I do my best not to let other people ruin my time. I found a nice new to the job dancer and talked with her and spent some money with her. I felt bad for her, she really didn't know what she was doing. I had watched her work the room for about an hour after her main stage performance and she hadn't got anyone to take her up on a private dance. I finally went and got her to come sit with me and we talked a little. I gave her a few general pointers that I noticed. I told her that I really didn't know much that one of the girls would be much better at helping her. She really seemed interested and I hope that she took some of the advice and started making some money. I will have to wait a few weeks and find out when she is working again to see if it has helped any.
This is actually how I came across this Forum. I didn't know if the advice I gave her was good or bad. I was going to get on here and ask when I found the Newbies section that already had a bunch of information on it. I wish I had know about this place so I could have directed her here. Most of the Advice I gave her was in the Newbie thread.
She gave a really provocative Stage dance but really gave to much for the Dollars that these guys were giving her. I tried to help her pick out some customers that would pay. Told her the biggest mistake was going to the table of 8 college aged guys that were the ones giving her most of the money on stage instead of the older gentlemen that would pay for a more private experience. I also gave her a few Lap Dance Tips that should help her get the guys to upgrade from a private dance to a 30 minute room. It was similar to the Friends episode where Monica and Rachel were telling Chandler how to bring a women to orgasm (
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLeBWcARXYo). Told here to hit the hot spots and that she could tell by the customers reaction which of these spots to revisit but not to linger on any too long and never rub the genitals with her hand, A brush by would be alright in some circumstances but the customer would get the wrong idea when you tired to up sell him to a more expensive experience.
Like I said before I like to attend SC don't get to do it has often as I like because of the travel that is necessary to get to the nicer venues but when I am mainly there because I like to have the opportunity to talk with and watch the girls work.
Let me know if the advise I gave was totally clueless! All this is what I have noticed from watching and my knowledge of selling. I have been selling since my early teens in my Family retail stores and am still a salesman today.
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