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    Default What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    I've been checking out the sugar daddy market for about three years now and I'm finding its simply not worth it when it comes to the commitment. Prices and offers I've received include:
    Meet four times a month for $300 per meeting
    Meet three times a month for $200 a meeting
    Meet every day for at least two hours a day for $8000 a month (This guy was a real jackass with some weird mommy issues)
    Meet four times a month for $700 a meeting

    All of these offers didn't include a time limit and the men explicitly said they wanted sex every time. They all received a no but is this what the market has come to? Now that sugar babying has gone mainstream every cheap guy with $200 bucks in his pocket thinks he can have unlimited sex with a gorgeous girl 1/4 his age. But maybe I'm just being prudish. What do you guys feel is fair for a sugar baby to be paid? If you wouldn't mind please include the general location of these prices because you can live in very nicely in Ohio for $2000 a month but I doubt that would get far in California.

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    where are you finding these sugardaddies? I know that the quality of SD's has definitely gone down over these years but these are bottom of the barrel allowances...especially the top two.
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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    where are you finding these sugardaddies? I know that the quality of SD's has definitely gone down over these years but these are bottom of the barrel allowances...especially the top two.
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    just keep trying to find a real SD it takes a long time on these sites to weed out all the fakes.
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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    I had seen better deals on craigslist. One of my girlfriends, who's a sugarbabe, used to get like 1,500 bucks once a week for one hour albeit it included sex.





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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    its VERY hard to find a good sugar daddy, and those prices are very low..rock bottom.. i had a good one, twice a month meetups for 1000+ a month, plus nice hotel rooms ( my choice), dinners, and outings, and shopping trips. unfortunately i bankrupted him a lil bit and he got nervous about his wife..haven't found a good one since

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    Yea I agree it's hard to find the right one I had one offer me a 1000 a weekend every week to fly out then go on trips to Hawaii and such and said after a year of being together he would pay for any surgery's I wanted but wanted the girl friend type thing and unprotected sex for hours so not worth it.

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    Quote Originally Posted by Seductive View Post
    I've been checking out the sugar daddy market for about three years now and I'm finding its simply not worth it when it comes to the commitment. Prices and offers I've received include:
    Meet four times a month for $300 per meeting
    Meet three times a month for $200 a meeting
    Meet every day for at least two hours a day for $8000 a month (This guy was a real jackass with some weird mommy issues)
    Meet four times a month for $700 a meeting

    All of these offers didn't include a time limit and the men explicitly said they wanted sex every time. They all received a no but is this what the market has come to? Now that sugar babying has gone mainstream every cheap guy with $200 bucks in his pocket thinks he can have unlimited sex with a gorgeous girl 1/4 his age. But maybe I'm just being prudish. What do you guys feel is fair for a sugar baby to be paid? If you wouldn't mind please include the general location of these prices because you can live in very nicely in Ohio for $2000 a month but I doubt that would get far in California.
    I'm not a sugar baby, but if I ever become one those prices are way too low for me and I wouldn't even be offering sex.

    If I were meeting a sugar daddy four times a month I'd try to charge at least $1500 each meeting so that'd be 6 grand each month plus perks (extra money for shopping, hair, general sugar baby upkeep).
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    its VERY hard to find a good sugar daddy, and those prices are very low..rock bottom.. i had a good one, twice a month meetups for 1000+ a month, plus nice hotel rooms ( my choice), dinners, and outings, and shopping trips. unfortunately i bankrupted him a lil bit and he got nervous about his wife..haven't found a good one since
    I wouldn't turn down a great potential just so I can go on with nothing in my pocket. Not every sugar daddy is the same. You have to ask yourself "What can I get from this besides the material things?" Is he in the career field I am interested in? Does have connections? etc

    OP, with my current SD, I don't get as much as I would like but I get a lot of perks and extras from our relationship (not just gifts, etc) but important things I can use later. He's in academics so letters, recommendations, networks, study abroad trips, LinkedIn connections, etc. so if this potential has things he can offer you besides the things that don't even really matter like money and gifts than go for it. Otherwise, I guess keep searching.

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    Quote Originally Posted by esmie.cutie View Post
    but wanted the girl friend type thing and unprotected sex for hours so not worth it.

    unprotected???

