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    "A "creepy" guy is mainly a guy the woman's not attracted to giving her attention. He may have behavior characteristics that she may consider "odd", but that a woman who's attracted to him would find endearing.

    Basically, if a woman finds a guy attractive, she won't ever think he's creepy."

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    I sincerely believe this ^. Sure we have established and accepted ways of conducting during human interaction that we could consider creepy and concerning such as leering, sneering, stalking, lewd comments, etc.

    So girls and guys, what is your personal definition/description of what makes a guy creepy?

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    "1. Stares all the time, in silence
    You wouldn't care if he was hot and seemed rich.

    2. Asks you out knowing you’re taken
    That's just an idiot..........not creepy

    3. Gives inappropriate compliments
    You wouldn't care if he was hot and seemed rich

    4. Wears the same freakin’ shirt everyday (or so it seems)
    That's a dirtbag........not necessarily creepy

    5. BO. Not talking gym either. Poor hygiene in general.
    See # 4

    6. Has a baby seat in his car (supposedly single)
    Ummm, ever hear of a single dad? Women better pray to God men dont start thinking like you...........as there are a million single moms trying to get with guys.

    7. Loves peach-scented candles and yoga
    Gay, you don't even have to worry about these guys.

    8. Lives in his parents basement after age of 18
    A little weird and sheltered but not necessarily creepy

    9. Tries to talk you up despite your one word answers
    A dumbass - If he tries to lure you out to his car even though you are giving one word answers..........creepy.

    10. Stands waaaay too close for comfort
    Close talker = annoying.........not necessarily creepy

    11. Over 40 gentlemen wearing frosted tips, earrings, hemp, shell necklace or anything surfer-dude
    Mid-life crisis...........wait until you are over 40, see how you feel and if you are still trying to keep up fashion with the 20 yr olds.

    12. Looks like Dwight from “The Office”. That along sends me running, lol. I couldn’t deal with bulging eyes since I was a child.
    OK, Dwight is probably creepy."
    -Squonk


    "You can't just look at someone and determine what kind of person they are. You can say "I don't think they are physically attractive", but you cannot say what they are like as a person.

    Anyone who thinks someone is "creepy" because of the way they look or the way they dress needs to re-evaluate themselves and get a life of their own so they don't worry so much about others."
    -CVOW

    I concur ^

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    somebody who i get a bad vibe from. somebody who makes my skin crawl. somebody my guts is telling me "stay away!! danger!". that, to me, is creepy. its a vibe i get. a well-dressed young man can be creepy, or a homeless old drunk. its not about clothing

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    somebody who i get a bad vibe from. somebody who makes my skin crawl. somebody my guts is telling me "stay away!! danger!". that, to me, is creepy. its a vibe i get. a well-dressed young man can be creepy, or a homeless old drunk. its not about clothing
    So its more so of their actions not necessarily/solely their appearance.
    Some of my friends say I am really weird...but what is weird? Whats weird to you might not be weird to me.
    And do weird and creepy go hand in hand?

    I prefer to have very few friends, quality > quantity
    I am quiet and don't talk much...I prefer to listen and absorb vs. spill my guts out.
    I can be super shy...sometimes shy is viewed as creepy?

    Sometimes I just think that society is so faulted...not saying I am an exception.
    We are in 2013 and instead of things getting better, things just keep getting worse. Maybe thats the pessimist in me shining through but I feel that we need a reboot or revamp of the social norms...ways of conduct, flip the script.

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    no, i don't think weird and creepy go hand in hand, neither does shy and creepy. creepy is bad..shy is just shy, and weird is just unusual/out of the ordinary for your social group. creepy is like..guys who have ulterior motives and look squeeky clean on the outside and have torture rooms in their basements and shit. that's what it is to me anyways.

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    Someone who wears sweatpants to get a lapdance.

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    no, i don't think weird and creepy go hand in hand, neither does shy and creepy. creepy is bad..shy is just shy, and weird is just unusual/out of the ordinary for your social group. creepy is like..guys who have ulterior motives and look squeeky clean on the outside and have torture rooms in their basements and shit. that's what it is to me anyways.
    Quote Originally Posted by FireAngelAnna View Post
    Someone who wears sweatpants to get a lapdance.
    You know what just made think of, Christian Bale in American Psycho.


    Patrick Bateman is a wealthy investment banker living in Manhattan in the late-1980s. His life revolves around dining at trendy restaurants while keeping up appearances for his fiancée, Evelyn, and his circle of equally wealthy, shallow friends, most of whom he dislikes. However, he also leads a secret life as a serial killer."

