I'm a BBW and fairly new at this, and men sometimes say bitchy things to me. It's funny because I just laugh at them, half of it turns out to just be their fetish, and I just thought it was bitchy for the sake of trolling. I don't fully understand the BBW fetish stuff yet. I really don't understand even half of it, but I'm no genius. Even after reading and watching videos about some of the fetishes, it's still a matter of figuring out how to do these fetishes in my style, being comfortable doing it, buying the items needed for it, learning how to sell it with confidence, and even deciding to flat out not do some of it even if I make less money. God, I haaate turning things down. But if you can't live with it, you can't.
I don't know if it will help you, but I've decided that everyone who comes into my room has decided I am interesting for SOME reason, and if they diss me, it's because they're more than likely sexually attracted to me. So it's potential money for me, that I can turn down or not. I've had guys asking to do humiliation, make fun of me, and it doesn't hurt my feelings or anything. But I'm still working out my character, and I may well tell them to f*ck off next time because allowing it seems to turn a lot of other guys in my chats off. But hey, if they diss me and leave, they'll be back, and may well pay out next time. Some have come back! So don't take it to heart, no matter how you do things. Most of these guys really are asshats, even ones who pretend to be nice. I've been tricked by a regular already, and the next time he came in I made him pay. And he DID pay. And he didn't complain. He liked it. So there.
Just remember how gloriously hot you are, and how many other guys tell you so. One little asshat doesn't deserve your thoughts or feelings. It sure didn't take me long to stop caring about haters. This job has done amazing things for my confidence.
I hope this didn't sound too nonsensical. I just woke up.
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