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    ^ Yup spoke to a hobbyist that is on there and he said many guys were sugar dating for unprotected sex. Obviously an escort wouldn't put her health at risk so they needed someone naive enough to fall for a few pouts, anger and demands.From what I hear sugar babies outside the adult industry are easy prey.

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    Those prices are low, IMO. Working in a strip club, you get more than that ($400-$600 per hour). Considering that you're not in a club with bouncers, without a real time limit, considering that you are traveling out the way to meet the dude, it should be the same as in the club or more.

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    400 to 600 per hour at a strip club?? lol what club are you working at?

    & 1500 just to hangout with a guy??

    ok these numbers are blowing my mind haha. i'm not saying go for low prices but come on now.. that's a little ridic.

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    $400-$600 is normal in NY or Vegas.

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    I had a sugar daddy once (no sex) when I was younger, around five years ago.

    A normal week would include one nice dinner and a couple drinks at a bar afterward, two or three nights of being my preferred customer at the club, up to 5 texts a day (oftentimes 0), and Xanax so I didn't have to go to my doctor anymore (lol). During half of the dinners, he would give me a bogus 5 minute proofreading task or ask for quick business advice, then give me my rent as a "consulting fee." At the club, I would have 2 drinks with him, do five dances, dance to his favorite songs onstage, but also hustle every other customer there (he loved to watch me make $$). He would give me the amount I told him was my nightly average for this. The texts were pretty brief and un-intense. This was very occasionally augmented by somewhat spendy day trips that ended in shopping for designer clothes. Overall he paid my rent and 3/4 of my monthly average prior to meeting him plus a few bonuses, for maybe ten hours a week of my time. It was a nice arrangement for around 8 months, but after that, I wasn't sad to see it disintegrate.

    I certainly don't think of him as a sugar daddy imposter who preyed on my inexperience (I was only 20) like most of the assholes I hear about now, but I grew to feel like he was giving me the bare minimum for it to be worth it. Even though he only demanded my full attention while we were at dinner or on a trip, I disliked the feeling of being on retainer both at the club and over text so much of the time. He was a very smart man and I felt like I was on trial when I came up with reasons why we couldn't have sex. Most importantly, I resented that he was wealthy enough that the money he offered me wasn't all that much to him, but was to me.

    I probably won't have a sugar daddy again. If I do, he has to pay me so much that I'm making an amount that is significantly out of reach just stripping. Ideally, I would be on an official payroll and have a false title for benefits/tax/resume purposes. It could never involve sex or constant texting and I would have to be free to continue dancing. For it to work out in the long term, there would have to be a good expense to income ratio on his end -- I don't want to have a gnawing feeling that I'm some dancing bear for a person with endless wealth. Even if it's great money to 99% of the world, pandering to someone for an amount that's ultimately inconsequential to them can feel pretty demeaning.

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    Don't short-change yourself.

    +1 This:

    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    ... many guys were sugar dating for unprotected sex. Obviously an escort wouldn't put her health at risk so they needed someone naive enough to fall for a few pouts, anger and demands. From what I hear sugar babies outside the adult industry are easy prey.

    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    Those prices are low, IMO. Working in a strip club, you get more than that ($400-$600 per hour). Considering that you're not in a club with bouncers, without a real time limit, considering that you are traveling out the way to meet the dude, it should be the same as in the club or more.

    Quote Originally Posted by lol1337a View Post
    I disliked the feeling of being on retainer ... For it to work out in the long term, there would have to be a good expense to income ratio on his end -- I don't want to have a gnawing feeling that I'm some dancing bear for a person with endless wealth. Even if it's great money to 99% of the world, pandering to someone for an amount that's ultimately inconsequential to them can feel pretty demeaning.

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    Default Re: What do you feel is a fair price to be a sugar baby?

    I'm not personally a sugar baby but one of my close friends is. She has two of them. She found both on Seeking Arrangement after going thru a long line of phonies and jerks. They each give her between 700-1000 for dinner and maybe an hour of sex. She sees them each once a week. They both spoil her with gifts and take her traveling.

    The one thing she did tell me was that she started finding better quality SD's when she began to invest more of her personal money in her appearance and started trying to be more goal oriented. The better you look and appear to have your stuff together the more money guys want to give you.