    Throughout the film, Bateman describes the material accoutrements of his lifestyle: his daily morning exercise and beautification routine; his music collection, including performers such as Huey Lewis and the News and Whitney Houston; his taste for expensive designer clothes; and the lavish couture of his apartment. In one scene, Bateman and his associates flaunt their business cards in a display of utter vanity. After becoming embarrassed by the superiority of coworker Paul Allen's card, he murders a homeless man and his dog in an alleyway in a fit of frustrated rage."

    Thing is you never know with people nowadays...thats the scary part. Or you think you know somebody but really...nothing could be farther from the truth.

    Sweatpants hmmm, and basketball shorts too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3 View Post
    Sweatpants hmmm, and basketball shorts too?
    Yep

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    You know what's even creepier about that book/movie? He never did any of it, haha! Psychooooo.

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    yeah i really hate that movie for some reason, him killing those prostitutes made me so pissed and disgusted ( even though as you say it never happened, still didn't like it! lol)

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    Quote Originally Posted by FireAngelAnna View Post
    Yep
    Quote Originally Posted by FireAngelAnna View Post
    You know what's even creepier about that book/movie? He never did any of it, haha! Psychooooo.
    Did you ever get a dude wearing spandex? ie cycling shorts?

    I'm not sure I follow on he never did any of it? Killing?

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    I disagree with your premise that creepy is defined off of whether or not you think a guy is attractive. I even disagree that it would have anything to do with it being a guy you like. If you like someone, can they get away with more "odd" behaviors toward you than a guy that you really don't like - well, yeah. That doesn't mean they can't cross a line. "If a woman finds a guy attractive, she won't ever think he's creepy." FALSE

    I've experienced plenty of guys who I have otherwise found attractive to display creepy characteristics. I have experienced weird old guys, who others would consider creepy, harmlessly hitting on me or paying me compliments and not found it creepy.

    Guys I've previously liked have immediately taken a nose-dive off my list because, where they used to be charming, they started acting aggressive and creepy. This happened just recently, in fact. I don't want to get into the intimate details on SW since it's a relatively fresh wound I don't feel like discussing it in-depth, but I'll just say that I really liked this guy - thought he was super cute, really really clicked with him - had the circumstances been different, I would've happily dated him. But despite me even being as clear as I could be as to what appropriate boundaries for our friendship were (and I was clear - like, sat down and had explicit, drawn-out conversations about it clear, not "clear" in the girly "he should read my mind" way), he continuously stepped over those boundaries, and kept getting more and more aggressive about it until I had to just pretty much steer clear of him entirely. Where he used to be a very close friend who I trusted more than most others, I wholeheartedly do NOT trust him anymore and being near him makes me uncomfortable because of it.

    Being attractive, or even otherwise being a guy that a girl has a thing for, is not a free pass for creepy. I can't give you a list of "creepy characteristics." As simone said, it's more a vibe. Different people can get away with different things based on the level of creepy "vibe" they have while doing it. Not an exact science, I know lol

    I guess it's like that obscenity law thing - I don't know the definition but I know it when I see it?
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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    I think intent really comes into the picture. Like, kinda quirky, homeless, old dude telling you you're beautiful, can be like "aww" cuz you know he doesn't actually think he's gonna get anywhere, while a hot guy your own age hitting on you can be creepy if you realize he really thinks he's gonna trick you out of your panties via PUA techniques. Shit like that...
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    I know a few guys who fall into the creepy category. A good example is someone in my family (not blood related) who I won't name the relation. He is older and has Donald Trump-like hair and he rents movies like Wild Things or Cruel Intentions. He told my husband a few years back before I dated him that his Hispanic girlfriend was good to date because she had big lips (seriously!?) but not to marry. What a fucking creeper. Not to mention numerous other things that I'm just not going to mention here...creeeeeppyyyy. My husband swears he's harmless though. Yeah, that's why he had an illegitimate kid with a woman like 20 years younger than him.

    In the club, it's always the guy trying to rub my leg and asking me "do you enjoy your job? I bet you enjoy your job...you look like you enjoy your job" with that creepy grin the whole time and asks for a $10 lapdance after wasting 15 minutes of my time and they are wearing sweatpants. Or the guys at the stage staring all slit eyed at my coochy and telling me to "spread it open". Gahhhhh!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3 View Post
    Did you ever get a dude wearing spandex? ie cycling shorts?

    I'm not sure I follow on he never did any of it? Killing?
    Yes I have, learned my lesson haha!

