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Anyone use mongocams?
I'm also signed up on MFC but the threads here make it sound like it's not even worth the trouble.
Basically you have to start out in free chat where you can show boobs or clothed backsides but no total nudity and no front-bottoms. So there's the trouble right there because guys will flit in and out of the page looking for uncovered titties. those that ask for flashes leave when they are asked to tip. I'm not good at separating people from money through verbal tricks. By the same token, I am not good at concealing my annoyance or anger at being treated disrespectfully or when I feel that I am being cheated- That's why I was such a complete and utter failure as a stripper.
I was goaded into this by a guy I was dating who I later found out had a fetish for seeing girls objectified. Ditched that psycho but I still have NO and I mean NO clue how to turn this into money because it seems like the barest suggestion that you need money to live like any other human being and not a flower that can live on the sunlight and rain of their attention, they bounce.
The training video is basically zero of help because all it shows is the one girl bragging about her income and shows her doing her "ooh, yeah baby", bottom slapping shtick. I'm a more refined sort of person- quieter perhaps and am genuinely taken aback by all the suck fuck pussy talk. I try to be engaging and entertaining but whenever I talk, the guys seem to bounce. so If I can't talk and I won't give the goods away for free then what DO I do? I tried exercising with shake weight and thigh master earlier today. Did that for A SOLID HOUR and all I got was sore!
I've gotten a few free private shows but I don't know how to go after them and I don't know how to deal with the dirty pictographs that free peepers enter into my chat window. I know I can bounce or ban people but if I did that to every perv I'd have a totally empty room.
Is there a better site for someone like me who isn't adept at the obvious, and what i would consider vulgar style that MC seems to want their models to emulate?
I'm sorry if my thread is dumb or whiny or bitchy or repetitive. I did do a search for monograms and only came up with a recruitment message. I guess I'd just like to know if this particular site has a knack to it.
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Re: Anyone use mongocams?
I've never heard of Mongo Cams.
Have any of the threads you've read so far given you an idea of which site might be more your style? You don't have to limit yourself to one site either. Explore your options.
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Re: Anyone use mongocams?
I've never heard of this site before. I googled it cuz I was curious, clicked on a free chat room and encountered a chica performing anal with a toy (like, full view) so I'm guessing the site isn't too strict on the free chat rules
Also, unless I'm missing something there are apparently only two online chicas on the entire site who are currently in a private show? That doesn't exactly bode well for great $$$$
I do recognize a chica who's listed on that site who has her ish together so I guess it can't be all bad. I'm with Fox though, definitely explore the different options out there. Maybe look at streamate or Adultwork if you're looking for a more private-oriented site?
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Re: Anyone use mongocams?
Off thread topic, but I think you'd like working on streamate.
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Omg, this was the first website I ever worked for, and I HATE IT.
Really, do yourself a favor and just get off that website.
The traffic is MUCH heavier elsewhere.
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Re: Anyone use mongocams?
Thanks for the helpful replies, everyone.
I'm thinking I WILL definitely get off of MC. With regards to the anal in free chat incident, that goes a LONG way towards explaining why I kept getting requests for things that were in clear contravention of the site rules.
By and large, I'm a follower of rules because common logic would dictate that the breaking of said rules will result in separation from one's employment. Also, I'm in agreement with Cole Porter who sang- "never give anything away That you can sell" at least with regards to nudity in a milieu where nudity is the product on offer.
I'm thinking I may hold of on MFC as well or abandon it altogether since, after having read the threads and seeing that the site is set up primarily FOR FREELOADERS, for whom I have little to no patience, and as such there is very little incentive to tip. I have an account set up and verified but have yet to do a broadcast so I'm not sure what effect if any, this will have on my "new model" status. As I said, I may just abandon the site completely, or possibly set up a split-stream so that I don't have to pay it my full attention but let it be a secondary thing.
As for what sites I might be suited for, I'm just not sure- I will definitely give StreamMate and AdultWork a gander.
I guess the kind of look/feel/mood I was going for is a playful, flirty, girl hanging out in her "princess" bed- I'm a fan of a more demure, feminine style in clothing and decor (baby doll nighties, stockings, chenille bedspreads) as well as in terms of interaction. My User Names are BedroomPussycat on MC and PussycatInBed on MFC. I was and am going for flirty rather than dirty. I don't know how wise this is from a commercial standpoint but I've given this matter a lot of thought; Given my background, It's a miracle that I'm as "healthy" and "normal" in my sexual tastes, appetites and function and I'm unwilling to risk developing a dysfunction in this one area in which I am more or less completely normal in order to supplement my income. I read the thread for people aiming to earn under $500 per week with great interest since this is exactly what I aim to do- an additional 500-900/per month would be more than ample for my needs.
I'm not adverse to small, quick flashes of boobies or knickers for free, nor am I completely opposed to going fully nude or doing masturbation or toy shows for paying customers. I say this, not to put down anyone who does otherwise or favors a more hardcore (and commercially viable?) style but to aid you in making suggestions for a site where this would not be so out of place that I would have to endure requests/demands for things I am ill-equipped to do(lack of interest as well as sufficiently elaborate sex toys) with such frequency.
I think that I have the ability to draw an audience- I'm above-average in smarts, decent looking, have a nice figure and pretty good rack. (this is as far as I am willing to go with regards to praising myself despite hearing words like brilliant, beautiful gorgeous amazing, etc fairly regularly) and I think that what I'm going for is sufficiently different from the vast majority of what's on offer but not SO out there that no one would be interested.
Again, thanks So much for your help and I look forward to any further advice you may have.
Last edited by IvytheStripper; 06-13-2013 at 07:00 PM.
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Re: Anyone use mongocams?
@QURL-
Not off topic at all in my view- that's just what I was hoping for! :-)
By the way I love your "Toe-Bias" (I know that's not how it's spelled- I was typing it phonetically as it's pronounced on the show!) GIF. I say that every time I put on cut-offs! Seriously! Also I like your kitty princess avatar pic. I had a white kitty that looked like that. Her name was Blanche DuPaw.
Now THAT'S off topic!!
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