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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    I am tired and not a big writer on the boards. Just don't show your face or tattoos. You will want to be offline one day.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    If you are worried about it do not do it.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    regretting it as in you may find it morally repugnant? or as in you may have lost job opportunities if outted?

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    I think you can either escort or you can't. It sound like you can't. Don't do it.
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    You are sassy AND smart Miss Pickles.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    also her age may play a role in this. I remember heavily thinking about it and scared to death, On the same token I was young and scared.

    Strippername is correct , if you dont have them do not get them. Clients may never remember your name but they will remember tattoos, piercings basically any body modification.
    clients have recognized me from ONE tattoo and now I am covered but this one always gives me away. I dont hide so it does not bother me when they ask PLUS I use the same name. (they remember the tat first)


    psychologically, any form of the adult industry will fuck with your head just like any job would.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    Um, this is not the job for you.

    Seriously.

    You should not come to a board to be convinced to do escort work, imo. You know the risks, it seems incompatible with your life.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    Are you making an ok living / keeping up with grades while doing body rubs?

    How have body rubs effected you psychologically thus far?

    What is your vanilla career going to be?

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    When in doubt, stay out. Escorting is NOT for everybody. Far from it. You MUST be able to carry the psychological baggage that goes with the job. What kind and how much varies from person to person. If you are not sure that you can deal with it then do NOT do it.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    It seems like a lot of people posting in response to your question are being pretty negative.

    I was like you nine months ago. I had escorted in the past, but only gave bj's. Never thought I would actually "fully" escort. Nine months ago I was stripping once or twice a week, and that just wasn't cutting it. So for financial reasons, I decided to go for it -- KNOWING full well that it would really effect me psychologically. It's a lot of hard work. You'd need to learn pretty quickly how to compartmentalize your life.

    It helps that I'm not selling myself short. My lowest time-frame is 90 minutes, and that's $500. I'm planning a rate increase soon.
    For me, I have bad days and good days, mentally. Nothing feels better than my drive home after making $700&^^^

    The fear of the unknown is the biggest fear you can have...
    You won't know how it will really effect you unless you try it.
    If you feel like you couldn't live with yourself if you were "outted", then consider sticking with body rubs, maybe supplementing w/ stripping or camming.

    You could try it out while still being a body rub girl. I've never done body rubs, but I know it's fairly common for girls to up-charge for more services. You could do that with a regular who's been wanting it, and see how you feel after doing that, without changing your title from body-rub to escort.

    You're going to be a lawyer? That's AWESOME!!!
    Worst case scenario, having an arrest on your record, will NOT effect you practicing law. If no one will hire you to work with their "team of lawyers", fuck 'em. Keep escorting and get enough $$$ to start your own firm! Hell, then you could specialize in helping those in the sex industry. That'd be awesome.

    If you'd like more advice from someone like yourself, PM me.
    Either way you choose, I can be here to guide you.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    Also, check out this thread.
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...?166493-Regret
    I love post #10 -- GlamourRouge couldn't have said it better.

    At the end of the day, the decision is yours, and yours alone.
    It's a decision you must make on your own.
    Feel comfortable with it.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    Maybe I haven't expressed myself clearly in the previous post. I am making an ok living doing body rubs and I am able to perform very well at school thanks to it. I used to work full time at a vanilla job working at an office while studying, not only was it hard for me to focus at school but I also had a lot of financial problems, I was in debt.

    Before I started doing body rubs I really was second guessing it. I know a handjob may seem like nothing for a lot of people but I was quite innocent and didn't have much experience at that time. I thought I wouldn't be able to handle it but after over a year doing this, I don't have any regret at the moment. I am able to excell in my academics without struggling over financial issues. However, it's been quite slow the past few weeks.

    It's my last semester in college and I got accepted into the faculty of law in University.
    First of all , Canada is more liberal and more tolerant than the U.S. In this country it would be difficult to impossible to get admitted to practice law with a prostitution conviction on your record. Have there been escorts who became lawyers in the U.S. ? Yes. I know one personally and have heard of another. I also know a doctor and a dentist who worked their way through school as escorts. In fact , the doctor kept touring for a few years after getting her medical degree to help pay off her huge loans but always out of state and VERY utr.

    I don't care what anybody says, I've never heard of any escort who didn't do it for the money. Some certainly enjoyed the work more than others. Some tried it and didn't like it. Others made their peace with the personal ramifications and dealt with same very well. That's the key. You have to be able to do that. If you can, fine. If you can't or have serious doubts as to whether or not you can then don't do it.

    In partial response to "alexxx12" I don't consider my posts to be "negative". Cautious certainly. What's wrong with counseling reflection and prudence ?

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    Where did I say "eric stoner" your thoughts are negative????

    Please, please point it out.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    Ooops. I'm very sorry if I misunderstood you and it wasn't your intent to lump me in with the naysayers.

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    Default Re: Interested about escorting but afraid I might regret it one day

    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    You MUST be able to carry the psychological baggage that goes with the job. What kind and how much varies from person to person.

    I think that's very good advice, very true.

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