Last year, I had a regular client for about six months (I'm an escort/dominatrix/general fetish sexworker). He and I got along smashingly until he started getting really fixated on me. He started divorce proceedings with his wife, under the misapprehension that I was going to ride off into the sunset with him. I never gave him any indication that I wanted a relationship with him- he knows I have a girlfriend, keep my work-life separate from my personal-life, etc. He just had some seriously faulty assumptions about the nature of our relationship. I dropped him as a client as soon as he told me he'd left his wife and family and wanted me to get an apartment with him, but he has not stopped contacting me. He texts me approximately once a day, and has tracked me down on every social networking site I'm on. He makes email accounts with fake names attached and responds to my Eros and P411 profiles, pretending to be a new potential client but then revealing his real identity and pleading to see me. He has said his life is empty without me, he needs to be with me, can't go on without me, blah blah blah. This would all be annoying yet tolerable, but he just sent me a text letting me know that he has moved to my town. I live in a small suburb of a larger city; he has no reason to be here. He has a general idea where I live, because I've joked about living in the Uni dorms, and he knows what my car looks like. I'm not very afraid he'll try to track me down, but I want to be sensible and take precautions. Is there anything I can do at this point, without compromising my work or looking like a paranoid fool? He told me where he is living now, and it's about a mile away. For all I know, I'll see him at the grocery store tomorrow.
Help, what should my next step be? Ignore it, warn my friends to keep an eye on me, get a switchblade to keep in my bra...?



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) were about how he was going to move to my city, and might see me around sometime. Maybe he was just playing headgames, but I don't want to risk it!

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