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    Default Will I Be Found Out/ Outed As a Camgirl, Camming and Vanilla Work

    So based on all the threads that get posted about camming and privacy, working as a camgirl and vanilla work I figured it would make sense to have a master thread that deals with these issues, simply to keep all the resources in one place for ease of access.

    Some resources for camgirls or prospective camgirls regarding privacy, vanilla work and adultwork combined and things to consider before starting adult work:

    A great thread about safety/privacy and camming that also pertains to minimizing one’s online footprints:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?168669-Gr-s-ultimate-guide-to-safety-amp-privacy-amp-preventing-stalkers!

    So yeah, I know a lot of chicas have questions that pertainto specific career paths and feel free to post about those issues here, but since a lot of the info/questions/concerns are somewhat universal let’s keep ‘em all in one place so everyone can find the info they need

    also, this is a link that explains how to do a search on stripperweb: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...earch-function (another technique is to google your search term(s) along with the word stripperweb)

    edit: just tried to move some of the newish threads about camming/adult work here but since they're older than this one those questions became the OP. It looked kinda confusing, so I redirected 'em back. Future threads can be merged with this one though

    anyone feel free to add any threads that have been missed and I'll add the URLs here
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    Default Re: Will I Be Found Out/ Outed As a Camgirl, Camming and Vanilla Work

    Thank you for this post. The general consensus is that eventually -someone- will find you out. Whether it's now, later, or after you're dead. You make the decision to take that risk! If you don't mind explaining it eventually and possibly getting fired, then cam freely! Otherwise, know that there might be consequences for your actions. We, as camgirls, have no judgement on you. It's the people in your life and future career that you have to worry about.


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    Quote Originally Posted by FloraBell View Post
    [If you don't mind explaining it eventually and possibly getting fired, then cam freely! .
    And hey, just because one boss might freak out and fire you if it comes out, doesn't mean that your NEXT boss after that will even give a flying fig if he/she were to find out. Hell, he or she might have been a cam girl or customer once, too! Anyhow, at the end of the day, it's just masturbation, not murder.[/QUOTE]

    This is true.....but it just takes one boss freaking out to make your life uncomfortable while you are looking for a new job.

    The benefits and risks must be weighed by each individual for their personal situation. Planning for the best case scenario is not always ideal.

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    And please add this!!!

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    To avoid even the possibility to getting busted create a sexxy character for yourselves and there wont be any problem at all! The way I look on cam well...no one would ever recognize me at all! I usually play with the make up the lights and the different angles. LOL ohh those angles gee Thanks to them Ive lost at least 20 pounds! XD

    And I believe that camming is the best way for a LADY to become self-employed! And if someone judges you because you want to LIVE your LIFE and not just barely make ends meet...welll... F**k them! You ladies are the best and you have nothing to be ashamed of! -

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    And if someone judges you because you want to LIVE your LIFE and not just barely make ends meet...welll... F**k them! You ladies are the best and you have nothing to be ashamed of! -

    Agreed !!!

    However, that does not change the fact that camming constitutes adult industry work. That does not change the fact that, from a technical standpoint, camming is the legal near equivalent of 'producing pornography'. And that does not change the fact that many prospective straight job employers won't expend the time or effort to 'look beyond' a particular job applicant's history of adult industry work - they'll choose to avoid any potential future controversy and simply move on to the next job applicant.

    Agreed that it is 'unfair' for prospective straight job employers to fail to meaningfully differentiate between camgirls and girls performing other types of adult industry work. Unfortunately, unless and until adult industry work gets added to the official non-discrimination list of race, creed, color etc., the straight job employers remain free to do so with impunity. This is something that every prospective camgirl needs to realize, and evaluate, before choosing to start camming.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EphemeronXOXO View Post
    To avoid even the possibility to getting busted create a sexxy character for yourselves and there wont be any problem at all! The way I look on cam well...no one would ever recognize me at all!
    Eph, I <3 you, but I absolutely 100% disagree. Yes, changing your appearance on cam HELPS, but saying it removes all possibility of being outed is just false information. You will be outed. Whether or not the person who recognizes you tells you is something different, but someone somewhere will recognize you. This outing has the potential to cause a negative impact on someone's life which is the point of this thread. If you want to talk about disguises on cam/denial excuses, KourtneyKay has a great thread on that here: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ing-A-Cammodel