    Right, he didn't really kill anyone. The author was making a statement about yuppy young Americans at the time. VERY graphic novel if you ever read it. They had to cut a lot of stuff for the movie to make it to theaters. If you notice at the end of the movie he goes back to that guy's apartment because he stuffed a bunch of bodies in there. And the apartment is being sold and there's no bodies. He's all tripped out. Then his lawyer tells him that he just saw the guy he supposedly killed. That's the give-away. The rest he did do though, he was truly "American Psycho" in his other routines. All the douchey body wash stuff and working out, business card freak-out, eating at the "it" place, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    I think intent really comes into the picture. Like, kinda quirky, homeless, old dude telling you you're beautiful, can be like "aww" cuz you know he doesn't actually think he's gonna get anywhere, while a hot guy your own age hitting on you can be creepy if you realize he really thinks he's gonna trick you out of your panties via PUA techniques. Shit like that...
    So true. I was sitting at a bar one time while my husband (engaged at the time) was out smoking. This guy near me asks if I'm available, I said no, I'm engaged (I was wearing an engagement ring dude!) he says "so...how engaged are you?" WTF! The few other guys at the bar heard him including the bartender and made fun of him all night. Fucking creeper! And he wasn't ugly.

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    Being attractive doesn't make someone immune from being creepy. I've found plently of people creepy that I was initially attracted to.

    I don't know where you found those quotes, but they read like something you'd find in some MRA subreddit. Just... No.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sierra. View Post
    Being attractive doesn't make someone immune from being creepy. I've found plently of people creepy that I was initially attracted to.

    I don't know where you found those quotes, but they read like something you'd find in some MRA subreddit. Just... No.
    Seriously. It is like the clogged douchenozzles who joke the difference between flirting and sexual harassment is harassment is when the guy is someone a girl isnt attracted to, dur dur dur dur hurr hurr amirite fellas hyuck hyuck hyuck

    Guys who argue with women that they need to lower their creep radar? Creepy.

    Most women whose creep detectors are solid and working - it exists because of trial, error, life experience, a little bit of black magic, and self-esteem. So, these lists doesnt need to try to invalidate a well-crafted sense of alarm with sexist boobery. Senses of alarm = survival skills. Means my genes will continue evolve. Means the zombies wont kill me. So, sure condescend to women that our senses of danger is off via internet memes - while creepy creepster McDracula severs your jugular in half and Im miles ahead jumping into my bunker coated in garlic grease.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FireAngelAnna View Post
    Yes I have, learned my lesson haha!

    Right, he didn't really kill anyone. The author was making a statement about yuppy young Americans at the time. VERY graphic novel if you ever read it. They had to cut a lot of stuff for the movie to make it to theaters. If you notice at the end of the movie he goes back to that guy's apartment because he stuffed a bunch of bodies in there. And the apartment is being sold and there's no bodies. He's all tripped out. Then his lawyer tells him that he just saw the guy he supposedly killed. That's the give-away. The rest he did do though, he was truly "American Psycho" in his other routines. All the douchey body wash stuff and working out, business card freak-out, eating at the "it" place, etc.
    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0144084/...t_faq_1#.2.1.4
    Did the murders really happen, or did Bateman just imagine it all?

    This is the most frequently asked question in relation to the film, and the answer remains ambiguous. As with the questions of why Allen's apartment is empty, how did Carnes see Allen in London, and why people ignore Bateman's outbursts, there are two basic theories:

    1) the murders are very real and Bateman is simply being ignored when he tries to confess

    2) everything happened in his imagination

    Much of the discussion regarding the possibility of everything being in his mind focuses on the sequence which begins when the ATM asks him to feed it a stray cat. From this point up to the moment he rings Carnes and leaves his confession on the answering machine, there is a question regarding the reality of the film; is what we are seeing really happening, or is it purely the product of a disturbed mind? An important aspect of this question is Bateman's destruction of the police car, which explodes after he fires a single shot, causing even himself to look incredulously at his gun; many argue that this incident proves that what is happening is not real, and therefore, nothing that has gone before can be verified as being real either. Of this sequence, Mary Harron comments "You should not trust anything that you see. Trying to feed the cat into the ATM is sort of a giveaway. The ATM speaking to Bateman certainly indicates that things have taken a more hallucinatory turn." As such, if this scene is an hallucination, the question must be are all of his murders hallucinatory? Interestingly enough, in the corresponding scene in the novel, the narrative switches from 1st person present to 3rd person present mid-sentence (341) at the beginning of the sequence, and then back to 1st person present (again mid-sentence) at the end (352). This is a highly unusual narrative technique, suggestive of a sizable shift in consciousness and focalization, and an altogether different narrative perspective. This lends credence to the theory that the entire sequence is a hallucination, which in turn lends credence to the suggestion that much of what we see in the film is also an hallucination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sierra. View Post
    Being attractive doesn't make someone immune from being creepy. I've found plently of people creepy that I was initially attracted to.

