I'm sorry that you've had that experience but I've worked at several white clubs in the city for about 8 years and have never had a customer tell me to my face that they don't want a dance from me because I'm black. One time the house dad at flash did my makeup really thick and someone told me I looked like a man but I just kept it moving and made my money. As a dancer you have to have thick skin. As for not every white man secretly wants a black chick...ok sure, but when I'm at work in my head I tell myself that and I also say that I'm the hottest chick in there. It's something I learned from a book I read by Napoleon Hill and for me it works. Several guys that are known regulars who only go with Russians have gone with me. I personally don't think it's too much about what you look like but more what you say and how you say it.
As for working 10x harder than the other girls. Sure I do, I have to buy all these wigs, change the way I speak and got rid of my accent (I'm from the Bronx). But that's ok because I'm 10x better and stronger.
I've worked in Queens for a little bit when I got burn out from all the high fees and stuff in Manhattan. But you know what, I went back because the earning potential, for my style of hustle, was much better in Manhattan. I found in Queens you had to go on stage too much and too long. Sure you can get tips on stage but I prefer to stay off the stage and hustle and try to get someone into VIP and that's hard to do if you're constantly pulled away to go on stage.




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