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    Default It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    What's up with these guys who come to a cam site in hopes of finding a woman for a relationship? I don't mean the ones who just hope you're close enough so you can come over and fuck LOL. I mean the ones who ask if you're married or single.... and the ones who live in a state hundreds of miles away... but they think that's close enough that you can start dating LOL. It's not match.com or E harmony LOL

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Sometimes unfortunately, the cam sites are promoted that way over the internet. So the guys get confused, and we have to deal with explaining the mixup to them.

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Who cares? It's part of the game. We want their money- all of it, they want to meet and fuck us...let's meet in the middle and buy a pvt chat, lol. If they didn't want to date and/or fuck us, we wouldn't make any money.

    And like Tlulu said, cam sites are promoted as dating sites.


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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    I didn't know cam sites were being promoted as dating sites. That explains it LOL. Now I feel dumb LOL

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Yeah, we're promoted as "THIS GIRL IN (YOUR AREA) WANTS YOU - CLICK TO FUCK HER" in banners. And dating.

    For all of the girls who complain about the guys who advance and bug at us in chat for meeting - We would never get paid, if instead of hookup/dating banners we had banners that said, "THIS HOTTIE NEEDS RENT AND PG&E MONEY - CHAT WITH HER NOW" Yeah, lol no guy would click on that.

    Be thankful we are advertised like this, it is your bread and butter.








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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Quote Originally Posted by Blondieblue View Post
    What's up with these guys who come to a cam site in hopes of finding a woman for a relationship? I don't mean the ones who just hope you're close enough so you can come over and fuck LOL. I mean the ones who ask if you're married or single.... and the ones who live in a state hundreds of miles away... but they think that's close enough that you can start dating LOL. It's not match.com or E harmony LOL
    Some of them are probably fooled because of the way some cam sites advertise their models (making us sound like we're available to meet when we're not)
    Some of them are hoping to find a cam girl willing to do anything for $$$.
    Some of them are living in a dream world, and hoping they'll find a cam girl who will say "Yes, I'll date/marry you!"
    Some of them wanna treat cam sites like Match.com without having to actually pay for a membership...(with the exception of MFC 20-point premiums, who pay just once...lol).
    My referral link for models to join the Boleyn Models daily pay program
    https://cammodelpay.com/ref?page=&campaign=&affToken=NDcx

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    There's a SM white label site that promotes our cam names with this hilarious fake diary entry, typed in comic sans, talking about how we moved from bumfuck Illinois to the big city or something like that, and we're looking for boyfriends. I've long accepted that this is part of the madness. Some of the "wanna meet" guys go private too. Hell I love them, they drop money on a chat and when they find out you live nowhere near them they won't bother you again!

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    I fucking hate that shit. No I won't meet you in person, no I am not an escort and no I am not looking for a sugar daddy.

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Personally I'm a bit annoyed with this tactic because it only causes bitterness and resentment that was long in place before they found the site. So now we're reopening old wounds. *Sigh*

    The other way they advertise is on escort hobby board sites and really some of those men are the nastiest most bitter men I've ever encountered. They enjoy pushing boundaries and harassing women that obviously don't want them so to me it's made me take more breaks from camming. They also tend to be cheap because to them $50-$300 buys them maybe a dick sucking + why spend that much on cam models that will never fuck them? So they do the show me tits and will tip $1 like they are doing something or they do really short privates with limpy cock while spending their time typing away information digging. Also heavy haggling. Yuck.

    One guy would sit in free chat naming off states to see my reaction. After I explained to him I will not provide my location for my own safety he said he understood and stopped. Then he came back the next day and started doing it again. I flipped out. Seriously you're trying to put my life in danger as a sport? wtf. When I used a few choice words he unfavored me and would just sit in my room and stalk. Every once in a while he'll pop in and post "boring" and leave. lol

    I've had another guy take me private under two different accts yelling " tell me where you are!!" this is of course while he was smoking something that looked like meth. Ugg wtf.

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Well, at least they're the easiest to spot. "Hi bb my name is john im 38 from texas blue eyes tall, where are you bb ??" - or something along these lines immediately upon logging into the room.

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    You can convert some of them into pvt/exclusive. When they say what's in bold, I always say 'Interesting. Tell me more... I want to focus just on you so let's take this pvt/exclusive'.
    It works for me because I am a novelty/fetish and many guys have that fantasy of being with a Transsexual.
    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_Den View Post
    Well, at least they're the easiest to spot. "Hi bb my name is john im 38 from texas blue eyes tall, where are you bb ??" - or something along these lines immediately upon logging into the room.

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    When I was a travelling dancer, I occasionally worked with another girl who also traveled. She used to create dating site profiles in all of the cities she worked. And you know what???? Those guys would come into the club to meet her. Once they realized she had no interest in anything than their money, they would still do a few dances. Then they would buy dances from the rest of us, since they were already there. Not a bad hustle....

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    This can work to your advantage if you play it right.... just sayin'
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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

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    I forgot I was a sex worker

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    I forgot I was a sex worker

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Elizabeth Stuckey: She's wonderful! Where ever did you find her?
    Edward Lewis: 976-BABE

    .... and which movie was this?

    Just saying it so much easier to pass off a dating site than porn site. Like Sarah said , use it to your advantage so we can be like this


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    or we can be like this

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    Personally , I prefer the first one

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    I guess it could be used to our advantage. I did have a couple of those guys buy a private convo with me. But they end the conversation when I say I won't meet them LOL. I had one guy who was trying to get me to give him my number in a code. Saying I could disguise it by typing things like sexy 1, ect. He said he could tell I was smart LOL. Yea I'm smart enough not to give some random stranger on the internet my phone number.

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    Default Re: It's a cam site... not E harmony or some shit LOL

    Cams.com /streamray? is associated with an adult hook-up sites. They have a clear link to "paid model chat" but again, these guys don't read..

    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    Yeah, we're promoted as "THIS GIRL IN (YOUR AREA) WANTS YOU - CLICK TO FUCK HER" in banners. And dating.

    For all of the girls who complain about the guys who advance and bug at us in chat for meeting - We would never get paid, if instead of hookup/dating banners we had banners that said, "THIS HOTTIE NEEDS RENT AND PG&E MONEY - CHAT WITH HER NOW" Yeah, lol no guy would click on that.

    Be thankful we are advertised like this, it is your bread and butter.


    "If you don't stand for anything, you'll fall for everything"

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