    I don't know where you found those quotes, but they read like something you'd find in some MRA subreddit. Just... No.
    True True, damn if I had off the scale 10+ looks I would just use it to my advantage all day long.
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    Studies have shown attractive people get preferential treatment, from the workplace to the dating scene...its just a significant advantage. We are visual creatures. They even showed how people were more willing to help someone in distress if they looked good. While the not so good looking tended to get ignored.

    Unfortunate when one has the looks but is unable to use that to full potential.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    I think intent really comes into the picture. Like, kinda quirky, homeless, old dude telling you you're beautiful, can be like "aww" cuz you know he doesn't actually think he's gonna get anywhere, while a hot guy your own age hitting on you can be creepy if you realize he really thinks he's gonna trick you out of your panties via PUA techniques. Shit like that...
    Creepy? Nah...more like sleazy. (referring to the attractive young dude using PUA techniques)

    But men (okay ill speak for myself not all men) like to sleep around. I wouldn't mind being a man whore...if I get to sample a different flavor every night its all good with me, very good. I am a horny dude, plain and simple. I just love sex, it feels good most importantly, releases endorphins, burns calories (great cardio), etc. the benefits are all there when its done responsibly.

    I dont think the girl is getting tricked, she knows the game. He knows the game. They are both game. Women love sex too...at least I like to believe so. Its just men are more open about it and admit it shamelessly, yeah we jack off. I do it 6-10 times a day (twice in the morning, the rest in the evening). Like I said I am horny, and it could prevent prostate cancer. My friend girls for example when we go into a pron shop they make fun of all the toys and laugh and giggle...I honestly think thats how they hide their uncomfortableness/embarrassment/shyness with the nature of the store. But for us guys, we nonchalantly browse through the DVDs/toys/etc. like we would be buying snacks at Walmart. Its no biggie.
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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    ^ soo what would be "creepy" to you? we haven't heard that yet... :p

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    I was thinking for the most part is thats how the cookie crumbles. I should have specified I dont take it literally 100% word for word...its comical in nature but there is some truth in it.

    Take Johnny Dep for example, in my opinion if he wasn't famous then people might find him creepy. Or say Michael Jackson as well. (I am a fan of both of em by the way). Regular people with their behavior = creepy. Celebrities get a pass...its eccentricity.

    I mean if I can get hit on by a non attractive girl, its not that it creeps me out but I am more like ugh not my type and if they persist then its annoying.
    I dont really like to use the word creepy because frankly I like the oddness and strangeness of things...I am pretty open and its difficult to irk me. So much so I have to really make sure I appear as normal as possible here in American society because well...its best to confirm to save face and misinterpretation.
    Sexual harassment and flirting are in different ball parks, I can recognize that.

    I try my best to treat others the way I want to be treated and thats that.
    I think my problem is I over analyze things sometimes to the point every single detail/aspect of what I do is under scrutiny.

    My tone of voice, my body language, my movements, what comes out of my mouth...its as if my mind is always processing while in the process...eh well leave it at that.
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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    ^ soo what would be "creepy" to you? we haven't heard that yet... :p
    Hmmm well I would go along with what you said about the vibe thing.

    We should never judge a book by its cover but we do...its human nature.

    One's appearance has a significant impact on perception...that's why first impressions are such a big deal.

    Thats not the only thing, its their behavior, personality, etc. as well.

    So I guess whatever most of us as society views as normal...when someone acts outside of the social norms...its creepy.

    I dont see creepy as being negative...its only an issue if it turns to harassment, violence, etc.

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    Default Re: Whats makes a guy creepy?

    well to us ( well me at least), creepy does't mean " out of the ordinary" or "unusual". that's all find and good its just unusual. creepy means something is wrong with that person, and their intentions, and out intuition is blinking the little red danger light. to me it doesn't have much to do with appearance. i may think somebody is not my type but that does NOT equal creepy at all. so when that guy you quoted is pretty much saying " oh all you girls just find me creepy cause im not rich and hot waaahh" its offensive. pretty much downplaying and pooh-poohing our intuition and responses because he got turned down or something. like what roast said, summed it up pretty well

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