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    So I made an account on Collarme thinking I could drum up some side business. Omg! I'm so terrified by the weirdos on there. I'm from San Francisco so I'm used to alternative lifestyles. But the type of messages I got forced me to close my account after only 3 days.

    1. The subs that speak in a pseudo-mid-evil language. It's so retarded to me.
    2. The guys that pretend to be into fin-Dom but don't send you any $ when you tell them to
    3. The white handsome men that send you pics of women being tortured. I'm so scared to be serial killed. And they look so normal!
    4. The subs that send you mean messages. I'm like "when I want your opinion I will give it to you!"

    So that's it for me. I told my Man about it and he said its good I closed my account. I told him how the weirdest messages were from handsome white males. He said those are the type of guys that are very smart. They can hack & get your location. Then sit outside your house for days. And when the opportunity comes run up behind you & put chloroform over your mouth. And if people see him carrying your limp body he just says "oh she's drunk lol". The. You wake up chained up in a dungeon somewhere. And nobody knows what happened to you.

    I thought I had what it took to be a Domme because I'm mean but I now realized its more than I thought for sure. It's like babysitting weirdos , needy weirdos. It's not for me & I have respect for women who can do it.
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    Default Re: Why didn't y'all warn me about Collarme?!

    Collarme is a whole different weird variety of domme. Most of the people on there don't understand the relationship and intimacy of a TRUE sub/domme relationship.

    You could easily be a dominant female, or Domme, but those guys want a whole different variety of fucked up. Sorry that happened to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearl_Sugar View Post
    Collarme is a whole different weird variety of domme. Most of the people on there don't understand the relationship and intimacy of a TRUE sub/domme relationship.

    You could easily be a dominant female, or Domme, but those guys want a whole different variety of fucked up. Sorry that happened to you.
    I swear one of the guys was very "it puts lotion on its skin". He was sending me pics of a woman with needles going through her boobs. And tied up with her neck bulging the wrong way. And saying she was beautiful and I wasn't.

    And they whined a lot about women wanting money. Then there was a whole section on 'Gregorian'. Or something. Idk. They live like in an alternate world I think. With their own language. And customs. I'm like 'these people are losers!'
    I ran out of there and realized how vanilla I really am. Lol
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    Default Re: Why didn't y'all warn me about Collarme?!

    Not even the most hardcore of girls would submit to that sort of shit. >_>

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    Default Re: Why didn't y'all warn me about Collarme?!

    CollarMe is crazy! Like a few completely handful of sane people and the rest are crazy! Lol like genuinely 'skin-crawl' types.

    CollarMe is supposed to be a BDSM classified site - instead, the men who join it are one of these:

    A) trying to play out an Internet fantasy and looking for some kind of long distance freebie.
    B) useing BDSM as an excuse to try and get some pussy.
    C) are fucking crazy. Want people to relocate and live in their basement (most likely a fantasy but...still wacky, those fuckers are pushy)

    If you stay on and wade through the shit, yes you can convert guys to Indy. Just block the psychos, and only respond to people who have an interest in your profile.


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    I don't think any of them are serial killers tbh. Maybe someone with like no understanding of BDSM it would be....unnerving. But I think a lot are just hardcore sadists trying to find a submissive masochist to play with. And CollarMe is pretty much filled with those types - basically some 'Streamate free-chat superbeast' type of thing. And when you hear all of 50 in-depth fantasies in a day, your view is kind of skewed. lol

    And you know how men are: "HERE IS MY UNSOLICITED SEXUAL FANTASY, I JERKED OFF WHILE WRITING THIS. ITS HOT. DID IT MAKE YOU HOT?" Lol ugh.

    Lots of Findom guys are fakes - and get off to the fantasy of it. Findom guys will find you, not the other way around. If they dont spend like they say they will - just block them. Timewasters.
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    Oh. And I forgot about the college educated guy who was willing to write blogs, thesis etc for me. I was like what am I supposed to do with a slave that does that?!

