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    hey SW ladies ,
    so maybe we touched on this. maybe we didnt but this has been getting on my last nerve for a while. i work at a kinda middle level urban club, its far from upscale but at least it isnt like some of the hell holes ive seen. its been a year now since i started dancing and my main compliant has been these female customers . like i dont get it ... you come in with all your girls like this is sex in the city .. you get your one drink and you SIT AND DO NOTHING! . they're not tipping not spending any money past that first manditory drink and then you point and judge every dancer that comes out on stage. It has become so bad that it makes the male customers uncomfortable .A group of girls had a 2 males friends and one guy comes up to tip me a 20$ when 2 of the females proclaim "dont tip her ..we dont like her,she boring!" .I'm NOT here for the ladies i make that very clear. granted there are very giving female customers and i love them because they realize that this is not easy. but the rest of them need to stay out .
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    ... I don't know about the other girls around here, but hell! I'd be tipping too! <.< I can imagine that the more judgmental eye of another female/s would be daunting and affect overall performance. Just work the room and try to ignore them, in my opinion. Maybe mention to the manager that those particular girls were being disrespectful to the strippers? Perhaps the manager would say something to them and/or make them feel unwelcome.

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    Ugh, Icannot stand judgmental girls watching everything you do, its so annoying really. It used to effect me more so when I was new then now but it still gets to me, I wish they would just keep the girls out unless they are cool, no jealous girls plz. Then there are the vanilla workers that come in with a dude and man they are the worst!

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    sorry you had to deal with that. I've actually seen that happen to a friend of mine a couple of times and it sucks.

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    Bitches need to read this before going to a Strip Club: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ale-customers)

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Slide Show with descriptions/instructions below the individual slides:
    http://thegloss.com/sex-and-dating/i...rip-clubs-920/

    My favorite Slide is #7: Be nice! And polite!
    "There's always a group of bros being gross to the ladies at a strip club. They are horrible people. Just because someone is naked doesn't mean your manners go out the window. That nude, gyrating entity is still a person and, no matter what, you better not be an asshole."


    I can add a bit more insight to the matter, even though I cannot draw. Sorry, you'll have to go illustration-less.


    #11: Bring money. Small bills, large bills, and everything in between.

    #12: Come in with a good attitude. Strip clubs are happy places with friendly, outgoing workers**(more on this later on). Strippers are there to entertain you.

    **Strippers pay to work. Strippers pay percentages of dances, room fees, a house fee, and are obligated to tip DJ's, housemoms, hair/makeup staff, bouncers, management, and a plethora of other expenses for the pleasure of performing for you. We don't get a salary. We are not employees. The fees strippers pay per night range anywhere from $20-$300+ per shift.

    #13: Don't be afraid to ask a dancer that you fancy for a dance. Some strippers avoid female customers because of prior bad experiences with jealous, horonary, bitchy female custies. If you want to purchase a dance from a particular girl, approach her or ask one of your friends to bring her over your way.

    #14: Tip. Tip on stage. Tip for dances. Tip for a strippers time if you feel like chatting for a while.

    #15: Don't refuse dances if your friends (boyfriend/husband) buy them for you. I've gotten paid upfront to give a woman a dance and then she suddenly turns into Polly-Prude-Fest. It's annoying. I either have to return the money or waste valuable time convincing inordinately bashful women to let me do the job I was paid for. It takes only 3-4 minutes to perform a dance. Strippers respect your boundaries and want you to enjoy yourself.

    #16: Drinks. Offer a dancer a drink if you're getting bottle service. Offer to buy dancers a drink if you want to hang out with them for a while between dances. Also, see #14... tipping is always appreciated.

    #17: Decline dances politely. Not every stripper is going to be your cup of tea. That is just fine. If a stripper offers a dance simply say: "No thank you." If/When she persists say: "I'm not interested, but thanks for asking." The famous "maybe later" line is overused. If you really have no interest in getting a dance from a particular stripper just say "Not tonight. Thanks." If you're being pestered relentlessly speak to a security staff member about the offending performer.