    Quote Originally Posted by EphemeronXOXO View Post
    And I believe that camming is the best way for a LADY to become self-employed! And if someone judges you because you want to LIVE your LIFE and not just barely make ends meet...welll... F**k them! You ladies are the best and you have nothing to be ashamed of! -
    This I agree on, but OUR view as fellow adult workers does not negate the (albeit incorrect) viewpoint of, say, the whole of mainstream society.

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    oh Luv you too and no problem at all. Sometimes i forget that im in a slightly different situation then you are guys, so I can understand if you disagree with me.
    I believe in the Law of attraction and I believe if I am afraid of something that is going to be happening for real. And I dont use a wig Im just a regular big girl who can mnake herself look like a whole nother person.

    And thats why I love this forum because we can share our opinions here and we can debate. I always learn something new here and I am not ashamed of If I may be wrong.
    And also know that veryone of us are really different I just wanted to share what helped me a lot. <3

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    One of the best pieces of advice I can give to anyone in the adult industry is to use your money to fund your own vanilla business. It reduces all these complications to (almost) zero. Depending on the type of business you have your customers may never meet you or even know your name, so your adult industry experience is irrelevant. Best case scenario you open a business where your adult industry experience is an advantage. Either way I just think it's smart to never have to work for anyone else ever again because let's face it, we get spoiled being our own bosses
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    It feels good to be the 'Head Hoe'!
    Quote Originally Posted by MissSassyPickles View Post
    One of the best pieces of advice I can give to anyone in the adult industry is to use your money to fund your own vanilla business. It reduces all these complications to (almost) zero. Depending on the type of business you have your customers may never meet you or even know your name, so your adult industry experience is irrelevant. Best case scenario you open a business where your adult industry experience is an advantage. Either way I just think it's smart to never have to work for anyone else ever again because let's face it, we get spoiled being our own bosses
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    Default Anyone ever busted on vanilla job?

    I just aced a interview for a job. Maybe I'm just paranoid but I started to worry a bit. I know anything is possible. But I just wanted to know about the majority of camgirls that also have normal jobs . Has anyone ever been recognized or busted at their regular vanilla job.

    It's not a high profile job more like minimum wage except the potential to make money is much greater. It's the sort of thing where I would be teaching a large group of people at the same time. Kind of like if a very popular yoga teacher charged $25 a student for a 30 minute lesson and the place was packed. And taught several sessions per day multiple times per week.

    There's a lack of people in my area that can teach this. So most likely I'll come into contact with quite a few people.

    Is it a bad idea to take the job?


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    I was never outed at my vanilla job when I had one but I have been found out by multiple guys I know.
    It could have easily happened that one of those guys be at my job tho..

    This thread is kind of like "should I go to school.. What if someone in one of my courses outs me this semester?"
    No matter where you are someone could out you...
    So I say take the job if you want
    Remember if you don't wanna be outed the only way to avoid it is to not cam altogether
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    Quote Originally Posted by Missbeth View Post
    Remember if you don't wanna be outed the only way to avoid it is to not cam altogether
    True.

    I think I'll be fine then. If I've never been outed before why would it happen now? Not saying that it couldn't happen. But I'm not too worried as much anymore. I've never actually heard of any girl being fired from a job.

    I don't think I'd cam and do this job at the same time though.

    Oh crap sorry about that.
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    Default Re: Will I Be Found Out/ Outed As a Camgirl, Camming and Vanilla Work

    I would like to know if when you go for a job interview and they run a background check on you will your caming employment show up? And is there any way to possibly sign up on a cam site with the name of an LLC then also have the site pay you by direct deposit to your LLC making it damn near impossible for an employer to find out you camed on paper? Anyone done this? thoughts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissSassyPickles View Post
    One of the best pieces of advice I can give to anyone in the adult industry is to use your money to fund your own vanilla business. It reduces all these complications to (almost) zero. Depending on the type of business you have your customers may never meet you or even know your name, so your adult industry experience is irrelevant. Best case scenario you open a business where your adult industry experience is an advantage. Either way I just think it's smart to never have to work for anyone else ever again because let's face it, we get spoiled being our own bosses
    I agree with this SO HARD. And this is how I roll. I figure, if and when I do get found out (and that has yet to happen aside from my husbands big mouth) it won't matter. I can always hire, sit back, and chill. He's mentioned my job but no one has found me yet and I'm extremely non consistent when it comes to camming.