    And yes, guys asked me if they could relocate and live in my basement and be my slave.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babybunny View Post
    I swear one of the guys was very "it puts lotion on its skin". He was sending me pics of a woman with needles going through her boobs. And tied up with her neck bulging the wrong way. And saying she was beautiful and I wasn't.
    Yeah hardcore S&M - lots of people are into it. Rain DeGrey from Kink.com is a good example (shes been in other sites: sticking needles under her fingernails, forced to eat her puke, zapping her with cattle prods until shes sobbing and screaming - when you first watch it, its almost like something from a torture scene - genuinely scares vanilla ppl lol - but she totally loves it) people are just wired differently and get off on extreme pain. And masochist needs a sadist?

    Lots of it on fetlife if you wade through groups/people's profiles to look. Needles through boobs, Nailing tits to a wooden board. Sewing pussy's shut. People who cut their cocks in half to make a split cock, etc etc.

    Lol I guess nothing shocks me anymore? I am IMMUNE >


    Quote Originally Posted by Babybunny View Post
    And they whined a lot about women wanting money. Then there was a whole section on 'Gregorian'. Or something. Idk. They live like in an alternate world I think. With their own language. And customs. I'm like 'these people are losers!'
    I ran out of there and realized how vanilla I really am. Lol

    It's called - 'Gorean'

    And is based off a big series of books - kind of fantasy non-consent Domination/submission. So they are basically like, cos-players? In a sense lol. But some like to genuinely live by the books and do brandings on their slaves and wear slave silks around the house, etc To each their own. I've never been able to get into it myself lol







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    Default Re: Why didn't y'all warn me about Collarme?!

    Q. Why did the chicken cross the road?
    A. To get the fuck away from Collarme.


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    Default Re: Why didn't y'all warn me about Collarme?!

    Fetlife is significantly saner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    Q. Why did the chicken cross the road?
    A. To get the fuck away from Collarme.
    You're hella funny
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    Default Re: Why didn't y'all warn me about Collarme?!

    I had to put people in their place including the "dommes" that try hard, abusive to other "dommes" etc. to prove that they are superior.
    "No no no, let me tell you exactly how it will go and that is how it will be" and that went for everyone across the board.
    One domme sent her sub to "abuse" me like it was a "hazing". Never send your sub to me, he is now mine.

    yeah, that site is weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    I had to put people in their place including the "dommes" that try hard, abusive to other "dommes" etc. to prove that they are superior.
    "No no no, let me tell you exactly how it will go and that is how it will be" and that went for everyone across the board.
    One domme sent her sub to "abuse" me like it was a "hazing". Never send your sub to me, he is now mine.

    yeah, that site is weird.
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    I think its funny bc I never considered myself a domme

    LOL its @Haydens fault I made that profile.

    She and others swear I am a domme. I just dont take shit from anyone. I consider it a bitch. I dont have whips, chains, Im not going to play dress up in leather and shit I dont find comfy. It all comes from personality.
    Pissed me off when "dommes" where attacking me. They may send their little punks but I will find out where they came from. They would threaten their subs Funny how "dommes" will kneel down like a dog, run and hide, block me. That is not a domme, that is a sub. Had so much to say, come out and play.. oh your scared? IMO you are a sub. That will piss a so called domme off. I submitted more dommes than subs.
    Some of the dommes are very respectful .

    That site is a hot mess but if you can wade through the BS you will be fine. I need to update my profile. I just let it hang and they find me. I ignore them until I see a form of payment. Dont talk to me in email about a fantasy, buy a cam show. Its great marketing.

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    I swear LOL dont get me started about some sites. Its crazy! I felt the same as the OP... WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!!!?????????????? lol

    and I said the exact same thing WHY DID YOU NOT WARN ME ?lololol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babybunny View Post
    I ran out of there and realized how vanilla I really am. Lol
    Running away from Collarme doesn't make you Vanilla... It makes you sane. Seconding a vote of confidence for Fetlife... It's like the Facebook of kink. Sure you get the occasional Collarme-esque weirdo, but it's mostly real, sane people into consensual kink. I'm a RACK/PRICK player myself... Risk Aware Consensual Kink/Personal Responsibility In Consensual Kink.
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    I liked seeing the guys in women's clothes & I like adult babies and light spanking & paddling. I also love to insult people.
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    I signed up and got some abuse mails from a crossdresser saying how he hates my kind. We had an email war which I won. They deleted my profile text and then a week later closed my account.

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    refuse to go back and forth with emails, refuse. I will respond once and that is it until they prove different. Emails are way for them to get off with out doing shit.

