
Originally Posted by
MissSassyPickles
I recently had a breakup and plan on getting back into dating.
I would NEVER tell anyone on the first date. I would not tell them until we are considering monogamy.
I know some people disagree with this, but as soon as you tell a guy you are in the adult industry they see you as a sex object. Sorry but this is a fact.
If a guy met you through the adult industry, obviously that's different because they know what you do, and they also UNDERSTAND what the adult industry is.
A vanilla guy just doesn't understand, and as soon as he hears the words 'sex' and 'porn' that's it.
It doesn't matter how nice he is, it doesn't matter how understanding he is, he is a MAN and that is how men react, they think with their pensises first and their brains second.
Have him see you as a person first, job second (or third or fourth).
You don't have to lie. Just say you work from home and will elaborate later.
Sorry for the rant.
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