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    Hi All. I wanted to say hi and introduce myself. I just joined and began camming this week. This board has been a big help in spotting freeloaders and bullshitters LOL. And people have been so nice in chat answering my noob questions LOL. I've been learning a lot reading through the topics.


    I'm just wondering about how I've been doing things.... and there's some stuff I'm still not sure how to respond to. I've been greeting everyone who comes into my room. And I try to answer questions, without giving away free wank material LOL. But I wonder if I'm coming across as too nice or a push over... by greeting everyone and answering questions.


    Like the questions about do I like black or younger guys. I feel like if I say yes... then that's free wank material. Cause a guy will be thinking oh she'd love a young stud like me... or she'd love my BBC.... that's so hot LOL. But I feel like I'm coming across as rude if I ignore the question. I want to engage in conversation... but not give them free material to wack to LOL.


    I tell guys they have to go private.... if they want to see anything.... or if they want me to do something. But it's amazing what will get some of these guys off LOL. Like last night... I had someone who wanted to see my ass. Well I wasn't showing them my naked ass for free LOL. So I bent over without pulling my panties down... and he left the room LOL. So I'm not sure if he got off just from that... or if my ass looks scary even in panties LOL.


    So if anyone has any pointers... or could direct me to more topics... that be great. I'm really enjoying the boards BTW

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    P.S: I'm wondering about how I do things... because I've only had 4 guys buy shows so far.

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    Default Re: Learning a lot thanks!

    I generally avoid greeting every single person who comes into my room, some guys feel sort of put on the spot if you address them personally from the moment they enter the room. I usually say "hey guys" to the room in general every couple minutes. If they say hi, I will say hi back. I usually have a "3 answers" rule before I suggest private and then if they give an excuse or ignore my prompt, I ignore any further questions. I do answer things like "do you like bbc" or "do you like young guys" but if they try to move the conversation further into their bbc or their youngness, I prompt private and they can either go private, be ignored after that, or leave.

    Also, I wouldn't be flashing anything unless it's for a tip. Even if your panties are fully covering your ass, I don't suggest showing your ass without a tip. Same for boobs, feet, anything they request to see really! If they want to see, they can tip. If you don't want to ask for tips to show your covered ass, I would at least NOT bend over. Maybe just turn around, stick it out a bit but don't do a full bend over doggy style type of pose. THAT is free wank material!

    And welcome to the forum.
    xoxo ~ Sarah




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    I usually just keep my replies very general. I will talk a lot in my free chat about music, tv, or things like that. A lot of my good regulars have become good regulars because I chatted with them first. But for sexual questions I am vague and say things like " I just like cock." If they continue to ask sexual questions I tell them I'd be glad to give them all the details in private. If they keep asking, I ban. 90% of the time I am fully dressed in freechat with a tank and shorts, depending on my mood I may twirl a little or show off, but if they ask for something, I ask for a tip to do it. I always greet my regulars by name and then just say "hey guys." If my room is slow after they've been in it for a few minutes I may address them by their name.

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    What I do is... I greet all my regulars who have spent before (I usually have at least one in my room) and give them all my attention. I answer questions guys ask me to the best of my ability, but that comes second to saying hi to spendy regs. But I don't mind answering any questions. Being very vocal in free chat (and in private) is always a really good thing to do in order to get guys to like you. But it is tiring.

    I only acknowledge guys who haven't spent before, and who are not typing to me/asking me questions, when the room is dead and there are no regulars and no one asking me questions. But that doesn't happen very often.

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    Thanks so much everybody for your responses, they helped a lot!

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