Hi girls,
Sorry I cant get it to not-underline!
If any of you have any advice on what I should do to keep my sugar daddy, please let me know
*disclaimer* he's really an escort client almost...I just don't know how to refer to him as.
Here goes
So last year I met a man who was CEO of some European companies. He paid 500-800 per dinner date with me to get to know me. He was and still is going through a nasty divorce, in which he complains that his wife is extending the divorce process in order to punish her for not being with him.
I seduced him and he helped me with a few thousand per overnight date. This is how I got him to give me that money: Initially he wanted to give me a few k per month which would amount to meetings worth 1k per daytime date, but I turned that down as driving to his place and back would waste enough time that I could make almost that much in the club just dancing. After lots of negotiating we threw up our hands and said, I'll just give you a few K and you come overnight and then we'll negotiate after that. I said yes and assumed he would disspear after that overnight visist which I only agreed to since I could no strech out getting dinner date money from him any longer and the money was above the market price of area escorts.
Well, voila! He didn't dissapear. He texted me every month asking for overnight dates and gave me a few K for a few months. During each visit he said we needed to set a dollar amount as your monthly allowance, however, our conversations would always be interrupted by him getting calls, board metting conference calls, etc etc...yes, even during bedroom time. I figured he was too busy to negotiate an allowance and that was ok with me, as he seemed like to wanted to negotiate an allowance that would end up with me getting 4k/month for 2-4 daytime or overnight visits depending on his schedule which was less than the 3-5k/visit i was getting per overnight.. He was also only in town a few days a month, so the negotation never happened.
However, he send me a text saying he wants to see me amonth ago...I asked for my donation and he said yes...i think his words were, "sure but i want to see you a few times this month! i replied back, sure! Lets set dates! (which never happened b/c i had to leave early so he could do a conference call) I NEVER though that meant 3.5 k for several appointments that month, i thought it was just for 1 overnight like it has been. We arrived at 3.5 k since that is how much I could convince him i needed for school...
Then, a few weeks ago, he asks for me to come over. I listen to him compalin about his divorce as is the usual pattern pre-bedroom, and he mentions that his wife is having her lawyer scrutinizing all of his spending and assests and that the money he gives to me to says is cash for his elder father. Well, then i realize that he has not left a donation in the bathroom for me. I ask him and he says he though that he made it clear it was for several appointments instead of ONE appointment like it's always been. I'm shocked but remain clam and tell him i'm dissapointed but we can talk about an arrangement allowance now. He says he needs to think the whole thing over and give me $200, which was all that was in his wallet. No sex, one kiss. I tell him we can have dinner together and talk about it. He says that is a possibility but doesn't set a date. He then says that his wife's divorce attorney is looking over every penny he spends to see how to divide up assests so he needs to hang tight and watch his spending for another month or two and that is why he has to give up one of his houses. (then again, he doesn't always set a date with me, he'll text me a few days before he comes to town, which is quite infrequently) He says that regardless he'll still give me money for my surgery to have uterine fibroids removed which he told me he would pay in addition to his appointment money last time. I leave hiscondo. He seems dissapointed but not upset. I am dissapointed but remain calm.
Possibility A: he wants more for less money.
Possibility B: He honestly was so busy with his divorce, jobs, companies, that he never go t achance to set an allowance with me and it was easier to just give me some money each time instead of meeting up and discussing allowances but now that he has some time he wants to discuss an allowance that would work out to more meetings but less month per meeting but it would be an allowance given at the beggining of each month.
SO far he hasn't contacted me yet.
I've googled him and he does indeed get paid 11 million a year as the CEO of some companies, as mentioned in FORBES.
What should I do? Should I ask him to a dinner date so we can discuss an allowance? If so, should I push him to give me money for that dinner date too? Have I been too pushy? I think it would be easier to seal the deal on an allowance with a dinner date since men are visual creatures. Should I wait until after his divoce to contact him? I want to hit it while it's hot, I dont want to risk him forgetting about me!
He says he'll have more freedom in spending after the divorce is over in 1-3 months..and nobody is looking at his expenses anymore....but who knows? I don't want to lose him since the time we spend is enjoyable and it's not much time in the bedroom that we end up spendingMost of it is eating out a fine restaurants, listening to him compaline about his divorce, which is easy, and watchingn tv. there is the possibility of the potential for him to give me more money as the relationship progresses, although we do not talk about emotions, i am more of his therapist and bedroom fun person.




Most of it is eating out a fine restaurants, listening to him compaline about his divorce, which is easy, and watchingn tv. there is the possibility of the potential for him to give me more money as the relationship progresses, although we do not talk about emotions, i am more of his therapist and bedroom fun person.
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