEALTH of information pertaining to your situation,possibly some ideas/points that have not been mentioned already.You can also do a search on google by typing in Stripperweb + camming with children or whatever other variation of that you want to try.

    Good luck hun!!

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    Camming while the kids are asleep seems to be pretty standard - have you considered PSO work and filming clips? Clips can be an income entirely on their own, and you don't have to worry about it then - film in 3-5min increments, and you can stop and re-film something if you are interrupted by crying.
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    I have a five year old step daughter. I know that is an older age and she goes to school but there are times she doesn't have school. I mainly just stick to clips and some PSO work. I do cam when she is sleeping at night or when my husband is home watching her.


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    Best time for me is when they are asleep and their dad is home to take care of them. Sometimes on the weekend I can get different times in if he takes the kids out for a few hours.

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    I have a six month old so I know how little the "nap time" advice really helps. Even if your baby has a schedule he can still wake up and it seems you're not for letting him cry alone without assistance.

    I've had to take on a live in nanny and had I not, I would have had to put her in daycare. It is ABSOLUTELY impossible for me to cam while being soley responsible for my baby. I tried one time at night when she ALWAYS sleeps thru the night. She woke up. Of course, that's just my luck. And I don't do CIO AT ALL, EVER. I was in a gold show and lost out on money with a show 80% completed.

    I suppose another option may be to have him in the room out of view with no sound, but he is reaching an age where his naps will be less frequent and shorter (if he hasn't already) and on top of growth spurts and wonder weeks, I could have never gotten any work done from that age to now without childcare.

    The only thing I could do was work telepass. Telepass.cc Be sure to check out the threads about it, there are lots of not so nice things said about the company but they did pay me on time so there's that.

    ETA: OH I did clips too, I would try and record as much as possible while she slept, then upload and such when she was eating.
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    I have to agree nap time camming is basically impossible, the second you get rolling they wake up, and you can't exactly log out mid pvt and keep the customer. I started camming when my son was 8 weeks and it worked out fine with my husband watching him, but he's a year now and is quite the chatterbox. I've had to switch to just clips because of it, and its quite difficult to even get 5 minutes of quiet to record. It's the only thing that works for me though. I film about 6 hours a week, and I make more than quadrouple what I did camming 4-6 hours a day.

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    I have a 3 month old. I work when she sleeps at night. She sleeps in her own room but I have a baby cam monitor, so I am able to watch her on her own cam while I work. So far this method works out well for me.

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    While this is a bit off topic, it should probably be pointed out that most family courts and state child welfare departments consider camming to be 'production of pornography' from a technical standpoint. As such, if given a reason to discover a mom doing cam work in the same location where a child resides, the potential exposure of the minor child to said 'pornography' could be construed as endangering a minor.

    While the probability of adult cam work from home being discovered and brought to the attention of a family court or child welfare dep't at random is essentially zero, it could very well happen as the result of a 3rd party ... i.e. an ex-husband, an intrusive teacher, a disgruntled neighbor, a nosey landlord etc. I don't mean to cause any undue concern, but you should be aware of this possibility when camming from the same location where a child also lives.

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    I cam overnight while my 3 year old sleeps, or at least this is what I attempt to do. If you are worried about a lack of sleep, trying napping when your little one is doing the same during the day. Your body may need to adjust, but overnight is the way to go. Then again, your 4 month old may not be sleeping overnight, so nap time would be the route to go. I agree that you should work while they are sleeping. Keep them out of range, and log off when they are up. I love working from home, so I can easily get right off from working and back in Mommy mode if my son needs me. GOOD LUCK!

    ETA: As far as the nap suggestions go, they might be useful. Some babies do sleep pretty hard during nap time. My son was on a 3 hour, 3 nap per day schedule for several months. He also slept through most of the night. Though some of you are right, the nap advice might not work if the baby is not a long sleeper... Again, good luck to the OP! You can do it
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    If no one is there to watch the baby, don't do it while he/she is awake. Even if he/she seems perfectly content on their playmat, what if there's a problem? Babies need someone around, someone they can hear or see. Babies get lonely.... Your cam customers do not need to hear your baby crying, that opens a whole can of worms. I used to do a different line of vanilla phone work from home, mostly at night after bedtime, but if I had a 30-min day shift, I would ask my oldest (9 at the time) to watch the baby. I took the most beautiful pic of her holding him asleep after that shift. He looked so content. Camming can get very hectic..you can risk bad reviews if you are distracted with someone else, and if you are distracted with camming, you are neglecting your child who is awake.

    Wait until naptime, jump on quick, make what you can then pay attention to your baby.


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    Oh wow thank you so much for all your replies... it's really a lot to think about and all the things I was worried about before def are backed up as being totally justified and not me being a worry-wort... doing it at night is not an option as I don't believe baby daddy will be okay with me doing this type of work since it's quite a different thing from working in the club (an environment he knows well and knows it's mostly talking/sales/dancing) plus me having childrens services in my shit already makes this seem more of a risk than not.... maybe I'll keep exploring it a bit but it doesn't seem to be an option atm since his naptime is completely sporadic and if i attempt to move him once he's started napping he'll most likely just wake up and stay awake (most of his naps are only 5-10min anyways)

    so since being an active model on a cam site isn't seeming to be a viable option atm what information can i get about just being on a webcam and simply chatting with random people nothing sexual/no nudity ect and having a site where people can purchase photos/videos. what sites would be good for G/PG rated cam/chatting and what sites would be good for allowing people to purchase videos/photos?

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    Quote Originally Posted by questella View Post
    so since being an active model on a cam site isn't seeming to be a viable option atm what information can i get about just being on a webcam and simply chatting with random people nothing sexual/no nudity ect and having a site where people can purchase photos/videos. what sites would be good for G/PG rated cam/chatting and what sites would be good for allowing people to purchase videos/photos?
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    i was looking into mfc since it seems many girls on there don't do privates and ur not "supposed too" do sexual stuff in the 'free chat' and sell videos/etc

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    Thanks for this thread - I am struggling with this also- the baby is a 10 minute power napper during the day - she is sleeping most of the night now but I am so tired from running all day that I dont have the energy to cam at night

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