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    Default Preventing a sugar-daddy breakup: hustling a whale

    Hi girls,
    Sorry I cant get it to not-underline!

    If any of you have any advice on what I should do to keep my sugar daddy, please let me know
    *disclaimer* he's really an escort client almost...I just don't know how to refer to him as.

    Here goes
    So last year I met a man who was CEO of some European companies. He paid 500-800 per dinner date with me to get to know me. He was and still is going through a nasty divorce, in which he complains that his wife is extending the divorce process in order to punish her for not being with him.

    I seduced him and he helped me with a few thousand per overnight date. This is how I got him to give me that money: Initially he wanted to give me a few k per month which would amount to meetings worth 1k per daytime date, but I turned that down as driving to his place and back would waste enough time that I could make almost that much in the club just dancing. After lots of negotiating we threw up our hands and said, I'll just give you a few K and you come overnight and then we'll negotiate after that. I said yes and assumed he would disspear after that overnight visist which I only agreed to since I could no strech out getting dinner date money from him any longer and the money was above the market price of area escorts.

    Well, voila! He didn't dissapear. He texted me every month asking for overnight dates and gave me a few K for a few months. During each visit he said we needed to set a dollar amount as your monthly allowance, however, our conversations would always be interrupted by him getting calls, board metting conference calls, etc etc...yes, even during bedroom time. I figured he was too busy to negotiate an allowance and that was ok with me, as he seemed like to wanted to negotiate an allowance that would end up with me getting 4k/month for 2-4 daytime or overnight visits depending on his schedule which was less than the 3-5k/visit i was getting per overnight.. He was also only in town a few days a month, so the negotation never happened.


    However, he send me a text saying he wants to see me amonth ago...I asked for my donation and he said yes...i think his words were, "sure but i want to see you a few times this month! i replied back, sure! Lets set dates! (which never happened b/c i had to leave early so he could do a conference call) I NEVER though that meant 3.5 k for several appointments that month, i thought it was just for 1 overnight like it has been. We arrived at 3.5 k since that is how much I could convince him i needed for school...

    Then, a few weeks ago, he asks for me to come over. I listen to him compalin about his divorce as is the usual pattern pre-bedroom, and he mentions that his wife is having her lawyer scrutinizing all of his spending and assests and that the money he gives to me to says is cash for his elder father. Well, then i realize that he has not left a donation in the bathroom for me. I ask him and he says he though that he made it clear it was for several appointments instead of ONE appointment like it's always been. I'm shocked but remain clam and tell him i'm dissapointed but we can talk about an arrangement allowance now. He says he needs to think the whole thing over and give me $200, which was all that was in his wallet. No sex, one kiss. I tell him we can have dinner together and talk about it. He says that is a possibility but doesn't set a date. He then says that his wife's divorce attorney is looking over every penny he spends to see how to divide up assests so he needs to hang tight and watch his spending for another month or two and that is why he has to give up one of his houses. (then again, he doesn't always set a date with me, he'll text me a few days before he comes to town, which is quite infrequently) He says that regardless he'll still give me money for my surgery to have uterine fibroids removed which he told me he would pay in addition to his appointment money last time. I leave hiscondo. He seems dissapointed but not upset. I am dissapointed but remain calm.

    Possibility A: he wants more for less money.
    Possibility B: He honestly was so busy with his divorce, jobs, companies, that he never go t achance to set an allowance with me and it was easier to just give me some money each time instead of meeting up and discussing allowances but now that he has some time he wants to discuss an allowance that would work out to more meetings but less month per meeting but it would be an allowance given at the beggining of each month.

    SO far he hasn't contacted me yet.

    I've googled him and he does indeed get paid 11 million a year as the CEO of some companies, as mentioned in FORBES.

    What should I do? Should I ask him to a dinner date so we can discuss an allowance? If so, should I push him to give me money for that dinner date too? Have I been too pushy? I think it would be easier to seal the deal on an allowance with a dinner date since men are visual creatures. Should I wait until after his divoce to contact him? I want to hit it while it's hot, I dont want to risk him forgetting about me!

    He says he'll have more freedom in spending after the divorce is over in 1-3 months..and nobody is looking at his expenses anymore....but who knows? I don't want to lose him since the time we spend is enjoyable and it's not much time in the bedroom that we end up spending Most of it is eating out a fine restaurants, listening to him compaline about his divorce, which is easy, and watchingn tv. there is the possibility of the potential for him to give me more money as the relationship progresses, although we do not talk about emotions, i am more of his therapist and bedroom fun person.

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    Default Re: Preventing a sugar-daddy breakup: hustling a whale

    I'm not sure where you met this guy but most if they came from those sites want several nights at $3.5K a month. The whole purpose is they give an allowance and then can have unlimited time. Also at that amount you're probably getting a better deal.

