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    Default Ever been accused of "faking it"?

    I know a lot of you sometimes do fake orgasms, but I've only done it once before. One show, out of the thousands I've done. When a guy comes to me and says "I just want you to cum baby" - I do just that. i masturbate the way i normally would with my finger and I cum. I don't squirt, but you can see it in my face and if you're fucking me you most certainly can feel it. I always announce to my guys when I'm about to cum and I always moan. Today, for the first time in nearly three years of camming, a guy accused me of faking my orgasm. We did the show, and afterwards he says "I know you didn't really orgasm but thanks anyway"

    UH, WHAT?

    I flipped out. Like, i'm sorry that there isn't a giant neon sign over my head that says ORGASM REACHED! YOU DID IT" and I'm sorry my vagina doesn't shoot out rainbows but jesus fucking christ. he explicitly asked me to give myself an orgasm the way i normally would, and I did. maybe he thinks we all recreationaly use 12 inch dildos and scream bloody murder when we're about to cum? I don't know.

    Anyway, has this ever happened to you before? How did you handle it?

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    I never had that happen, like you, i try to be authentic. If I don't think I will finish, I tell them that, they are really understanding. Because of the meds I take, it is really hard for me, I always tell them if I dont cum, I will have fun trying. Dorry that happened to you.

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    Have it happen like 1 of every 3 times. Yes, they obviously expect us jackhammer ourselves at increasing pace as we are reaching it, wriggle like we're having a fit, pant, hoot and yell Oh God OH FUCK OH GOD OH FUCK IM CUMMIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNNGGGGG!!!! (the last one sounds like an engine scream)
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    I'm the complete opposite. I fake almost all of mine, but will occasionally cum if the private is going well (long). I haven't been able to orgasm easily with my hand since I was 10... that's not going to change, and I hate trying to yell over the sound of a loudly humming vibrator on my clit. Not to mention, the whole vibrator on the clip thing doesn't look at all sexy. So I give them what they think they want to see. Me pound and yell and whatever else gets them going. Even if a guy complained, i wouldn't give a fuck. There is a 100% chance he came, so I did my job. If he didn't like it he can go fuck himself. Or leave me a 1-star which is will later have removed and add him to my future ban list.

    Don't take things so personally. If the guy isn't a regular who is spending hundreds and thousands of dollars on you everyday, why does it matter what he thinks?

    On a semi related note, today I was in a show with a regular whom I was actually trying to cum for, and he left b4 I could finish, so I pulled my privacy curtain while in free chat so I could continue to play with hopes someone would go private and a guy had the balls to say " you know guys pay to see this, right?" Insta-ban also WTF was he even referring to? He was staring at a blue screen that said "cleaning up be back momentarily" and all he could hear was my loud ass vibe and me asking someone to go prvt so I could finish. I just logged off, did my thing, and got back on afterwards.

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    Default Re: Ever been accused of "faking it"?

    I fake ALL the time. I mimic the 'porn star' orgasm bit.

    I've never been accused of faking yet.

    Just goes to show, most guys have no idea what a women having a real orgasm looks like.

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    Default Re: Ever been accused of "faking it"?

    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    I fake ALL the time. I mimic the 'porn star' orgasm bit.

    I've never been accused of faking yet.

    Just goes to show, most guys have no idea what a women having a real orgasm looks like.
    Exactly. Besides, I do this for a living and am online hours and hours. If I actually did cum every time I'd be exhausted.

    My real orgams would also be boring to watch. I don't make much noise. All the reactions are mostloy internal so there would be nothing to watch.

    We are paid to make THEM cum.



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    I'm glad I'm not the only one because all I do is fake it, fake it all... LOL
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    Default Re: Ever been accused of "faking it"?