    Some subs get it twisted, they want to be in control. That is not how it works. SUBS ARE NEVER IN CONTROL

    ie ~ wear a tight black spandex outfit

    My reply is I believe you have overstepped your boundaries. I wear what I please and you will be happy.

    Him~ I want you to do xyz

    me~I dont care what you want, I want you to re evaluate this situation and do not ever tell me you want something
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babybunny View Post
    I liked seeing the guys in women's clothes & I like adult babies and light spanking & paddling. I also love to insult people.
    This is so me! Put a guy in panties and lipstick and it's on! I get so hot over cross dressing straight men. On fet I just chat. I was actually looking for a toy to play with there + drum up business. Now I just put my links up and leave it to that.

    I've been on fetlife for a few years now and really the subs suck. It's like they want you fulfill their fantasies then try the "you're a whore for wanting money". I did get a fun ABDL onto the cam site. We do shows every once in awhile. I've played the baby a few times and hey regressing isn't half bad. lol.

    Also the teamviewer group on fet isn't half bad. I've had a few blackmail types walk me through how I can play power exchange games and lock their computer or black out their screen. Fun and quite informative

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    Wow! That is really fucked up. I will stay away.

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    I had a profile on Collarme for years before they decided I couldn't post links in my journal, even to Youtube. Some cheap-o must have complained. It was mostly good for entertainment value but i got a few phone sex clients there, more than Fetlife. Collarme guys figure out that they will need to pay for their fantasies much more quickly then Fetlife guys in my experience. I'm still working Fetlife and hoping for the best lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    Q. Why did the chicken cross the road?
    A. To get the fuck away from Collarme.
    Before joining, I ready a lot of negative reviews about Collarme. I haven't had anyone send me horrible photos of women being tortured but it's true that there are a lot of fakes on Collarme. I've never come across any true slaves/subs on there that have enough common sense to pay tribute if they want My attention but there are plenty of fakes that claim they'll pay tribute and never follow through so I simply block their asses for good. Fetlife is really the way to go.

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    Ohhhh yes, collarme.... smdh.




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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigNerd View Post
    Hey everyone. Collarme is a kinky dating site. Most people go on dating sites looking for a real life relationship with someone who really likes them. Fetlife is a community of people that like to discuss their freaky side and occasionally get together. If you go to a either site and try to peddle your services, then you'll probably get turned down 99% of the time. It's kind of like going to a pay to play webcam site, and getting mad when the girls won't give you free boobies. Calling dudes losers for being into a kink that you don't understand isn't really helping change the public opinion about cammodels on kinky sites. You know the guys that give out 'bitch' or 'lame show' tags because they didn't get their way in your room? Yeah, you're that guy in this scenario.

    I actually do get paying traffic from kinky sites, but that probably has something to do with the fact that I'm the kind of girl who will thank my master for stabbing needles into my breasts. I get all medieval in my indie shows. I don't really get the appeal of findoms, but your kink is not my kink and that's ok. However, strictly virtual financial domination is probably not a very popular fetish. Consider yourselves warned I guess???
    When I called the guys names it was more for humor for my post. Since there not in here I didn't feel I was hurting anybody's feelings. In fact my whole thread was supposed to be humorous.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigNerd View Post
    Hey everyone. Collarme is a kinky dating site. Most people go on dating sites looking for a real life relationship with someone who really likes them. Fetlife is a community of people that like to discuss their freaky side and occasionally get together. If you go to a either site and try to peddle your services, then you'll probably get turned down 99% of the time. It's kind of like going to a pay to play webcam site, and getting mad when the girls won't give you free boobies. Calling dudes losers for being into a kink that you don't understand isn't really helping change the public opinion about cammodels on kinky sites. You know the guys that give out 'bitch' or 'lame show' tags because they didn't get their way in your room? Yeah, you're that guy in this scenario.

    I actually do get paying traffic from kinky sites, but that probably has something to do with the fact that I'm the kind of girl who will thank my master for stabbing needles into my breasts. I get all medieval in my indie shows. I don't really get the appeal of findoms, but your kink is not my kink and that's ok. However, strictly virtual financial domination is probably not a very popular fetish. Consider yourselves warned I guess???
    Maybe you misunderstand me if I've used the term "losers". As I said I thought of having an in person playmate at first + business. I enjoyed many of the discussions as well. What I noticed most about fet is that the popular view their is more your type submissive women /Dom men. That's the start. Domme/Domina women are far and few yet the men contact women in a "be my fantasy". What I mean by "losers" is that they aren't real subs. Case and point. A sweet woman put up an ad that runs a nursery in real life. She's exactly what a ABDL would want. She offered her services for FREE because she really enjoys the fetish.. Everything was explained in the ad and everyone was really excited about the offer. What did these LOSERS do?

