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    Okay so this post is all explicit so watch your eyes....reading...

    So today, for the first time I got somebody who wanted VIP with me...like the legit VIP room. Not the half private room..
    The FULLY private room. for like almost 2000 bucks...

    Needless to say I almost shit my pants because I heard about what girls do in there.
    So I tried to keep my panties on as much as I could....My boss gets mad if I say No to drinks because it makes the club more money so I have to say yes. So I was drinking...
    so I was giving him the lapdance and then we started grinding ....like dry humping and then he took my panties off and started like touching me and shit....and I said no but he was like "Come on I paid almost 2000 dollars" and I admit I felt like..what the fuck am I supposed to do in here?!!!
    so I'm like okay fine. He kept kissing me, and I saw other girls kissing in the other champagne room so I let him but it was gross...I closed my mouth th whole time and while he was looking away I put sanitizer all over my boobs and my mouth where he kept sucking my boobs....

    and then he took his dick out and I was like 0_0 and he kept grabbing my neck like to suck him and I said I dont do that...and he was like "aw okay, I get it"
    but like....

    I keep freaking out cuz he tried eating my pussy I pushed him away....then he tried sliding his fingers in my pussy and I was like "No" and he kept saying why why...I paid

    so I was like fuck it, I let him u know rub around but not slide them in....but I keep freaking out cuz afterwards he took his dick out and started jacking off ...I was next to him when he was jacking but like....after he cleaned up...he touched me a little and and Im like OMG
    STD , OMG IM GONNA GET PREGNANT, what if like some random sperm rolled onto my ass or something and into my vagina....I didn't have sex with him but it was such a chore to be like GET OFF of me... 0_0

    -_- I'm like about to go to planned parenthood and buy the morning after pill just over the thought of sperm being around me at all... outside of his pants... 0_0


    I feel retarded...so what the fuck am I supposed to do in there, i mean its so much fucking money...it cant be the same shit you do on a couch for like 15 bucks...but I aint sucking no dick Im not a hooker. God Darnet
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    I can't say much about the $2000 VIP, as I've never worked in a club like this before, nor have I ever been given a hard time at any of the SW establishments regarding refusing drinks, well once- but then I never went back there again.
    Usually I'll just order the most expensive bottled water.

    It sounds to me like the security at the club is "dodgy" at best, are there usually no security staff doing walk bys in the VIP? After reading your post, if you haven't already considered- unless you wish I welcome more experiences like the one you mentioned, might I suggest you either go and work at another club- that doesn't offer extras. Or, in the event you really can't say no to the money for sex- how about escorting instead of stripping?

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    Rape is rape and assault is assault, no matter how much money he paid for a room. You are not obligated to do any of this. If someone tries to tell you otherwise, leave. Enforcing your boundaries is so important here. You HAVE to learn how to do this, or you will become devoutly unhappy.

    If you look within Hustle Hut for how to extend VIPs, there are many helpful tips on what to do in there. But I agree with Misskatia... It sounds like you may want to find a different club.


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    that's crazy. i know how you feel, i know how being new is, and how guys try and pressure you and remind you of how much they paid, bla bla, but you gotta set your boundaries, stick to them,and tell these assholes to fuck off. im guessing he paid up front, right? just leave him with his dick in his hands next time. no club should pressure you to drink, and no club should NOT have security guards around to protect you. that's awful, im sorry

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    Next time tell him that he's in a stripclub not in a brothel, and walk out. If he keps pressuring, well tell him prostitution is illegal, and both can get in trouble for it. Unless you're in Nevada, which then, there's no reason he would be there.

    I seriously don't understand guys like that, they can get a scort for much cheaper, if that's what they're looking for.

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    Where The FUCK Was SECURITY???
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    I'm so sorry you had to go through this.

    Please don't let guys guilt you like that ever again. You owe them nothing more than your time and your company in the VIP. You owe customers nothing more than what's permitted in your club. Dances/contact/nudity rules vary... but even then, never ever feel obligated to do anything that you are uncomfortable with.

    so what the fuck am I supposed to do in there, i mean its so much fucking money...it cant be the same shit you do on a couch for like 15 bucks...but I aint sucking no dick Im not a hooker. God Darnet
    You ask what to do in VIP: I had the same question many years ago... https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...eeeeeended-VIP

    ^^^ maybe you can find some ideas in that thread



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    Quote Originally Posted by Triixie View Post
    Okay so this post is all explicit so watch your eyes....reading...