    Some will say we fake it just to see our reaction, some will think we fake it cause well, most of us actually do fake it including myself, i dont cum easy anyway but on cam i rarely cum and these guys will not stay in long enough anyway for me to cum so i just act and make them happy, we play a fantasy it doesent have to be real. if they dont like it and complain they can get lost, i dont actually care much, i know i am there to deliver a fantasy as i said. point is many expect us to cum very... visibly, many ask us to squirt (they have no clue not all women are able to squirt or how female orgasm works), alot are pretty ignorant and expect a volcanic orgasm within seconds, i really wonder how u able to cum for every of ur members anyway?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AliceFun View Post
    Some will say we fake it just to see our reaction, some will think we fake it cause well, most of us actually do fake it including myself, i dont cum easy anyway but on cam i rarely cum and these guys will not stay in long enough anyway for me to cum so i just act and make them happy, we play a fantasy it doesent have to be real. if they dont like it and complain they can get lost, i dont actually care much, i know i am there to deliver a fantasy as i said. point is many expect us to cum very... visibly, many ask us to squirt (they have no clue not all women are able to squirt or how female orgasm works), alot are pretty ignorant and expect a volcanic orgasm within seconds, i really wonder how u able to cum for every of ur members anyway?!
    I've always been multi-gasmic so cumming is really easy for me. I feel bad for those of you who don't share my "gift".

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    Default Re: Ever been accused of "faking it"?

    I always have squirting orgasms, and I can have them really easily, but I feel no pleasure from them. The one time I DID fake it, I was called out for it, so I try not to fake at all. rofl

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    Obviously us women are very complex regarding sexuality, men are soo simple functioning haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaana View Post
    I've always been multi-gasmic so cumming is really easy for me. I feel bad for those of you who don't share my "gift".
    My anxiety disorder makes it really hard for me to have an orgasm at all. I'd love to be multi-gasmic! I am happily jealous of your gift for sure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearl_Sugar View Post
    I always have squirting orgasms, and I can have them really easily, but I feel no pleasure from them.
    Its just a strange feeling for me, squirting. I much prefer non-squirting orgasms but those are much harder and take much to longer to achieve.

    But I think its thanks to squirting that I've never been accused of faking. Can't really fake a giant fountain shooting out of my pussy halfway across the room, soaking me, the bed, the towel, and sometime even hitting the camera. It's the next best thing to shooting rainbows out your cooch or that giant glowing "ORGASM ACHIEVED" sign.
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    I often cum on cam but sometimes fake it. Even when my orgasms are real I amp up the moaning, because in reality I don't make much noise when i play alone. Penetration alone doesn't do much for me, so even if the guy only really wants to see me pound myself, I will play with the clit too. Otherwise it is less authentic, for him and me. I haven't been accused of faking it yet, but I'm sure that day will come... there's a first for everything n the strange world of camming!

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    The guys always seem to know when I have a real orgasm. They go nuts when it happens and tell me that was the best ever. I can't possibly orgasm in every show but I can still squirt if I'm getting close. I'm more likely to have a real orgasm when they give me a lot of encouragement and don't keep requesting different positions, etc. Extra tips help too
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    Of course I fake it. How could these guys actually think the things I'm doing are sexually gratifying for me? I'm not a loser. I can get a real dick, in real life. I don't get turned on by the guys on a webcam. It's a job. I fake everything.

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    Default Re: Ever been accused of "faking it"?

    No, I have never been accused of faking it (I don't fake it, ever). I am hypersexual and have actually trained myself to orgasm without using my hands just by hearing the sound of a sexy man's voice. I don't cum in every show but if I don't finish the guy knows I don't finish. The closest insult I got was when I was still on SM doing a gold show which said I would cum after doing x,y,z. I reached the goal, came, and one guy immediately came back into my free chat and announced that I am a liar and a fake since I didn't squirt. Yep, this ignoramus actually thought squirting is proof of an orgasm. If he only knew! I can tell you I was freaking livid reading that, I can only imagine how pissed I'd be if I was accused of faking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babybunny View Post
    Of course I fake it. How could these guys actually think the things I'm doing are sexually gratifying for me? I'm not a loser. I can get a real dick, in real life. I don't get turned on by the guys on a webcam. It's a job. I fake everything.

    You know what turns me on? The $$$ adding up.

    All I see is signs, all I see is $$$!
    Hey, this is a little harsh. plenty of our customers can get laid..a lot of them just like the fantasy. no need to call them losers. :/

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    I actually havent been able to "finish" for about 8 yrs (solo or with a partner).


    I have no idea why.

    But yeah, I fake THAT part, but the build up and obvious enjoyment I get from SOME cam shows, helps a lot.

