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    Default Prospective needs advice plz :)

    Hi everyone!

    I am currently planning on becoming a dancer this summer. I just have a few quiestions and concerns. First let me introduce myself. I am a black 22 year old and mother of a beautiful 9 month old baby girl.

    I plan on dancing in more urban type/neighborhood clubs because I have the type of figure for that kind of venue. I'm coke bottle shaped with a rather large backside (lol) only problem is, I have a very small chest. (thank u mom)

    I want to know if I would be able to work without taking my top off (if I were on the floor all night and NOT on stage)

    Also, for those who work in higher end clubs, would I have any chance of working in there with my figure and skin tone. This is not racist at all. It's just that when I think of higher end clubs i picture skinny light complexion girls and not women like me. I am NOT a bbw. I have a small waist and a big butt and i'm dam good at shakin it

    Please help

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    You would have to take your top off. And you would probably have to go on stage. I have seen girls work with boobs so small, there is pretty much no breast tissue at all, just nipples, and they do just fine. Guys like boobs no matter what.
    Can't answer your other questions though.

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    Welcome! What you can get away with in terms of how much you show depends on your city. If you're in a nude city, it probably won't fly. Even in most topless cities, not showing your tits won't make you much money. Maybe you're lucky and work in a city where you have to put latex on your nipples or can't give nude/topless dances though, so I'd really recommend asking about your specific city.

    Skipping stage shows is even more club-specific. In some, you can tip to stay off, but in smaller clubs especially, you're pretty stuck on a rotation and will generally go up at least once a shift.

    Honestly, if you're not comfortable with nudity, perhap this isn't the right job for you.

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    I'm from NY if that helps with anyones responses. nearer the city. like brooklyn, queens, etc...

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    yeah unless you are working at a bikini bar you are going to have to take your top off. even with pasties, the whole breast is showing, just not the nipples. a lot of places will tell you that you have to take it all off as well, its not just a choice you can make..and even if it were, you won't earn anything stripping without..well, stripping! i have VERY small breasts myself and i feel self conscious a lot but a lot of men like it! don't worry, especially if you have a great ass! some clubs can be very racist and have a "black girl quota" just letting you know..but go and try it out!

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    thanks for the advice! its not that I'm uncomfortable with nudity. its just hard not to wonder how much less i'll make bc of my small boobs. i know confidence is key n can take the focus off

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    it sucks to feel self-conscious ! i know the feeling, trust me..i always take my top off last hehe. but short of getting a boob job, there's nothing you can do but be confident because you'll earn even less without your top off

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    Quote Originally Posted by thinkin View Post
    thanks for the advice! its not that I'm uncomfortable with nudity. its just hard not to wonder how much less i'll make bc of my small boobs. i know confidence is key n can take the focus off
    Unless you're stuffing your bra, customers will still see you have small tits though. That's not something you can really hide in a strip club. If they're going for a dance with you, they're clearly into your body (small tits included). That said, there will still be jerks who make derogatory comments about them, so you really need to amp up the confidence to cope with that. Some dudes come to clubs to put down girls, and you really need a thick skin for it. Not to mention that confidence sells - if you don't think a dance with you is worthwhile because you have small tits, why would a customer be convinced to buy one?

    It sounds like you've never been in a strip club. I'd recommend visiting one because your realize that lots of dancers have small or even flat chests, and they can still make bank like that.

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    Trust me tits are tits no matter how big or small. Just take your fucking top off. There will always be a buyer no matter what. Maybe not that day but one will pop up.

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    OMG girl.....last night at work I saw a girl that looked 12 literally...small framed short short white no boobs no ass lol it was crazy but she could dance but I felt I was watching a 12 year old dance lol......boobs are not an issue.. Ice found that blacks at least the ones that come to my club love all the black girls that xan dance...whether they're flat and have no ass or thick thick thick ....lol I think you'll do fine...plus I've seen girls with saggy boobs hella rolls and cellulite......you'll be fine....

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    Quote Originally Posted by thinkin View Post
    I'm from NY if that helps with anyones responses. nearer the city. like brooklyn, queens, etc...
    Hmm, sounds like you might want to start at a bikini bar first. There are two places that I can think of off the top of my head, Heaven in Astoria and a new one recently opened up called Tabu Lounge. Here is their facebook page, this should be it with their address:
    https://www.facebook.com/pages/Tabu-...12066112152948

    I never worked in either. I believe they're both strictly bikini bars only, a housemom I worked with told me that Tabu is strictly bikini. I'm not sure how lapdances work there or if they even do them. My guess is most of your money will be from stage. I've worked in this type of setting before, if you decide to try them out you probably won't make great money, but it will be good for someone just starting out imo.

    Most of NYC and the boroughs are topless for the most part. There are places where you can pay the DJ to get off stage or work something out with the DJ. I worked at a club where you paid $60 to never go on stage, but you still have to work the floor and get topless for lapdances. I also tip around the same amount to DJs if I know a regular is coming to spend money on me so they know not to put me on stage.

    Once you start, you'll be surprised. You'll see. A lot of girls in all shapes and sizes, and having a big behind is good especially for clubs in the outer boroughs.

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    Default Re: Prospective needs advice plz :)

    Quote Originally Posted by aperfectseal View Post
    Guys like boobs no matter what.
    I agree with aperfectseal...Most guys are looking at your total body and maybe even your personality. Some guys have body part preferences such as boobs, butts, feet. But for the most part they are men who are happy just to see some skin. Plus you may attract the men who love big butts

    I used to feel self-conscious about my breast because they actually got a cup size smaller after I breast fed but I still get compliments. And if you have smaller breast they don't sag as much and stay perkier than heavy larger breasts. Look at your small breasts as beautiful - and not as a problem.

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    I agree ^^ , there's lots of customers for every one IMO, I used to be self conscious about my curves bc I had booty but after making $$ & receiving nightly compliments I've grown to appreciate it. And always remember to SMILE
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