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    Basically I started camming backwards. I used my own pictures for phone sex which led to camming occaisionally on Niteflirt and then I signed up for a couple of indie sites and recently set up a Clips4Sale. Now, I'm interested in trying out the token sites, however, other than Streamate, when I lurk on MFC and Chaturbate all the the girls are so young and perfect that I am doubting sucess before even starting. I'm over 40 and play up the whole Mature/ MILF housewife thing. Obviously, the reasonable thing is to give them all a try and see what happens, but, I'm scared

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    you need to have faith in yourself. If you show confidence they guys will see that and love it. What can it hurt to try? if it doesnt workout at least you can say you tired! good luck

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    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...like-aunt.html

    There is significant demand for MILFs in porn.

    On Streamate, many of the top girls are 30+ and I see a 50 year old dom on there who rocks that shit up like nobodies business.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Incantatious View Post
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...like-aunt.html

    There is significant demand for MILFs in porn.

    On Streamate, many of the top girls are 30+ and I see a 50 year old dom on there who rocks that shit up like nobodies business.
    Thank-you both. I am so laughing at "Austrailians like gay men" how completely against the Aussie stereotype that is. Goes to show the more taboo the more its wanted.

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    Don't be afraid! A lot of men want a mature woman who has experience! There is a very high demand in that. It's really important that you don't let it get you down. Yes, men will insult you and call you names. It happens to every model, seriously! You just have to be confident in who you are and know that they are wrong and just looking to bring you down for their own cruel reasons. If you can deal with that, there are a ton of men out there who will respect you and want to give you money, buy you things, and even just talk to you because they like you. Besides, it doesn't hurt to just give it a shot! =]

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    Don't be scared. There are customers for every single niche you can think of. Give it a shot and see what happens.


    Quote Originally Posted by chloemay View Post
    Basically I started camming backwards. I used my own pictures for phone sex which led to camming occaisionally on Niteflirt and then I signed up for a couple of indie sites and recently set up a Clips4Sale. Now, I'm interested in trying out the token sites, however, other than Streamate, when I lurk on MFC and Chaturbate all the the girls are so young and perfect that I am doubting sucess before even starting. I'm over 40 and play up the whole Mature/ MILF housewife thing. Obviously, the reasonable thing is to give them all a try and see what happens, but, I'm scared

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    Dear Clhloe! Never ever be afraid okay? The best girl on Mfc is 40+ plus i know 2 other women who r 45+ and they r always in the top 2 row like always on mfc! You will be amazing just believe in yourself! And love what you do on cam then guys will throw money at you! Best of luck for you sweetheart! hugggsss <3

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    I'm over 40 and it's definitely a niche!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    I'm over 40 and it's definitely a niche!
    And I will be 50 this year! Seriously I started camming when I was 45, realising that much younger guys found me sexy at my age was a real ego boost! Keep this in mind: maturity = experience = confidence =SEXY! Go get 'em tiger
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    I'm 53 and the guys love it! You are going to be pleasantly surprised
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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigNerd View Post
    I'm wondering if you're only interested in the token sites. I've never tried them, but I imagine your personality would have more to do with your success there than your age. From what I've seen of MFC the guys go for super bubbly, happy types or crazy party girls. I feel like the top models on Streamate have a broader range of personality types. Try all of the sites and see what works for you!
    Thank-you, that is what I've noticed in browsing so far, but apparently there is a lot more going on than the first couple of pages show on MFC. I specify token sites because I'm already on the private only/ indie ones and do well there with the guys who initiate contact but I want a broader audience for the potential $$.

    I started camming regularly on Niteflirt this year after having phonesex only listings since 2007, because the phone sex money really dried up. Found out that camming can be fun and listed with CMD and started (eek, call, will edit and finish)

    Thank you all for the good wishes and support. I'll work on that pesky super-clear pic with the driver's license and jump in and see how it goes.
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    You have absolutely nothing to be intimidated about, trust me. The beauty of this job is that everyone can do well regardless of how they look as long as they have the right personality and work ethic. Beauty and sexiness are so incredibly subjective, who one guy thinks is hot may do absolutely nothing for the next guy and vice versa. If you are already experienced with camming you have a huge advantage over the young girls who are just starting and have no idea how to maximize their income. I say good luck!