    So today, for the first time I got somebody who wanted VIP with me...like the legit VIP room. Not the half private room..
    The FULLY private room. for like almost 2000 bucks...

    Needless to say I almost shit my pants because I heard about what girls do in there.
    So I tried to keep my panties on as much as I could....My boss gets mad if I say No to drinks because it makes the club more money so I have to say yes. So I was drinking...
    so I was giving him the lapdance and then we started grinding ....like dry humping and then he took my panties off and started like touching me and shit....and I said no but he was like "Come on I paid almost 2000 dollars" and I admit I felt like..what the fuck am I supposed to do in here?!!!
    so I'm like okay fine. He kept kissing me, and I saw other girls kissing in the other champagne room so I let him but it was gross...I closed my mouth th whole time and while he was looking away I put sanitizer all over my boobs and my mouth where he kept sucking my boobs....

    and then he took his dick out and I was like 0_0 and he kept grabbing my neck like to suck him and I said I dont do that...and he was like "aw okay, I get it"
    but like....

    I keep freaking out cuz he tried eating my pussy I pushed him away....then he tried sliding his fingers in my pussy and I was like "No" and he kept saying why why...I paid

    so I was like fuck it, I let him u know rub around but not slide them in....but I keep freaking out cuz afterwards he took his dick out and started jacking off ...I was next to him when he was jacking but like....after he cleaned up...he touched me a little and and Im like OMG
    STD , OMG IM GONNA GET PREGNANT, what if like some random sperm rolled onto my ass or something and into my vagina....I didn't have sex with him but it was such a chore to be like GET OFF of me... 0_0

    -_- I'm like about to go to planned parenthood and buy the morning after pill just over the thought of sperm being around me at all... outside of his pants... 0_0

    You know what, I seriously don't want to freak you out... I am incredibly conflicted in posting this but I believe that what this individual did to you qualifies as sexual battery.

    http://definitions.uslegal.com/s/sexual-battery/

    It's not okay, it's not right, and it is not normal. I understand that you're mixed up right now. I hope you can recover from this nightmare of an experience. I am shocked that no one in the club had your back and that this son-of-a-bitch customer was so coercive.

    Please reach out to anyone on this board if you feel that you need help. Please understand that THIS is NOT what happens in VIP normally. Please take care of yourself and take time to feel better if you need to. That dude was a predator. He knew exactly what he was doing, and guys like that have a special circle in Hell designated for them.


    Again, I'm sorry that this happened, and it is not your fault.
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    Infuriating. In situations like these, when the customer feels entitled to do whatever they please to your body because he spent $x/hr, he is literally engaging in sexual slavery. He doesn't intend to purchase your time and company with the hope of something more; he intends to purchase total control of your body.

    After this experience you'll have the opportunity to hone your screening skills, but don't rely entirely upon them because they're fallible. Once in a while, I'm still wrong about a customer and unwittingly enter a room with an aspiring slave owner. My only advice is to lie to him the second he reveals himself. Say that you've been in this room dozens or hundreds of times and not one customer has treated you this way. Act shocked and horrified if he tells you this is the norm with other dancers, even if it is (it is in mine). Yell that you never agreed to anything like this upfront, and furthermore, it didn't even cross your mind in the first place because his behavior is so aberrant. When I lay this on THICK they tend to back off. If not, then leave the room and tell security immediately.

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    I am so sorry to hear this, doll! I think you should get out of that club asap & find one that is a safer, cleaner environment for you. I have to admit they are unfortunately becoming harder to find now these day, especially in certain metropolitan cities -but they still do exist. I'm lucky enough that my homebase is one of em & wile I have been a clean dancer & earned high or consistent in some dirty, dirty cities -I must say it's always nice to be able to go back home to a clean club. Makes all the difference! I hope you find a better route that works for you
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    Thank you for your responses guys, I really am confused about the whole thing, I don't know if I can leave the club over one incident but I do want to try to be more careful next time. I don't like kissing the customers.....I had a cut in my mouth and all I could think about was catching some shit....