    Most of the guys on those sites are trying to pay $200-$500 a night for hour less sex.

    Most of the girls that actually get an allowance tend to not get over 1k-1.5k a month.

    Divorce? Ha I'm sorry I think the guy is full of shit. You don't seek a sugar baby and tell her to wait 1-3 months for your divorce to be finalized because of course "I'll have more money".

    If you didn't sleep with him and get $500-$800 out of him consider yourself to be lucky. If he gave you $500-$800 and you did dinner fucked him a few times over several days then you are getting the john routine. It doesn't matter how much these men have financially. It's that they aren't new to sugar and have been seeing girls for $500 a pop. It's called PAY FOR PLAY =P4P. He's lying about the divorce IMHO.

    B. He never got to set an allowance with you? No he isn't interested in paying an allowance. He wants to pay for sex and a bunch of attention and conversation for $500 a meet. That's the going number for most of these guys that don't like escorts telling them to hit the road when that 1 hour ends.

    Allowance should be discussed way before panties hit the floor. That's the game. If he puts alot of unnecessary stuff in a conversation , add in some whining about his issues, it puts you in a position of feeling selfish for even bringing it up. It's a manipulation tactic to get you to shut up without having to actually say that.

    I spoke to one sugar daddy recently and he has all the financial makings to provide quite the hefty allowance. The point is he's been known as a fake. Why would that be if the guy has the money? These men aren't stupid and in most cases they want to feel like they came up on steal. Remember they are in big business. They aren't about to hand over 4k to one girl just for a night of fun. Alot these men see escorts so they are trying to find something cheaper than an escort but with more time and attention. You really think this guy could sit and chat and do all of his complaining with an escort off the clock? A regular that spends well may get this treatment but not right out of the gate. Also you have to think many of these guys want multiple women. There is a guy in NY that pays a 12K a month mortgage for his penthouse. He only pays girls $500 a night and they have to be between the ages of 18-21 and he's 70.

    So yes he wants less for more. His ego will not allow much more than that.

    I have never met any of those men but they are pretty interesting characters. My point is prepare yourself for another $500 or him just trying to see if he can get out of giving you anything at all.

    Also who uses " SEVERAL APPOINTMENTS"??. If you check out the escort boards you'll see that these guys laugh about how they dupe sugar babies into doing everything even unprotected sex for $500 a month or $800 a month. It's just another "hobby" to them similar to fly fishing lol.

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    Default Re: Preventing a sugar-daddy breakup: hustling a whale

    Sorry I meant to say he wants more for less.

    Stick to eating out and restaurants and keep it like that, but don't expect anything more than what he feels like giving you. 11 million a year salary yet he's brushing off a 3.5k a month allowance? Red Flags all over this one.

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    Default Re: Preventing a sugar-daddy breakup: hustling a whale

    There was a poster here a few months ago who had a similar situation, wealthy SD who was going through a divorce, so he said he had to watch his spending, etc, etc. It sounds like it's the same guy, but regardless....anyone who makes eleven million dollars a year does *not* have to stress over a lawyer looking at a few thousand dollars in expenses a month, even if he's going through a divorce. That's *pocket change* to someone who's TRULY that wealthy. He could easily explain that as dinner expenses for a month.

    Either his net worth has been greatly exaggerated, (the Forbes article may have included his company's assets when they said 11 million), or, he's lying about who he is, and he's really not that wealthy. As the poster above stated, he's acting like your typical guy on a SD site, (even if that's not how you met him), looking for a cheap alternative for an escort.

    If you haven't already done so, I recommend making a profile on SA, (even if it's a fake, w/no picture), and searching for this guy on there. I have a feeling you'll find him, and you may get some enlightening information.

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    Default Re: Preventing a sugar-daddy breakup: hustling a whale

    Men don't get wealthy by throwing cash around at escorts/sugar babies. Yes, he is trying to get more for less. It's possible that he is truly getting divorced and his finances are being checked out, but no matter what, he is certainly trying to maximize his ROI with you. In any case, do you really think that if you offer him multiple dates for 3.5k now, he'll suddenly go back to paying 3.5k per date down the line? This is the beginning of the end.

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    They all have an expiration date. Looks like this one's time is up!

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    Default Re: Preventing a sugar-daddy breakup: hustling a whale

    Macy...I am sorry tell you this but he has no interest in paying your sugar baby dues. Many men off those sites feel like that if they give girls only 500 to 800 dollars...then it would mean free sex and free bitching about their wives. Honestly, you could get a young trucker to give you between 500 to 1100 dollars per meeting without the sex or the bitching. You need a better sugar-daddy than this one.

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