It has been a few weeks since I last saw her. Today I actually went to same club today and another dancer says she still work there. I don't know if I should still go to the club or just move on?![]()
It has been a few weeks since I last saw her. Today I actually went to same club today and another dancer says she still work there. I don't know if I should still go to the club or just move on?![]()




You have probably been blown off.





I'm not sure why she would ask you for your email and then not email you and ask you when you are coming back to see her and spend more money on her. She may have lost your email or she may be taking some time off from the club. In any event, her failure to respond doesn't mean you should stop going to the club. It's up to you to decide if you want to just enjoy the dances, either with her or with other girls, or go to another club. Asking you for your email was a simple play to get your business. Nothing more.



She may not want to write back and forth, but she may want to know when you're coming in for her. If she got the impression you just want to talk, or try to date her etc. she's done the email equivalent of excusing herself from your table to go back to work.
Why would you start going to a different club? You didn't do anything wrong.
If you like going to that club I would continue going. It's up to you if you want to continue spending money on her.
Most of the time dancers give you their contact info so they can contact you and let you know when they are working so you can spend money on her.
Getting a dancers cell number or email is quite common nowadays.
If you really want to be sure go back to her club and try and set something up on one of her off days.
I have a similar story to share.
I was at an out of town club and met this dancer for the first time.
We hit it off pretty well. After awhile I bought her a drink and we chit chated for a good twenty minutes.
Then we went upstairs to the V.I.P.
We were waiting for the next song to start and she was telling me about how she was trying online dating.
She caught the guy in a lie and they never actually went out on a real date.
After that she told me what a nice guy I was, I dressed well, smelled good, etc. lol.
I countered with a thank you and asked are you trying to ask me out on a date or something.
She just smiled and then first song started.
I stayed with her for a couple of songs. I thought that was the end of it.
After the second song she asked for my cell number. I didn't have a cell so she just gave me her email address.
A few days later I emailed her but didn't her nothing from her. That was about a month ago so I don't think I'm going to be hearing from her.
Not sure why she gave me her email as she was aware I was from out of town and I didn't spend too much money on her.
I figured if we started talking that would be great and if not I would know what the situation was.
Anyways good luck to you on whatever you decide.





maybe she's busy. maybe she lost your email. maybe she lost interest. maybe she sucks at emailing. maybe she was drunk when she asked for it. who knows! don't stop going to the club and getting dances tho![]()


Email kind of sucks. Let this one go and if she contacts you great, if not you know she wan't serious no big deal.
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