    #18: Don't try to steal the spotlight. Ladies, this is for your own good. Snarky comments have no place in the strip club. Insults and put-downs reek of desperation. If you say something disparaging at a strippers expense you are projecting your own insecurities. Don't try and drunkenly attempt to climb on stage and "show these strippers how it's done." Don't. Just don't.

    #19: Abide by the rules. The same rules apply to men/women/transgendered-people/etc. Just because you have boobs you can't touch/bite/lick/grope/scratch/smack a strippers boobs or any other part of her body if the club is non-contact. The rules in clubs are often bent for female customers, yes. However, you should let the dancer dictate her boundaries rather than trying to "get away with" some funny-business.

    #20: Set your boundaries. If you feel uncomfortable, if the dance is getting outrageous, if a dancer is hurting you somehow... speak up! Say "please don't do that". Easy right?

    #21: Enjoy yourself. Strip clubs are absurd, fun, silly, entertaining places. Even if you don't want to purchase a VIP Room that night you can certainly pick up a few sexy moves, get a hot dance, and see some stunning performances. It will certainly be a night to remember for years to come.



    There is a very important rule I need to mention as well. The cardinal rule for female customers (should they decide to wear a skirt or a dress) is to ALWAYS WEAR UNDERWEAR. Strippers do not appreciate surprise-vagina-flashes.

    Thank you, ladies! See you at the club.

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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    I've been to a stripclub only once as a customer, with a co-dancer friend and my bf. We were nice and sat in the front row for a while and tipped generously and were cheery to the girls. When we sat in the back, I know that my friend and I would comment on the dancers quietly, but not in a mean way, you know? Like, "oh, she must be the token white girl. They sound proud of her." or "wow she looks just like so-and-so from our club" or "her hair looks expensive, I like it a lot" or "oh I have that same outfit". I think a lot of us put up a defensive wall when female patrons come in because of a couple past experiences, but in most of what I see/hear, they're all either just shy or/and generally appreciative. Shy as in too shy to walk up and tip, or be chatty with us, etc. I mean, walking into a building full of naked, vagina-waggling women is REALLY disarming if you're not a dancer. They're out of their territory and aren't sure how to act. Most of the time, no meanness is meant by not buying drinks/dances or tipping, and when they talk, they're often saying neutral or even nice things, in my experience. We just get defensive and assume the worst, which affects how we treat them, which in turn affects how they treat us. I don't want to smile at someone who's mean muggin' me from across the room! And boy did I get mugged when I went as a custy! Just keep an open mind with them and motorboat/molest their boobies to freak them out, both because boobs are great and you should motorboat every pair you're available to, and it's their rightful treatment for coming to the stripclub with boobs attached to them.

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    *there ARE rude girls and they stink, but it's not all of them!

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    ugh i do not understand this @ all. before i started dancing I had only stepped into a strip club TWO TIMES and both times i tipped every single girl onstage, some more than others, but i tipped them all nonetheless. it's common courtesy.

    on a brighter note -- i worked last week and on my first set of the night there were these two girls getting drunk near the stage who @ first appearances didn't seem very friendly but ended up making it rain $200 on me (not to mention several other girls)!!!! they were former dancers.... LOVED THEM.
    Unsophisticated in the finest sense of the word.

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    I have been lucky! We don't get females in our club very often and when we do, they are normally actually very generous and actually encourage people to tip including their boyfriends. I have only had a couple groups like the ones you described. One was a group of girls spitting on the stage...nice right?

    One thing to point out is....
    Women are very intimidated by other beautiful women. Especially ones who look better than them and are getting a lot of attention. The majority of women also love to stereotype us as strippers. The best thing I think us strippers can do is just be nice to them and kill them with kindness. A lot of times women will be hesitant to come up to my stage and then they will decide to, and they seem much cooler with me after I approach them and talk to them. I think its because there are so many stereotypes of strippers put into women's heads!