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    I love this thread. Women are sexy no matter what age we are. Love what you have and work it.

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    You kidding me? Grannies are taking over the camming world. (Not calling you a granny)

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    Ummm its definitely smoke and mirrors. I thought that too about girls before I became a dancer. Then I realized they all either have nasty skin, cellulite by the tubs, or stretch marks that rival a zebra. Well not that bad, but you get the idea. Smoke and mirrors. Lighting, angles, fake hair, makeup, and flattering outfits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    Ummm its definitely smoke and mirrors. I thought that too about girls before I became a dancer. Then I realized they all either have nasty skin, cellulite by the tubs, or stretch marks that rival a zebra. Well not that bad, but you get the idea. Smoke and mirrors. Lighting, angles, fake hair, makeup, and flattering outfits.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babybunny View Post
    No, I am naturally beautiful & perfect actually(lol)
    It really has nothing to do if you are naturally pretty or not. Everyone wears makeup, adjusts their lighting, and prefers certain angles lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    You kidding me? Grannies are taking over the camming world. (Not calling you a granny)
    You better believe it! Confidence and experience is damn sexy!

    I don't get the "granny" thing...my child is way too young to make me a granny, I'm a MILF! In my head, grannies are 60/70+.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chloemay View Post
    Thank-you, that is what I've noticed in browsing so far, but apparently there is a lot more going on than the first couple of pages show on MFC. I specify token sites because I'm already on the private only/ indie ones and do well there with the guys who initiate contact but I want a broader audience for the potential $$.

    I started camming regularly on Niteflirt this year after having phonesex only listings since 2007, because the phone sex money really dried up. Found out that camming can be fun and listed with CMD and started (eek, call, will edit and finish)

    Thank you all for the good wishes and support. I'll work on that pesky super-clear pic with the driver's license and jump in and see how it goes.
    IMO, coming from NF you have a distinct advantage! You're an experienced PSO, plus you've done phone w/cam. You know how to talk to your audience! Play this up, seriously! Always use sound and have a clear connection and guys will give you priority. So few girls really talk to and engage the audience and that goes a long way. Don't be concerned with age or anything. That doesn't matter, just like it doesn't matter on NF. All the guys want is to know that you're really the woman in the pictures and they'll obviously get that, plus you can talk back to them!

    When I have days where I feel like my face is gross and I look 30 years older than all of the girls on the internet, I just wear lots of makeup. LoL! I know it sounds silly but the crappier I feel about my appearance, the better and more I do a full face of makeup. Then, I look really flattering on cam and it's much easier to fake it, with confidence. Guys are all, "You're sooooo pretty!" and I'm like, "Not on the inside... but thanks!". I don't lie about my age (I'm 30) but I try to even out all my lines and look as chipper as possible, on cam. I swear by makeup. When all else fails, put on more makeup.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post

    I don't get the "granny" thing...my child is way too young to make me a granny, I'm a MILF! In my head, grannies are 60/70+.
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    I also want to offer my encouragement to the OP and anyone else who feels that they just aren't "hot enough".

    Just remember, that "hotness" is in the eye of the beholder. Your true personality will shine through the camera lens. You WILL gain confidence as you continue to learn and grow. There are literally millions of men who go online to peruse our profiles. Maybe you remind them of their 5th grade teacher... maybe the checkout girl at the grocery store down the street... maybe a neighbor they had as a kid... the list is endless.

    The bottom line is this: do not let anyone tell you that you can't do it because that simply is not true. Do not let society's version of beautiful dissuade you either because the reality is that it is a sham ... each to their own.

    You can do it ! We are here to support you and each other Good luck !

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