I'm not here to complain about some stripper but I am curious what the right behavior would have been for me. This has been bugging me for about a month since it happened.
I was at a well known club (the flagship of one of the chains) and two girls approached me together. They told me that because it was a quiet night that if I took them into the champagne room they'd both dance for an hour for $300 total. Obviously it sounds too good to be true, so I confirm it with them about 3 times, repeating it back, asking if they're really serious. Given that it wasn't some no-name club, I took their word for it and each time they answered in the affirmative. So we give the money to the cashier and headed to the champagne room. Touching was legal in that room, so if you tell me I can touch 4 boobs for an hour I admittedly get a little boob-dumb.
That's where reality came crashing down hard. They immediately sit on my lap and tell me that it'll be another $3000+tip each, but that I can have sex with both of them. That's not what I wanted (nor did I have that kind of money), so I said no. They proceeded with a "well what did you think happens in the champagne room?" rant. Now I'm no strip club junkie, but I've been in my fare share of clubs and champagne rooms and I've never been solicited to before, so I really wasn't expecting that.
I stood firm with my answer that I wasn't interested in anything other than a $300 dance for an hour with both girls there, as we had discussed before going back. They both got up and said my time was up and that they lost money on me (after paying the cashier) and that I'm stingy and need to learn how to be more generous and that if I'm a decent person I'll tip them on the way out of the room.
Since we hadn't have been back there more than 15 minutes and they didn't even dance, I brought up the fact that I didn't receive what we had agreed to. They said "what did you expect?" So I told them that I'd be speaking to a manager about what happened. Their attitudes changed pretty quick but they didn't seem to have any interest in righting the situation. They started following me around the club as I looked for the friends that I came with. Once I sat down their rambling had progressed more to a worried "are you going to tell anyone? Don't tell anyone or you'll look like an idiot." So I said "look. How about you dance for me here for 3 songs and we'll part ways and call it even? They refused. The girl who was on my friend's lap basically threw one of her friends onto my lap and said "he has a girl, you can leave now" and they followed her orders.
Long story short, I didn't really want to be a tattle tale, but I also didn't want to get screwed out of $300.
What was the best thing to do? I paid $300 and didn't get so much as the slightest hint at a dance. All I got was solicitation. I basically took the approach of "I was an idiot for ever believing it, now please leave me alone."


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! I agree with everyone who said that said that you should have alerted either management or the cashier to the situation.

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