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    Quote Originally Posted by hollywood6 View Post

    One thing to point out is....
    Women are very intimidated by other beautiful women. Especially ones who look better than them and are getting a lot of attention. The majority of women also love to stereotype us as strippers. The best thing I think us strippers can do is just be nice to them and kill them with kindness. A lot of times women will be hesitant to come up to my stage and then they will decide to, and they seem much cooler with me after I approach them and talk to them. I think its because there are so many stereotypes of strippers put into women's heads!
    Exactly! Especially if it's a woman who is usually the center of attention herself!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ToeOfTheCamel View Post
    I think a lot of us put up a defensive wall when female patrons come in because of a couple past experiences, but in most of what I see/hear, they're all either just shy or/and generally appreciative.
    This right here! I totally agree. Although there are a few straight up bitches who come in that are just plain rude no matter what, I think ^^this goes for the majority of females. I think intimidation is one of the biggest factors in it.

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    Yep. We all compete with each other on some level at work or not (most of us). All girls would like to be The Cute One, The Nice Butt, The Nice Body, etc. But they don't all realize they don't need to do that in the SC - the men are there to see US! It's weird. That's why I think it helps their mentality to fondle them when they sit at my stage because it puts the spotlight back on them for a minute AND makes me look more fun

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    ^^I do this too, or let them come up on stage at clubs that allow it so I look like a ton of fun and custies go crazy tiping me wayyy more then they would if it was only me and I am considered one of the hottest girls in the club (nt to sound like that but,,)

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    Happened to me
    Some woman can be whiny bitches

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    like i dont get it ... you come in with all your girls like this is sex in the city
    ^ This is true!

    I try to avoid clubs that are friendly with couples/female customers for this very reason. I've met some nice female customers, but more often than not I've seen the following:

    -Groups of women who think it's cool and edgy to be somewhere that is taboo.

    -Women with their guy friends who want to seem down with the scene and be "one of the guys". I was trying to close a sale on one guy when his drunk female friend runs up and says "No! No lapdances for you!" Well, thanks lady but you must have forgotten you're in a fucking strip club.

    -Women who come in with their boyfriend or husband in an attempt to impress them, gets drunk and then starts acting slutty and grinding the guy right on the floor.

    -The girl that gets dragged in by everyone else. She is obviously jealous of the dancers and makes critical comments within earshot about every single girl that goes on stage. This girl had her cell phone stolen by the end of the night by the way.

    There goes my rant. But yes, while lurking I read a much older thread saying that since stripping has become more mainstream, now this stuff is happening and hurting our business.

    Edit: Forgot to add, and on top of it all they don't tip!!

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    I remember the first time I went into a strip club as a customer (before I had ever worked in one), and lemme tell you I was terrified. I had no idea what to expect (like, not a single clue), what to do, and generally just tried to get comfortable (I felt uncomfortable not because of jealousy towards the dancers, but uncomfortable because the whole experience was a lot to take in). I actually remember asking a dancer (who I ended up getting dances from) how strip clubs work. She was nice about it all, and probably could tell I was nervous. Her acting like a normal girl during our chat (instead of some sexpot) and educating me, made me more comfortable and not intimidated or embarrassed, and I ended up having a lot of fun that night.

    I also remember watching my boyfriend at the time get a dance from a smoking hot dancer. Again, for a first time female customer this can be hard to handle. So I do try and keep these things in mind when I go up to couples or female customers.

    Having said this; besides the rude and pathetic female custys (they know who they are, and they shouldn't come into our place of work and try to rip us a new one...those type of people I just kill them with kindness...or give their boyfriend an extra sexy smile or boob flash, lol), I really try and approach nice female custys like I'm their shy, bi-curious BFF. And try to be as unintimidating as possible. Because they just be blissfully ignorant as to what to do, or shy/intimidated/embarrassed, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Liv. View Post
    one guy comes up to tip me a 20$ when 2 of the females proclaim "dont tip her ..we dont like her,she boring!" .
    ^They are just showing how immature, insecure and petty they are by doing that. It is not a reflection of you! Truth be told, they probably won't let their friends or partners tip any of the girls out of spite and jealously. Don't let it get to you, ignore it and them and focus on the interested customers and making money .

