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    Do you ladies enjoy getting gifts from a custie you have been seeing for a while in the club or would it be better to just come in with the extra money to spend on you ?A thank you in advance for those that respond

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    Quote Originally Posted by juicebox69 View Post
    better to just come in with the extra money to spend on you ?
    ^This .

    But, if you really want to buy a gift, go ahead, it's really up to you. Asking in advance will help you get something she will really appreciate. For example, what kind of perfume does she wear?
    “Give a girl the right shoes and she can conquer the world” -Marilyn Monroe

    "True sexiness has many facets-confidence, strength, intelligence, and humor. It isn’t just about trying to look sexy; it’s an art and one becomes skillful in it when she realizes that there are all these conflicting elements that all come together to make something magical"-Dita Von Teese

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    It's nice receiving tips but I really love receiving gifts and flowers from time to time, especially when it's unexpected. I have a regular who regularly brings me bouquets of roses and some jewelry. Not every dancers enjoy them though, a lot prefer cash but I rarely receive gifts in my personal life so I find it really thoughtful.

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    i would MUCH rather recieve money instead of my customers guessing what i would like..just give me the money so i can buy what i want lol, maybe its rent this week not flowers! extra tips are always, always appreciated. also, personal gifts make some dancers very uncomfortable ..while cash is always a go

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    Money....then I can give myself the gift I really want

    Unless the gift is specific to something I really want like off a wishlist.
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    Default Re: Flowers and gifts

    I receive a lot of gifts... mostly jewelry. I hate jewelry.

    I probably receive the most flowers the club has ever seen. I hate flowers.

    If it's something small and thoughtful that you know she'd *like, a gift can be a nice gesture. If it's something pricey, just bring the cash equivalent and let her buy it herself.

    *This means she's mentioned something she wants/enjoys, not "Ooohh well, she's a girl sooo I'll get her something shiny or a spa package!" I hate spas. Equally as bad is, "I bet she'll look fantastic in this ugly powder blue lingerie that's two sizes too large!" Why, sir? Why are you doing this to me?

    Just my opinion..

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    Thanks ladies for responding your information will help me a lot. I'm a big gifter all way have been. The girls I've gifted to always seam like they enjoy it and has always seamed to help better set the mood for a nice CR visit. Once again sharing your perspectives are very.helpful to me and I hope other men like myself who wonder about giving gifts.

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    $$$
    the few times i have gotten gifts, a hideous ruby necklace comes to mind, they are never anything i would have picked out for myself. i looked up the necklace on zales.com, where it was from, $250. i would MUCH rather have been handed the $$$ than this hideous necklace.
    i understand that when you have given gifts that the girls have seemed like they enjoy it, but please keep in mind that we are not going to do anything to offend you. they may have just been being nice.

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    I would never buy a gift for a dancer unless it was something I would want her to wear during our next VIP session. This limits gift-buying, as far as I'm concerned, to strictly lingerie/costumes/heels. No earrings or jewelry.
    Come to think of it, I would feel extremely self conscious walking into a club with a Frederick's of Hollywood/Victoria's Secret bag (and a mischievous grin on my red face). However I do feel the Fantasy could be enhanced tremendously if the customer buys the gift and gives it to her, rather than just giving her the money to buy it. It makes it more intimate.
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    I don't care what customers think. I care about separating them from their wallet.
    The only people who get rich off of Get Rich Quick Schemes are the ones who sell them, not the ones who buy them.

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    A gift for me is good only when the guy has amazing taste like I do, like he knows quality and knows style so he cannot go wrong. ex: the newest gucci bag that just came out is never gunna be a bad thing. But most guys do not have this amazing gift so if they bring me gifts I appreciate it if they give me a gift reciept so if I don't like it i can return it. But extra $$ is always nice as well

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    One of my regulars sent me a huge bouquet of flowers at the club. I ended up letting the DJ keep it. He gave them to his mother.

    I remember him telling me "I wish I was there to see the smile on your face when you saw them." I thought to myself "I wish you were there to see the horror on my face when the manager told me there was flowers in the office for me."

    Stick with cash. Chances are she may not like the gift or maybe even throw them out. You can never go wrong with cash!

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    Money. I once had a customer give me cheap lingerie from Wal-Mart and I ended up giving it someone I knew (plus wrong size). I can't use many perfumes and bath stuff so this is wasteful spending as well.

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    expensive gifts, like electronics, are great. chocolate and flowers and teddy bears all get discarded.

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    One of the things I'll never forget is the very first stripper with whom I forged a genuine friendship. I remember vividly speaking with her after she'd retired, and the subject of gifts came up. She was clear that she'd always rather get more money, but if it had to be a gift, echo'ed almost exactly whaht charlotte said -- chocolate, flowers, teddy bears get discarded. In her case, jewelry got given away to friends or family. But the time it was 3 months after she'd retired, she had given away everything else... all electronics, some furniture and nice clothes, everything she'd gotten from customers. "Every time I looked at any of it, I remembered 'I had to grind on that obnoxious grabby douche and pretend I liked him' for that, just looking at it bummed me out". She gave it all away to complete her transition out of the strip club.

    All women are different, of course, always good to get a read from the particular dancer you're with. I tend to not think gifts are a good idea, just based on what I personally am comfortable with, and usually would rather do an extra VIP, or buy top-shelf shots

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    As long as I still get the same amount of money that I usually get from the customer, I don't mind gifts. As far as flowers go, I LOVE flowers so I wouldn't be opposed.
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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    I don't mind getting flowers or gifts, but don't get offended if I don't spend more time with you because of it

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    I love when I get a gift no matter what but if you'd like it to be great gift, make sure it's something you know she'd love so go with something she specifically mentioned. Some girls LOVE flowers, if she mentioned a specific flower she likes, get that one. I like flowers and the gesture is very sweet but chances are they'll die in the dressing room before I'll have a chance to put them in water.

    Me personally, I'd much have the extra tip to go towards expenses and goals, but I think it'll be a nice move if you combined the two and gave a hearty tip and a little something instead of something expensive she might not like. I was given a simple box of elegant chocolates and a card with a REALLY nice tip before I went away on a trip. I loved it, it was thoughtful, practical and very classy.

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    $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
    gifts should only come from those people you care about OTC

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    The guy Im dating always gets me gifts and those (especially flowers!!!) annoy the hell out of me unless its something i really want, so from a customer id probably throw it away once I go in the back.

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    The only SC I have ever been to is the Deja Vu in Spokane, WA way back in the early 90s. At least back then, they served no food other than free popcorn, and there was no alcohol allowed. At the time, I worked at a pizza place with a friend and we would bring in a few pizzas for the staff every time we came in. It helped us avoid having to pay cover charge, and everyone really seemed to appreciate it! Sure, this might not be something that is specific to just one lady, so might not be exactly what you were asking. Also, we brought in whiskey as well and made mixed drinks for several ladies that got to know us a little better while we were going there regularly. This also seemed to be appreciated. Of course, most clubs are not like that from what i can gather, so your mileage may vary

    **EDIT** What i mentioned above is NOT something you should or could do from the first time you come into a club! This was only after we had been going there for several months and built up a rapport with many people there. Even then, I wouldn't blame anyone there for not having any of the food or drink because lets face it, at the end of the day we were still just a couple of dudes from outside, but whatever

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    I love gifts if it is something I would already buy for myself. I had one customer who would buy my favorite perfume or gift cards to amazon, he was a favorite. Then I had one that would bring me crappy jewelry (Im a total jewelry snob lol) every week and I just sold it, would have rather had the cash with him....

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