    Security? I only saw one bouncer in that club and he is nowhere near the girls...ever....
    basically if I need help, I'm on my own. I kind of felt like because he paid money, that was that....after 15 minutes of him almost chopping my boobs off with his teeth.
    I know this sounds stupid, but I'm so totally freaked out because I can't remember if he jacked off before he tried to put his fingers in me or after, so Im freaking out about that shit
    Blah. I mean, part of me feels like I just have to be more careful and part of me is still like what the EFF.


    But anyway, Thank you guys , I read the sexual battery thing, I mean basically thats what it felt like, but I guess these guys really think its like some kinda fucking brothel or something....Its not a fuckin brothel. I dont know where the fuck his fingers have been, I almost feel like next time I go to VIP I'm alcohol wiping him even if he never touches me. yuck. Its the next day and I still feel all gross. And I usually don't mind rubbing against guys and shit, I mean I expected it, lap dancing is part of the job....I accept that...but this bothered me. I;m definitely taking these tips to mind thank u <3

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    Why would you NOT be able to leave the club? There is nothing keeping you there, particularly if it's a club that does nothing to protect girls from monsters like this.

    I'm so sry this happened to you. I've been in clubs where security was not on the dancers' side, & it's a scary place to be. Not all clubs are like this, tho - get out of there & find a place that's safe!

    Do what you need to do for yourself to get better. Between the biting & the contact w/ jackoff juice I would def consider going to get checked out, just to ease your mind. Yes, we have to be careful in this job, but that's true of any job - I will join the above posters who stated, ~ none of this is your fault! ~

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    You poor thing!!!
    So sorry that this happened to you

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    I'm SO sorry that happened to you That is certainly really traumatic.

    Please, please switch clubs, or have a word with the manager at the very least about the lack of security. I can't imagine working somewhere that offers such a high roller suite with the apparent understanding that shit happens in there.
    Feeling obligated to do something SUCKS, but you are NOT obligated to do ANYTHING. Please remember that, and if someone wants to complain, well, he should know he is in a strip club and not a brothel. The two exist separately for these reasons, that most girls in a strip club are just not comfortable going further, and that's fine.
    It's okay to be harsher on the customer as well; I know you said no several times, but you are definitely allowed to stand up and say firmly "If you touch me/bite me/lick me again, I am leaving and taking the money with me."
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Reading this made my blood pressure rise. I can't imagine what you've been through. Please do what it takes to get your head in a good place.. Bad experiences have a way of nagging at your well being until you heal properly from them.

    I know not all clubs are clean, and some are set up to encourage prostitution. If you can't find a cleaner club maybe you should just avoid this room? Surely there's less expensive options that are less private. Maybe you can work something out with security? While some girls may tip him to look away can you tip him to look out for you? No matter how much anyone spends on you never feel obligated to go over your boundaries. For every dirt bag like this there's ten more who will spend the money to spend time with a pretty girl. You deserve the money for your time, never feel like any amount means you have to work harder or do more for them than you're comfortable. You set the rules, if you don't want to do sexual things in a private room don't. Tell them up front, you don't want him to be disappointed but you'd love to spend time with him and just take him for dances if he's not ok with your boundaries. If guys are constantly balking at your rules and you're not making money being a clean dancer that's when you should find another club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lol1337a View Post
    Infuriating. In situations like these, when the customer feels entitled to do whatever they please to your body because he spent $x/hr, he is literally engaging in sexual slavery. He doesn't intend to purchase your time and company with the hope of something more; he intends to purchase total control of your body.
    THIS.

