
Originally Posted by
charlie61
I don't think raining is generally intended to get the dancer to come over afterwards. We're at a place in our economy where I don't think it takes that much to get a dancer to come ask you for a private dance after she's done with her show. Or at least, it shouldn't! If it does, either the customer or the dancer has bigger problems.
I mean, I can't imagine someone dropping $50 into my garter just to entice me into asking them for a dance. Seems weird. For a guy to get my attention, a tip on stage is nice, plus the words "come see me after you're done - I'd love to talk about VIP / private dances." If a girl requires that much money to come ask you for a dance, she's either completely clueless about her job or incredibly in-demand (the latter being a rare occurrence, like if a feature is doing private dances).
Generally it's intended to intimidate / get the attention of other males in the room, IMO and IME. The dude is putting on a show for the other dudes. Which is kind of adorable, in a "men's egos are so fragile" way, when you think about it.
Hip-hop videos are so unintentionally funny in that way...they're more about men communicating indirectly with other men (oftentimes the viewer) than about how the men are interacting with women.
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