    Hang in there and if they are being too disrespectful and not spending mention it to management or security (they will probably only have a word with them, if that, but it may "shut them up" or prompt them to leave).
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    I wish that they would treat female customers like rabid dogs. IME most of them need to be quarantined and contained for observation.

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    i have to admit i generally dislike female customers..jealous girlfriends mascarading around as chill and down with their guys going in but really just want to keep an eye on him..and get jealous of us..and feel uncomfortable and threatened so they just transfer that onto us and start attacking and being catty. maybe 1 in 20 female customer will actually enjoy the dancers and pay us!! even when i try and give them all the attention ( which i don't even like, i find it akward and a cliche hustle) they just act akward and almost grossed out by us. what i REALLy hate is when they think we like them touching us because they are female..nooo, you still need to tip and keep your mits to your damn self, i don't care if you have a vagina or not

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    i have to admit i generally dislike female customers..jealous girlfriends mascarading around as chill and down with their guys going in but really just want to keep an eye on him..and get jealous of us..and feel uncomfortable and threatened so they just transfer that onto us and start attacking and being catty. maybe 1 in 20 female customer will actually enjoy the dancers and pay us!! even when i try and give them all the attention ( which i don't even like, i find it akward and a cliche hustle) they just act akward and almost grossed out by us. what i REALLy hate is when they think we like them touching us because they are female..nooo, you still need to tip and keep your mits to your damn self, i don't care if you have a vagina or not
    Yes I can't stand when the female customers come up and try to touch me or there boyfriends insist that they touch me. A girl came up to me and was like my boyfriend would like if I touched you it would make him happy. I was like hunny this Is not make a wish fund.
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    #18: Don't try and drunkenly attempt to climb on stage and "show these strippers how it's done." Don't. Just don't.

    Lord, the shows we've seen from this could be a thread all it's own. I've seen a very let us say 'round' rolly-polly girl get up and stand on her head (& try to do some ass gyrations) blonde porn lookin chicks peel off their panties (in a topless only club..and she had on these really tight pants that got stuck on her shoes & just kinda layed on the stage while her friend wrangled with them for 10 minutes..) a beautiful red head dressed for some formal affair get up and do some ballerina shit (that one was kind of a neat diversion..)

    Anyhow. I'm keyed in more with the chicks saying that female customers are often out of their element & kind of nervous. Often times girls I've seen watching from across the room that look sulky I'll go over to and sweet talk a bit, it puts them at ease & often gets me a tip.

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    I'm also a female custie, and when I go, I go with the intention of stage tipping although I had gotten dances. I I look like a snotty stuck up at glance, but I'm really not; I say that because I don't act like an obnoxious drunk asshole nor I act like I'm partying. I tip everyone a few bucks (more to the ones that catch my eye) and say hi to the ones that say hi to me...and to the ones that don't say hi to me, too. Then they know I'm not evil, and proceed to say a few words to me. I rarely mention I'm a dancer as well.





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    As a dancer, I had banked off many women so I do not hate on female customers.





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    My main problem with women in the strip club is that they can be 34,455 times more aggressive than men. I really do love my ladies but damn, it's almost as if they are trying to prove something in the strip club. No panty wearing, masturbating, ass slapping, ass fingering...my worst moments in the club involved female customers. A girl in the club once tried to teach me how to squirt, I even had a chick trying to lick my asshole! They're even worst with a male companion, trying way too hard to please.

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    My only peeve with them is when they sit on their boyfriends' laps and openly suck, slobber, and drool face with them. That just shouldn't be done in public, PERIOD. No one wants to see how much you love each other, and no one here will ever give a shit. That, and when they straddle their boyfriends as if to do a lapdance, especially at my stage. I dooo hate that. I'm not sure why. I think because people who make themselves look stupid and the ugly kind of insecure just piss me off in general.

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