    OP, I feel for you. This kind of behaviour I've been seeing in the clubs more and more lately. It's disgusting. Experienced two incidents this week, not nearly as horrific as what happened to you, one customer tried to pull the similar "I've paid for it" shit to get me to make out with him. Complained to the manager to get a refund for lapdances when a peck wasn't good enough for him. Excuse me for not wanting your tongue all in and around my ANYWHERE. Another guy tried to extort a handjob. All the above advice is great on how to deal with this if it happens again...gets really grinding over time. Try finding a different club that doesn't tolerate extras, where there are cameras and/or better security. Working on it myself. Gotta work in a few dumps before you find the diamonds I guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tuesdaymarie View Post
    Rape is rape and assault is assault, no matter how much money he paid for a room. You are not obligated to do any of this. If someone tries to tell you otherwise, leave. Enforcing your boundaries is so important here. You HAVE to learn how to do this, or you will become devoutly unhappy.
    ^This!!!!!

    I honestly can't believe you put yourself through this! It makes me SO sad to think that there are girls out there who are allowing this kind of behaviour, against their will. Being an extras girl is one thing, being new, scared and taken advantage of is another!

    It's VERY possible to make good money without having your boundaries crossed. Even if this is "the norm" in your club, it doesn't mean you have to comply. You are working in a SC, not a Brothel-your job is to entertain and dance for a paying customer in the nude, not to have a sexual interaction with a paying customer. They are different jobs all together, and customers should respect that. If you are working in a club that allows touching, then, regulate it i.e. only allow a customer to touch you above the waist. If a customer does try to cross the line, warn them, if they ignore the warning then it's your right to end the dance and alert a bouncer or management. If the club is not on your side, it's not worth working there. Even if the club gives him a refund-isn't it better than going through this?

    It doesn't matter whether a customer pays $50 or $500-he should get the same service...a dance! Read through Hustle hut to see how you can sell and extend VIP's without compromising your boundaries. Sell the experience, more time, not more of yourself .

    If management encourages this type of behaviour, I would work at another club in the area. Drinking is also a CHOICE, and if management prefer or pushes you to drink-talk to the bartender or waitress to arrange a "mocktail" or a non-alcoholic drink (the customer can still pay full price for it and will be non the wiser). Or, don't finish it-leave your glass in the bathroom, DR, or at the bar (sure this is annoying for others, but atleast you won't be drunk and making bad choices, or allowing yourself to be pressured into making them). Or, just "sit on" your drink-if a customer comments, just say, "Oh, I haven't had time to enjoy it-I've been too busy having fun with you etc" (smile and keep dancing).

    Also, I highly doubt your would be pregnant from this, but I wasn't there (if he touched himself and then touched you, for your own piece of mind an STD test might be a good idea).
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    I thought about this thread again and just want to add something. I hope my previous response didn't make you feel worse about what happened to you. Sometimes recognizing an event as sexual assault is traumatic in itself because it's supposed to be the worst thing to happen to a woman. Everyone responds differently, though, and there's a chance you'll feel normal very soon - plenty of us do. By the way, do see a doctor for your peace of mind but it sounds like a minimal risk.

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    I went to get STD tests, and they said I can't get anything because I am taking an antibiotic, and the tests wouldn't come out right. The lady talked to me about Jesus for an hour and told me to quit dancing because I would "never be able to get out of the industry and Jesus wants me to leave and get married to the right guy"..... All she did was show me pictures of all the shit that will happen to me and stuff and she was like , this will happen to YOU one day, I felt so degraded like all this was something I planned and shit and I'm dirty or something and I'm gonna catch some shit because I'm dirty..."one day you sill get herpes or syphilis and blah blah"...So I left crying from there, because Im like what the fuck I didn't go there to feel worse. Shes all like showing me pictures of frickin humungus warts and people with pimples all over their faces and dicks and vaginas....

    Im not sucking dick , touching dick....It was just a fucking wierd incident...

    I got a pregnancy test just for my own piece of mind and it was negative. I just have a question.

    My club allows girls to grind against the guys for lapdances, it is usually not *air dancing*....Im okay with it, but this friggin Jesus lady kept trying to tell me I was gonna die, and one day for sure Im gonna get an STD from just working there........I doubt that but anyway....how do you make sure you don't get like... skin to skin contact STD shit from lapdances.