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    If you play your cards right....no. if you make videos, sell them, sell pics, show face all the time in a gold dhow count down where guys are more likely to record you, if your rates are cheap, if you entertain the guys who have specific requests while refusing to show you their cam, if you tell ANYONE...they will talk. But....two years and no vids found, nobody knows about me but immediate family. I don't sell vids or pics, I do mostly dom cam to cam shows and I hardly show face in pvt.

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    You know what would make this thread even more helpful? Success stories.

    Just sayin'. I'd like a breath of fresh air on this topic. lol

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    Default Identity not being discovered while camming

    I really want to start caming but I have looked into many sites and all seem to have this verification process that will make it impossible to hide my identity 100 percent. Like mygirlfund, and others make you send in a picture with your face holding up Mygirlfund on a sign(or whatever site's sign). Now I know I sound paranoid but if anyone wanted to blackmail me for any reason, they would now have a pik of me and all my pay records from the site to prove I was a cam girl. I just dont want it to come back to bite me in the ass one day like with an employer or whatever I may need, who knows where life could take me. I have read a thread on here about creating an LLC and signing up for the sites like that and then being paid to the LLC but Id still have to have my name as the legal owner of the llc and plus Id still have to submit my photo with me holding up a sign with the site's name on it and a legal state id. I already planned not to show my face in my cam shows so I couldnt get caught that way. If there is any way around this sending a photo with face verification and me sending in my state or legal us id with my real name on it, can someone please share?

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    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...=camming+outed
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...=camming+outed
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...=camming+outed
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...=camming+outed

    There is no way around this because yes, you can be outed and should prepare yourself in advance for such an eventuality. This is one of the very first things you need to consider if you enter into camming. Consider that this will stay with you forever, in many ways than back-checks, history checks, and the fact that what happens on the internet, can stay there forever, possibly long after you reconsider whether or not it was right for you ~ videos, pics, things like that can stay forever for future children, relatives, friends, colleagues, bosses all to find... It's impossible to relentlessly stay on top of what gets posted of your camming to tube sites and such, and also many camming sites have full permission to use material you stream or post for advertising purposes.

    Whether or not you show your face, or even are non-nude, you are still a sex worker and your "sex worker" history - showing face or not - could still be traceable and show on background checks.





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    Your personal information will not be shared, it's solely for the camsite to verify that you are real, and that you're 18+. It's al so they can pay you, and if you are from the US it's also for tax documentation purposes.
    What job doesn't require personal information?
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    I second what Incantatious said. I honestly think if one is not fully, 100% okay with the fact that a) this is going to be a part of your life, forever, and b) you can ALWAYS be outed, no matter where you're from and no matter if you show your face or not - then one should absolutely not start camming, and it takes a very certain type of personality to -really-, honestly be okay with these facts once you come to terms with them. Besides, I'd not trust a site that will not ask me for a couple of pictures/IDs, documents etc in the first place and would never work there.

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    ^^Yea I have heard too many stories about info being shared that shouldnt have been so Id rather play it as safe as I can. I have also noticed the sites that dont require a photo id to register like adultwork will let you work but I am unclear on how then you get paid. Ive signed up for this site with all my cam name info and none of my real name and they would allow me to cam but I have given no bank info. Does this mean that once I am expecting to be paid they will force me to give my real info? These sites should be more clear on rules.

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    You need photo ID on Adultwork if you plan on doing webcam. You don't need it for phone chat/escorting/content (although on content you will earn less if unverified). And yes, they will need a name and bank details or a name and an address, or payoneer details.
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