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    i'm auditioning tomorrow and i'm super super nervous. i'm excited, but i'm nervous haha

    i'm 18 and since the club serves alcohol i am only allowed to do stage dances and lap dances. i'm not allowed to work the floor. and i'm kind of freaking out because i honestly have no idea how to give a lap dance. it's not something i've ever tried out in my personal life and i'm just really nervous because i'm afraid everyone expects me to know what i'm doing and i just don't.

    do you guys have any advice? either on lap dances or stage dances or even just dancing in general. i have a pole so i've practiced dancing and recorded it to see how i looked and it's not that bad but it's not really good either. you can tell that i have a nice body but i don't move it the right way lol. but my biggest concern is definitely the lap dance. i have watched some videos but nothing truly helpful. if you have any advice or videos or even links to a similar thread (which i'm sure is out there i just couldn't find it) i would be immensely appreciative! thanks!
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    Default Re: lap dance advice??

    im confused, you can't work the floor how are you supposed to be able to sell lap dances?? what are the contact laws in your area? the biggest tip i can give without being too specific ( because i don't know your boundaries, the laws in your area) is ti act like you enjoy doing it. the biggest mistake i see girls make is that they have one little formula they do over and over and they don't make eye contact, they don't put effort in, they just act like little bored robots who are disgusted by the men they are dancing for. now, while we all may be disgusted more than once by the customers, don't show that. sultry eye contact, hair curtains, touching yourself in a sexy way, smiling, biting your lip, going down between their legs and sucking your finger ( i do that one a lot, always gets me a 2nd dance), ill stroke their scalp while i give a dance, moan, arch my back while on their lap...WATCH THE OTHER GIRLS! that'll give you a good idea as well..you will develop your own style real quick. ramp up the sexiness as you get to the end of the dance and don't stop dancing while you ask for the 2nd one!! there are great tips in hustle hut stickies
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    Default Re: lap dance advice??

    Check out the The Instructional Video Thread .. Plenty of amazingly helpful videos for both lap dances and stage.

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    Default Re: lap dance advice??

    Like with stage dancing, the main things to keep in mind are to move slowly, make eye contact, and don't look bored. A no contact air dance is a whole different ball game than one-way contact or high contact, so it's hard to advise more specifically without knowing what the rules for contact are.

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