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    So it has now been about 4 weeks since I began dancing and everyday I am learning something new.

    Last night I had a situation where I was chatting to a customer for around 20 minutes before taking him for a single dance.

    At my club, they have a new system where you are given a buzzer/timer which should go off 30 seconds before you should finish your dance. However because it is a new system not all the buzzers are up and running properly, so I decided to time the dance on the song.
    The dance went extremely well and he told me he couldn't believe I had only been dancing such a short time. (Also in my club if come back late from the dance, you are fined the price of the given dance at the end of the night. )

    I was struggling to get back into my outfit so I explained the situation to my customer and asked if he could wait outside so the girl on the dance till would know I had finished to prevent getting a fine.
    My plan was to go back to this customer and carry on chatting for a short while to get some more dances, however by the time I got back out another girl was stood with him. Within 10 minutes he had paid for an hour VIP with the other girl. Since then I have been kicking myself, because I feel that hour VIP should have been mine lol.

    How do you suggest I get a customer to stick with me throughout the night? And want to spend all his money on me and no one else?
    Also what is the best way to sell a string of dances in order to make more money?

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    You upsell before you leave him, aka while you're doing the dance. If you send him away, he's no longer yours and neither is the VIP another girl sold him.

    Basically, you should always be planting the seed of spending more. Bring up VIP in your conversation on the floor. That should be the main thing you are trying to sell (well, only if it's the most profitable option in your club of course), dances are an afterthought. If he doesn't bite, tell him that you can give him a taste of the luxurious/intimate/sexy experience with a regular dance. Before finishing the dance, say something cute about how he seems ready to take things to VIP. If he still doesn't bite, sell him another dance. When I sell a string of dances, I generally don't interrupt between songs to ask for another unless I'm concerned about the customer (ie. they're drunk or from out of town and may not know/realize how it works). I just keep going until they say stop, ramping it up before the end of each song so they don't want to.

    As for getting all his money/sticking with you, all you can do is get to know the customer and what they're looking for. Do they want to party? Do they want a naked therapist? Do they want to talk Star Wars with a hot girl? Your conversation on the floor should be figuring that out and adjusting your personality/the conversation to be their dream girl. Mindless chitchat may sell you a few dances and you may get lucky with big sales, but if you build that rapport and establish a connection, he's yours.

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    Default Re: Sticking with a customer/Selling more dance time

    Shanna thank you so much for your words of wisdom.

    I have just had my best night since I've started dancing after taking your advice. I managed to make £400 by sticking with one guy all night (along with a couple other single dances with different guys).
    Although he didn't buy any VIP time he bought single dances one after another all night. Even after we had finished the first string of dances, he ran to the ATM and came back to find me for some more time.
    Throughout our first dance, I would whisper things in his ear and finished my dances off in a raunchy pose. As I did each dance I find out more and more about what turned him on and used these things to keep him paying for more.

    Although I know this may not happen every night, it has boosted my confidence in myself so much.

    From now on you are my Stripping Fairy Godmother hahaa

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    That's wonderful, glad to hear you had such a great night! I'm totally all about getting one or a few guys to fall in love and bleed them dry rather than lap hopping.

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    During the initial conversation before the dance, First you have to dive into the Minds of your customers & get to know about what turn's them on.Once you get to know about all his dirty little secrets & fantasies, then you literally own him.However, you have to keep talking with him during the Dancing Hour.Pretend that you too like all of his fantasies & just whisper it back at his ears with a seductive voice.Keep a smiling face throughout & maintain an eye contact all the time.The customer just wants us to enjoy the time that we spend with them & if it makes us happy, then it makes them happy too.The customer's will get hooked on to you if you really enjoy & feel happy about what you do in that particular time.

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    Default Re: Sticking with a customer/Selling more dance time

    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    You upsell before you leave him, aka while you're doing the dance. If you send him away, he's no longer yours and neither is the VIP another girl sold him..... all you can do is get to know the customer and what they're looking for. Do they want to party? Do they want a naked therapist? Do they want to talk Star Wars with a hot girl? Your conversation on the floor should be figuring that out and adjusting your personality/the conversation to be their dream girl. Mindless chitchat may sell you a few dances and you may get lucky with big sales, but if you build that rapport and establish a connection, he's yours.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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