    Also she completely stopped dancing because she noticed guys were willing to give her a bigger allowance if they thought she was just a normal college girl not a hustler.

    Best of luck! Hope it works out for you. Just got to keep weeding thru the fakes for now.

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    Most of you are probably going to say its low/not worth it but I get a $400/week allowance + $500-$1000/mo in gifts & unexpected bills (most recently being a $500 car repair) for this he might get 10 hours a month of my time but probably much less. I also live in an area that the allowance covers all my bills with money to spare.

    Sure I could escort or dance and make more but I've got no hustle. lol


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    Well, I would say that it depends on woman and her sugar daddy's arrangement. But they do sound a little low for a sugar baby. However, if this guy is middle class and young it sounds reasonable to get that much. My sugar daddy arrangement with some young truckers was like that but they were like 21 years old and making 40,000 to 60,000 their first time trucking. However, if the man is of the upper class and makes over 500,000 to being a billionaire. Then he needs to gives 5,000 a week without sex and 7,000 a week with sex. When you are a middle class sugar baby, you can have 4 or 5 different sugar daddies....just make sure they are truckers, real estate agents, and other men who are not around a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Well, I would say that it depends on woman and her sugar daddy's arrangement. But they do sound a little low for a sugar baby. However, if this guy is middle class and young it sounds reasonable to get that much. My sugar daddy arrangement with some young truckers was like that but they were like 21 years old and making 40,000 to 60,000 their first time trucking. However, if the man is of the upper class and makes over 500,000 to being a billionaire. Then he needs to gives 5,000 a week without sex and 7,000 a week with sex. When you are a middle class sugar baby, you can have 4 or 5 different sugar daddies....just make sure they are truckers, real estate agents, and other men who are not around a lot.
    Actually there's a millionaire that sugar dates and he's only gives sugar babies 500 a night that includes sex but he seeks women outside the industry between 18-21.

    Also a man that makes 500K-1mill isn't going to typically spend over a year's time 240,000K (21K a month). Can he? Perhaps but that's almost half his income. Add in taxes and liquid assets and he's living practically near minimum wage that is if he spent like this. If he's one that just came into new money like a lottery then yes that guy may throw around cash pretty easily. Still this guy is likely to go bottom barrel broke in less than 2 years doing it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Actually there's a millionaire that sugar dates and he's only gives sugar babies 500 a night that includes sex but he seeks women outside the industry between 18-21.

    Also a man that makes 500K-1mill isn't going to typically spend over a year's time 240,000K (21K a month). Can he? Perhaps but that's almost half his income. Add in taxes and liquid assets and he's living practically near minimum wage that is if he spent like this. If he's one that just came into new money like a lottery then yes that guy may throw around cash pretty easily. Still this guy is likely to go bottom barrel broke in less than 2 years doing it.
    CherryBlossom, I believe that if a non-industry girl receive 500 a night from a millionaire than she is kind of cheapen herself a bit. However, if she is fine with the arrangement then I think that is good for both of them .But the question, I really wanted to get into is the one of can a man who makes 500K to 1 million willing to spend half of his income on a sugar baby. Yes, but you must understand that I was talking from my experience. You see, if you mess with a young trucker say like 21 to 28 years old without children, a family to support, or anyone but himself. Say he comes from a poor to middle-class background and foreign background such as Latin, Caribbean, Irish or East Indian background. Then he would be more willing to burn though his money while he is quite young. See there are truckers that run the highways without taking off days or vocations. They are paper chasers....paper chasers burn though almost all of their income in one year. However, they are on the truck all of the time and they send you money to the western union or upload it on a prepaid card. So yes..many of them do go broke after themselves out but they do not care.

    They would be willing to burn a hole though their wallets fast. Truly, I believe that if a man wants to have a sugar baby then he needs to pay a lot of money to keep that sugar baby in a lifestyle she enjoys. If he goes broke doing it...of well because he should have made a good arrangement. I believe 5000 a week without sex is good amount for a millionaire to fit the bill of. Just like if a man is making 60000 a year without children or family pressures should give you 500 a week to start off with. Then you get 4 more of those to give you the same amount. 10,000 a month is a good for a middle class sugar baby to have if she has 5 sugar daddies who are gone all the time.Plus you do not have to sex with them
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