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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetieBelle View Post
    I'm a BBW and fairly new at this, and men sometimes say bitchy things to me. It's funny because I just laugh at them, half of it turns out to just be their fetish, and I just thought it was bitchy for the sake of trolling. I don't fully understand the BBW fetish stuff yet. I really don't understand even half of it, but I'm no genius. Even after reading and watching videos about some of the fetishes, it's still a matter of figuring out how to do these fetishes in my style, being comfortable doing it, buying the items needed for it, learning how to sell it with confidence, and even deciding to flat out not do some of it even if I make less money. God, I haaate turning things down. But if you can't live with it, you can't.

    I don't know if it will help you, but I've decided that everyone who comes into my room has decided I am interesting for SOME reason, and if they diss me, it's because they're more than likely sexually attracted to me. So it's potential money for me, that I can turn down or not. I've had guys asking to do humiliation, make fun of me, and it doesn't hurt my feelings or anything. But I'm still working out my character, and I may well tell them to f*ck off next time because allowing it seems to turn a lot of other guys in my chats off. But hey, if they diss me and leave, they'll be back, and may well pay out next time. Some have come back! So don't take it to heart, no matter how you do things. Most of these guys really are asshats, even ones who pretend to be nice. I've been tricked by a regular already, and the next time he came in I made him pay. And he DID pay. And he didn't complain. He liked it. So there.

    Just remember how gloriously hot you are, and how many other guys tell you so. One little asshat doesn't deserve your thoughts or feelings. It sure didn't take me long to stop caring about haters. This job has done amazing things for my confidence.

    I hope this didn't sound too nonsensical. I just woke up.

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    Not nonsensical at all Thank you Hun,
    love your outlook on things, and the picture with the kitty hehe. so cute.
    almost makes me want a kitty lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chasing_the_night666 View Post
    Girllll let me tell you the beauty of the cam world. Market for EVERYONE! I'm considered a BBW but I know I look hot, I rock it, and I let everyone know it! Confidence bby! Love yourself, so when some asshole tells you off, flip em the bird because you make money. I can give you some pointers...just DM me anytime
    Thank you hun, I'll definitely message you

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    I am such a silly thing, I totally forgot to ask you. What site are you working on currently?
    lol its okay.
    Right now i'm on MFC but I just signed up with MGF.

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    Default Re: Need a mentor. I'll bake you cookies :)

    Lady.... Try SM. Message me your name on whatever site

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alessiaxox View Post
    lol its okay.
    Right now i'm on MFC but I just signed up with MGF.
    MFC is a really hard site to work. I work both Streamate and MFC and I can tell you that if I had to pay my bills on MFC alone I would of starved to death long ago.

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    Default Re: Need a mentor. I'll bake you cookies :)

    definitely the rule of thumb for camming since its been repeated to death is: "never keep your eggs all in one basket" - and i had to learn the hard way on this too when i was just working 1 site (webcams.com) when i very first started and then they started not paying me after a while. i depended on them for my bills and so it really sucked when they stopped paying me, lol. so yeah definitely don't give up on MFC, just spread urself out there a little bit more and then after a while when u get more comfortable with camming start building up your social networking like twitter, tumblr, facebook, etc. to build up a good solid fanbase for when you get back on MFC you will have an audience who knows, loves and appreciates you and your niche. Clips4Sale is also very awesome camming income and really fun getting into the fetishes on there. totally agree that a cam girl mentor can only do so much like give pointers, advice, etc. but really you do already get that on this forum but it is nice every now and then to have a cam girl friend chat with you help you tweak your business/brand. but for the overall picture, camming takes great leadership skills to thrive in. you are your business, you are the performer, the publisher, the photographer, the marketer, the business woman, etc. so at the end of the day YOU gotta be the one making the final decision on whats best. thats just my two cents. sorry for those assholes btw. just stick with it and enjoy what you do!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bubblegumbitch View Post
    definitely the rule of thumb for camming since its been repeated to death is: "never keep your eggs all in one basket" - and i had to learn the hard way on this too when i was just working 1 site (webcams.com) when i very first started and then they started not paying me after a while. i depended on them for my bills and so it really sucked when they stopped paying me, lol. so yeah definitely don't give up on MFC, just spread urself out there a little bit more and then after a while when u get more comfortable with camming start building up your social networking like twitter, tumblr, facebook, etc. to build up a good solid fanbase for when you get back on MFC you will have an audience who knows, loves and appreciates you and your niche. Clips4Sale is also very awesome camming income and really fun getting into the fetishes on there. totally agree that a cam girl mentor can only do so much like give pointers, advice, etc. but really you do already get that on this forum but it is nice every now and then to have a cam girl friend chat with you help you tweak your business/brand. but for the overall picture, camming takes great leadership skills to thrive in. you are your business, you are the performer, the publisher, the photographer, the marketer, the business woman, etc. so at the end of the day YOU gotta be the one making the final decision on whats best. thats just my two cents. sorry for those assholes btw. just stick with it and enjoy what you do!
    Thank you so much! xx
    Is clips4sale just selling video clips or actual web camming?

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    MFC is a really hard site to work. I work both Streamate and MFC and I can tell you that if I had to pay my bills on MFC alone I would of starved to death long ago.
    Oh no lol
    well it's good you're working both.
    I've heard a lot girls say SM is a lot like MFC but I dont see how it is?
    Is the traffic better?

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    I have been camming for almost 2 months now - I am not BBW: but even as a thin model guys will say such mean things and honestly I just ignore them I know I look good so that's all that matters. I love MGF and wished it was busier. I have 0 luck on SM - I don't know why and my rates aren't even that high. I hear the traffic is wonderful but for me it was so dead. I even used the encoder and everything, I know a lot of girls don't like naked but I have done amazing there- cleared 500 for the first time last week and am also on cam4. I started on Flirt for free and did OK I really think each site works for different girls! Don't give up. I have a regular job and honestly have been thinking of going part time because I love the money and camming!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alessiaxox View Post
    Thank you so much! xx
    Is clips4sale just selling video clips or actual web camming?
    it's a fetish clips site, you can have your own stores and generate sales from making your own fetish content. it's a great break from live cam, lol.

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    Default Re: Need a mentor. I'll bake you cookies :)

    1. You can't take it personally. These guys go from room to room all day long to see who they can make cry. It is a power trip that has nothing to do with you.
    Laugh it off, laugh at him. How sad is his life that making others miserable is how he entertains himself.

    2. Plenty of bbw's make money with camming. Camming is a confidence game. Statistics are most new girls quit after 2 weeks. This is a hustle. Hustle has nothing to do with the size of your ass.

    Camming is hard work. It is a constant challenge of upping your game. It is a numbers game. Your job is to SALE! in order to sale you need to believe in yourself.

    HATE HATE HATE that so many chubby, fat, bbw or however you see yourself come here all upset & think it is your weight that keeps you from making money. That is on YOU! not the guys on cam, plenty of us are making money.

    Watch other girl's rooms. ARe you entertaining as they are? Would you buy a show from you? What is the extra energy or special thing you bring to the picture that the other girl's on cam aren't. This is a business, it is up to you to close the sale.

    Good Luck,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alessiaxox View Post
    Oh no lol
    well it's good you're working both.
    I've heard a lot girls say SM is a lot like MFC but I dont see how it is?
    Is the traffic better?
    SM and MFC are two completely different hustles. One is token based (MFC) the other is private pay per minute based (SM). If you are BBW I highly suggest SM over MFC.
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