    I dont do the swearing, yelling, or weird faces....i make it realistic as it WOULD be, for me if I was actually having one.

    I saw a gold show on SM (I dont cam there, but I have a customer account), and...it wad the first gold show I had ever seen....it was not what I was expecting.

    The girl just said "oh fuck, oh fuck, oh fuck, oh fuck" over and over, while making weird faces, and thrusting the toy in and out, obviously faking the whole thing. I dont see how watch a girl shove a toy in and out could get a guy off, when MOST women need their clit stimulated.

    Guys are stupid if they think you are going to cum from ramming an object in and out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CanadianRuby View Post
    I actually havent been able to "finish" for about 8 yrs (solo or with a partner).


    I have no idea why.

    But yeah, I fake THAT part, but the build up and obvious enjoyment I get from SOME cam shows, helps a lot.

    I dont do the swearing, yelling, or weird faces....i make it realistic as it WOULD be, for me if I was actually having one.

    I saw a gold show on SM (I dont cam there, but I have a customer account), and...it wad the first gold show I had ever seen....it was not what I was expecting.

    The girl just said "oh fuck, oh fuck, oh fuck, oh fuck" over and over, while making weird faces, and thrusting the toy in and out, obviously faking the whole thing. I dont see how watch a girl shove a toy in and out could get a guy off, when MOST women need their clit stimulated.

    Guys are stupid if they think you are going to cum from ramming an object in and out.
    That's just bad acting.

    Part of me feels like one reason guys think we get off on stuff like that is that that's what some women think they want to see, or think that's what they *have* to do to be a good cam girl. I feel like if we slowly educated our customers about rhythm and all that, people would learn

    Or they'd say "wow ur boring" and go find a video of a girl fucking herself with a hamer. Either one.

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    I fake it pretty much always. Only time I've actually cum for a "show" was when I was making a personal video for someone using my rabbit vibrator.

    Other than that though I only have a 14.5 inch dildo, which guys always seem to prefer me using on cam rather than my rabbit, but it really does nothing for me (other than make me a little sore). I need clit stimulation in order to come. They don't seem to realise that though, or indeed care - the visual aspect of seeing me tackle such a huge dildo seems to really get guys hard. But as it doesn't do anything pleasurable for me I just have to fake my orgasms.

    Not been called out though on it yet, and if I ever was, I'd just deny it and say I really had cum. It wouldn't bother me I don't think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaana View Post
    Hey, this is a little harsh. plenty of our customers can get laid..a lot of them just like the fantasy. no need to call them losers. :/
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    At this time, i never do , or did fake orgasms. Somehow i dont think, it s a part of my job. xD
    I wish i could do it, like other girls, but somehow i can't get it.
    It s very rare i have a real orgasm on cam. And so much time...
    Naturally, I m slow, and more slow on cam to get it.
    So, if somebody tell me: "i like to see u cum" i think: okay, let's play (I m curious u have enough time?)!
    And i start to play, but usually their money ends up before it happens.
    Nobody, never complained about it, because i m not wasting their time anyway.

    "How did you handle it" --- i think, the guy had a bad day, than he found you, and tried to blame u.
    So, handle mode: pffff u guy! D: go toward. :*) And make sure, he spend enough money to do it. xD
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    Default Re: Ever been accused of "faking it"?

    Funnily enough - when I cum, I actually DO scream and shout and flail. With another person, that is. On my own, I am far quieter, and usually make absolutely no noise at all. Some of my best shows, however, have also been my noisiest - when people are watching me, I find it easier to get really into it if I get as loud as I would with a partner.

    I think it's just worth mentioning that just because a girl is screaming and moaning and saying "oh fuck" while pounding away - it doesn't mean that she is always faking it. Some women DO cum from penetration, some women ARE loud and swear a lot when they get there.

    Anyway - to the OP...don't stress about it.

    Some guys think that by saying "I know what you are doing" - they are proving that they are better than all those other guys who are just being duped by all the unscrupulous camgirls. It's a way of one-upping the other guys - THEY are doing it because they think it is real. But THIS guy, he knows the truth. He knows what is really going on. He's special. They want to prove to you how smart and switched on they are - you can't trick them! They are in on it!!

    Don't let it bug you if they think it is real. Smile, agree, do whatever you were going to do anyway.
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