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    Hey Ladies so ive been stripping for about 4 months now and I just had my first weekend at the new club! Money was alot better than than my old club but of course im the "new girl" all over again!!! Which sucks but Im tough so i deal!!! Anyway my friend and i auditioned together on a monday the mgr hired both of us tht night one of the girls struck up a conversation with my friend they were both african and were wearing waist beads.. anyway my first day was friday and my friend decided it wasnt a good fit for her so she didnt go. On friday while in the dressing room which is the size of a small box i had mny suitcase on the chair and when it gets really crowded girls place there stuff on the floor underneath the chairs the same girl who struck up a conversation with my friend, bag must have been underneath my stuff i was facing the opposite direction getting dressed as it was time to go home for the night the girl proceeded to run both hands down my ass to my ankles like a sensual frisking motion like a officer would do when searching a criminal and she says "oh im sorry i didnt know who's butt this was!" as she continues to run her hands down my ass and legs.. I didnt know how to react to this so i laughed it off as she was being friendly so i thought. The next night we have a short but friendly convo about my friend who didnt come back and she makes the comment that she is cute and could do well at the club i agree by saying "yes she is cute isnt she" as i smiled and left out of the dressing room she starts giggling loudly and smilling really hard later on tht night i was bending over talking to a customer and she walks pass and runs her hand across my ass as she walks by she doesnt stop or say anything just walks pass as if nothing happened i dont know how to take this is this girl coming on to me? i mean she is cute and all i do consider myself bi but i am still new at this club and dont realli dont get her angle any advicde help thanks ladies

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    Default Re: Dancer coming on to me????

    Some dancers (especially ones on drugs) just do that kind of weird shit.

    Or she is a lesbian/bisexual and wants to have sex with you.

    My vote is option A. If you don't like it or it makes you uncomfortable, don't hesitate to let her know!

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    Its hard to say...could be a number of things: maybe she is being flirty with you, maybe she's just having fun and the touchy feel-y type, maybe there is some inner game she's trying to play, or like tsepmet1 says maybe she's on one and can't keep her hands to herself ... IDK If it happens a 3rd time, maybe ask her whats up and see what response she gives you ...

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    Thanks ladies I just know strippers can be shady people sometimes and im still new to the club and want to handle this in a way that would cause the least amount of confusion. btw she doesnt come off as the druggy type ive seen those!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Dancer coming on to me????

    Hey now, anyone can be shady... Not just strippers.

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    No no offense you are right its just we hustle for a living not excluding each other sometimes!

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    Default Re: Dancer coming on to me????

    Agree, a little hard to read, though.


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    The ONLY weird thing about this situation is that she doesn't know you (you aren't friends)...otherwise, I wouldn't bat an eyelid. Many dancer's harmlessly fool around being silly like this e.g. smacking someone who's bending over the change room for shits and giggles etc. They (girls who actually know each other) especially muck around like this in front of customers in order to invite doubles. But most wouldn't behave this way around a dancer they didn't know, or a new dancer!

    Is she like this with everyone? If so, it's probably innocent. If not, I'd say she was either drunk and overly "handsy" or she's interested in you and is being too forward. Either way, just ignore it and if it makes you too uncomfortable or she crosses any lines just politely let her know that you don't appreciate it.
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    Default Re: Dancer coming on to me????

    this sounds pretty innocent to me. i wouldn't say that dancers are "shady" but we are generally more in-touch with our sexuality and more open than ppl in other walks of life. she may just be trying to be friendly and does this with everyone, or she may very well be attracted to you. but if it really bugs you that much, tell her or just subtely move your hand or something. damn, when i was the new girl i got my car keyed and bitches trying to jump and fire me, this doesn't sound so bad ..is she cute at least? haha

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    [email protected] I have been lucky enough to not encounter tht yet (car keyed, jumping and firing me) lol so this may not seem tht bad compared to tht wheeew she is cute tho and didn't notice her doin this with anyone else although I wasn't watching her all nite I was to busy making money lol but when I did see her I didn't see her behaving this way with the other girls its more sly and coy than playful!

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