    Many contacted her and said well after you baby me can you pull on my cock? Can you suck my penis? Can I fuck you?

    Stupid fuckers actually called her with that. She told the group :NEVERMIND.

    This is my point.

    Then there have been ads placed by men that are into needle play but have no formal training. There have been a few threads where a guy was into hard play and I told them that they should get training for this before asking someone to meet them. Guess what? Guy went off on me like " shut up I'll do what I want" blah. So here you have another psycho that's looking to actually cause harm.

    I'm not going to get into the many great women that enjoy the rush of shibari rope play yet get some sick fucker who ties them up and rapes them. Oopps did you not here my safe word bitch? Ohh wait I'm tied up so can't do much about it.

    Now financial domination is frowned on that site. When I say frowned on I mean you'll be attacked and ridiculed for it.

    Fetlife is a community that is true but not everyone is there for that. What I generally got from men was that they were there to find an easy fuck. That's about it. It didn't matter if they were submissive, kinkster, fetishist or Dom.

    Another thing I noticed is that they bash women under 280lbs. If you're petite , slender you're not going to be very welcomed on the site.

    What I thought was interesting was that there are a few men that do financial domination there. Guess what? No one has an issue with that. Why? Because they're men.

    So take it for what you will but it's a place where men rule women submit. Be it sexually, mentally, financially etc. Sure there are Dominas there but you hear the complaints in the opposite from subs. One major complaint is "why is my sexuality being ignored" " I don't want my cock in a cage". Why do the Doms get to fuck their subs but the Dominas ignore sexuality of men? With all of the truly highly intelligent people there you would think they could easily answer this.

    Then you have women trying to one up each other or attacking one another whenever a guy posts a compliment to one. You see the circle jerk posts of " intelligence vs beauty" threads all over that place why? Well I fully admit many of the posters there are of the truly highly intelligent camp. I've been in awe of their high intellect but majority do not fit into the visual aspects of society's beauty mold. This creates the desire to reiterate how important intelligence is vs looks ad nauseum.

    You will chat with some truly disturbed people on that site. I'm talking about a 45 yr old man that contacted me after his "underage" girlfriend left him. I was like whoa wtf. The girl was actually younger than his 17 year old son. Sick huh?

    Men contact all women hunting for sex. I just send those guys links to the "sluts" groups whenever they message me.

    Whore bashing is acceptable. Slut bashing isn't.

    Collarme?Older men (50+) will specifically single out financial dom ads and fuck with the women posting them. They talk about the fun they have doing this on Fetlife. I think the last comment was something to the effect of " I have gizz filled condoms older than these whores" yet on fet they are contacting 21 year old Dominas to submit to. Go figure.

    Now beyond all of that ^ there are some great discussions and you'll chat with like minded individuals. There are even others that are too afraid to post because their feeling on a topic do not match the majority. Those are the ones that usually privately message me and tell me "I agree with what you posted". I understand it's not easy being bashed for a view that doesn't mesh with whatever that specific group wants to peddle as "the norm". So I have no issues taking heat.

    I get along best with Dom men even if their kinks and fetishes do not match my own. My favorite guy right now is actually a Dom that is also poly. We tend to laugh at alot of the threads where things are way off the map. Advice that is typically peddled with an agenda attached to it. We just sit back and share threads on the dangers of this site. If I feel moved enough I'll send a message to a poster to just be very careful. That's about it. Not everyone on that site is even of age.

    There is a section for adult industry workers so I help when I can. The only issues you see there are men trying to get them to join their studio for some 15% pay out.

    If you can avoid the nonsense you'll do just fine. There are many fun and interesting groups on the site that I participate in. Some have nothing to do with kink at all.

    As far as collarme? I have never signed up to that site. When I saw the funky format circa 1990s that's when I kinda shrugged it off and moved on. I like fetlife more so for its vast amount of information.

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