    I'm still going to fucking work, I need the damn money, the people at the clinic treated me like Im just there for the "glamour" of it or some shit....I like my job, I would appreciate not being shown a thousand pictures and about pimples and how Jesus wishes for me to stop making money.....
    God , I really didn't need the added stress....I go to work do my job, and fucking people act like I'm trying to kill people or something and I need a power point presentation as if I was a prostitute having sex with customers....I'm so fucking pissed off at the way people treat dancers.
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    I seriously doubt you will get anything from a lapdance, darling. Watch out for people with cold sores though... I talked to a man once with one and all I could think about was "EEEWWW IT'S LIKE HERPES!" He had money, and I knew it, but the simple fact that he had that on his face made me walk away.

    Just stay away from their bare privates and you'll be fine! Dancing on top their jeans/shorts wont hurt you none, in my opinion.

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    Fuck her. Verbally rehearse a backstory about some fake job before you deal with potentially judgmental authorities. Lying outside of work doesn't come easily for me but it's worth the effort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Triixie View Post
    I went to get STD tests, and they said I can't get anything because I am taking an antibiotic, and the tests wouldn't come out right. The lady talked to me about Jesus for an hour and told me to quit dancing because I would "never be able to get out of the industry and Jesus wants me to leave and get married to the right guy"..... All she did was show me pictures of all the shit that will happen to me and stuff and she was like , this will happen to YOU one day, I felt so degraded like all this was something I planned and shit and I'm dirty or something and I'm gonna catch some shit because I'm dirty..."one day you sill get herpes or syphilis and blah blah"...So I left crying from there, because Im like what the fuck I didn't go there to feel worse. Shes all like showing me pictures of frickin humungus warts and people with pimples all over their faces and dicks and vaginas....

    Im not sucking dick , touching dick....It was just a fucking wierd incident...

    I got a pregnancy test just for my own piece of mind and it was negative. I just have a question.

    My club allows girls to grind against the guys for lapdances, it is usually not *air dancing*....Im okay with it, but this friggin Jesus lady kept trying to tell me I was gonna die, and one day for sure Im gonna get an STD from just working there........I doubt that but anyway....how do you make sure you don't get like... skin to skin contact STD shit from lapdances.

    I'm still going to fucking work, I need the damn money, the people at the clinic treated me like Im just there for the "glamour" of it or some shit....I like my job, I would appreciate not being shown a thousand pictures and about pimples and how Jesus wishes for me to stop making money.....
    God , I really didn't need the added stress....I go to work do my job, and fucking people act like I'm trying to kill people or something and I need a power point presentation as if I was a prostitute having sex with customers....I'm so fucking pissed off at the way people treat dancers.
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    ^And same for the STD test.

    Be sure to enforce your boundaries up front next time. There are ways you can protect yourself. It sounds like you said "no" to quite a few things but then ended up compromising instead. Actions speak louder than words, and when you give a customer an inch, he'll take a mile.

    Also remember that your actions could have resulted in a prostitution charge - easily. If you ever feel that you're being assaulted, then you need to make that very clear to both the customer and to security. While $2k is a lot of money, it's certainly not worth what you went through. You should have walked out of the room immediately (after trying to communicate and enforce your boundaries and failing), whether the customer would get a refund or not. If the club then tried to 'fire' you because of this, you could've told them to just send another girl in who is willing to do those things.

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    Ewww, that clinic sounds horrible!! Fuck their scare tactics and pushing beliefs down your throat. If you have to go back just tell them you found out your bf cheated so they don't put you through anything again.

    You don't need to worry about lap dancing. Their pants might be dirty or have dye that could rub off on your panties. And you can grind them without dry humping them. Use your leg, or face away and lean back into them. Pay attention that you're not getting them so excited they'll have an accident. I think the chance of getting a skin infection like ringworm is the same as going to the gym.. I've heard stories about it.

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    clinics like that make me sick!!! " go find the right guy"?? this is why i refuse to go to religiously affiliated clinics..they are looking for people to shove their mysoginistic out-dated barbaric views upon and scare the shit out of already scared people. what she told you is bullshit, unless you are sucking and fucking you aren't going to get pregnant or immediately catch an STD just from stripping. god, the ignorance is just ..astounding.

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