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    Tell me if I am the ONLY one that gets beyond fustrated when they tell me this. I feel like some men act as if they cant find a women at school, church, bookstores ect...and feel that the strip club is a place to find a women. Ive been with my man WAY before I became a dancer, and I tell him how pathetic it is.Some of these men will try to kiss me, offer to buy me things, take me out to dinner and all sorts of stuff just so I can date them. I thought the club was the LAST place when would want to find a women, due to the stereotypes, but I guess Im wrong.They need to realize that this IS a JOB...but no matter how many times you put it to them, they still wanna meet you. This is the reason why I have a backup phone.Ladies, tell me what do you think?

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    In an ideal world, the customer would come in enjoy some dancing but some want more.

    There is a whole culture of men who devote themselves to learning how to date and/or have sex with strippers.

    I prefer not to meet outside the club b/c:
    • It could be dangerous - potential stalker or crazed psycho
    • It takes time away from making money
    • It takes time away from my schedule



    Just stick your beliefs, go with your gut, and keep your mental sanity! And private email, private phone is a good way to keep in touch with regulars.

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    They're not really looking for a girlfriend. They're just looking for someone to fuck for free, preferably more often than once.

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    I think a lot of guys like the challenge and/or chase of the whole thing...
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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    They're not really looking for a girlfriend. They're just looking for someone to fuck for free, preferably more often than once.
    THIS!^ Yep. They just try to 'shop' instead of taking the time out to find someone, even for a FB.

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    I think a lot of guys like the challenge and/or chase of the whole thing...


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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    They're not really looking for a girlfriend. They're just looking for someone to fuck for free, preferably more often than once.
    These guys are dying to be that special one that threw a stripper off her game. No not really looking for love. What's really pathetic is how bad their game sucks. You can google "date a stripper" or "have sex with a stripper for free" these guys are all off the same script.
    Also a lot of them use PUA techniques, which are always lame, but really horrid coming from a 55 year old guy with visible hair plugs wearing an Affliction tshirt. For example.

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    You all are right...but some guys take it way too far. Like its too the point, and I know this is a no no, but I will tell them that I have a man just so they can back the hell off.

    Some of these dudes get so butt hurt about it, as if thier whole evening is ruined because Im taken. As if dancers dont have husbands, boyfriends, children, and feelings.

    So why noy play with thier minds...and trick them with a backup phone. Little do they know that phone goes on top of my fridge when I get home, never to be looked at.

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    Omg I hate when customers get attached. They give you the b.s "I thought you were different" or "I guess you are like the other girls" and my all time favorite "you"re acting like a stripper"

    Well duh I am a stripper. Since when did strip clubs become match.com?

    I told my best customer that he's my favorite customer and he was all hurt that I called him the C word. Like wtf is his problem. I'm not his girlfriend . And to top things off he's depressed because I won't date him or do sexual things with him outside the club for money. Gross.


    Come in spend money and get out. I want nothing more from these guys.

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    someone find that thread with that ugly geeky red headed guy and his class on how to fuck strippers
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    Always dress like you're going to bump into the woman seeing the man who broke your heart.
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    Yes, sex sells, but it sure as hell doesn't sell itself!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Snowy0Star View Post
    someone find that thread with that ugly geeky red headed guy and his class on how to fuck strippers
    That is just plain pathetic...thats dude should know we are a bit smarter than that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Summerlove91 View Post
    That is just plain pathetic...thats dude should know we are a bit smarter than that.
    that why i wanted someone to find it for the lulz because its so sad its funny
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    Always dress like you're going to bump into the woman seeing the man who broke your heart.
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    Yes, sex sells, but it sure as hell doesn't sell itself!
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    You're a sip of fine champagne darling, and the guys who deserve to taste you should be able to buy the whole glass.


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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    a.because, many of them want the bragging-rights of banging a stripper.
    b we also make it our mission to be a personal fantasy to our customers, so they get swept away and most aren't too bright to begin with.
    c. many think strippers are easy sluts with "daddy issues"
    d.many think we all long to be rescued by a night in shining armor

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    Sounds like the same with cam customers.

    I usually create a stupid scene when they pull this. OMG WHAT SITE AM I ON?? Ohh shit did I sign into match?? Wait why am I even on cam? Where's my "looking for love profile". Guys in the room usually will post a bunch of lolz because they already know that one guy has now been viewed as the dumbest guy to log in.

    I already have a new guy that tried this yesterday. The good thing was my room was so busy he was getting drowned out by the other comments. I burst the bubble and some guys will do it for them " Dude this is a job, stop being annoying". I didn't even have to say anything since the other guys did it for me

    Generally the younger men get it. I tend to hit this issue with men late 60s+ Usually it's a combination of a lack of connecting to reality, not seeing themselves and their age plus a view that a younger woman is easy prey. They tend to lie to themselves which makes them usually go for more illegal options. (pedo)

    If they end up throwing a temper tantrum in my room then I go all out with " If you think I'm being unreasonable try putting up a dating profile with pictures of your face and body "full clothed" then contact women between the ages of 18-21 for a date. Then contact women from 22-25. The message should be identical. Let me know of your findings. Usually this spurs angry outbursts and some unsavory terms are thrown my way. I say aww looks like you really do live in reality with me Glad I could be of help, have a nice dayYAh! I clap, smile and block.

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    Are there really customers doing this?

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    Ugh this happens to me ALL THE TImE!! It's so annoying because I always end up having to be kind of bitchy for them to get the point that I will NEVER go out with them. Some guys are so persistent, it drives me insane...and it's bad for money of course. I've lost many regulars because they end up doing this

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    Quote Originally Posted by pickes View Post
    Ugh this happens to me ALL THE TImE!! It's so annoying because I always end up having to be kind of bitchy for them to get the point that I will NEVER go out with them. Some guys are so persistent, it drives me insane...and it's bad for money of course. I've lost many regulars because they end up doing this
    I totally feel you...I end up being bitchy with some of them too. Its mainly the older men, they try TOO hard to make them yours. Some customers know damn well not to even have my number and info due to thier wives and I would rather not have thiers. With the luck of my backup phone, I gave a customer my number and he has been blowing that phone up!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    I find these guys are typically looking at woman that wouldn't normally give them the time of day. They just want what they can't have. I try not to lead them on, take their money, and call it a day... okay maybe I lead them on a little... or a lot. w/e.. their problem. Defiantly don't see them outside the club.

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    Yes...I had another dude.This was was feeling on my butt crack and kept telling me he wanted a girlfriend and was freaking me out. Once he told me that he wanted to "play with me" , I was gone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Summerlove91 View Post
    Yes...I had another dude.This was was feeling on my butt crack and kept telling me he wanted a girlfriend and was freaking me out. Once he told me that he wanted to "play with me" , I was gone.
    eww wft. Why would any woman see him as relationship material with that opener?

    I have a guy asking me to say "I love you in private" I refuse. I just hahaah ehehe and giggle like a fucking 8 year old. I did it once because it was a request and that created the worst cam stalking for months after that. Now? nope not doing it.

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    that's when you point them to the extras girls. LOL

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    Default Re: When Customers say: "Im here looking for romance/girlfriend in this club"!!!??!!

    I hate it when regulars start asking me to "have lunch" before work & asking me to go out on the boat with their friends! Funny thing is married men are the worst!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TrophyStripper View Post
    I hate it when regulars start asking me to "have lunch" before work & asking me to go out on the boat with their friends! Funny thing is married men are the worst!
    yup they're the most clingy because they're trying to replace what they're not getting at home with u. most of my escort clients when i was in that line of work were married guys
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