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    So the past few private shows I've had have been ended literally within 5 minutes..
    I had one customer tip 135 tokens out of nowhere, sound really excited to take me to private, we get into private and everything seems to be going alright, he tells me he wants me to cum, and then BAM, private over without a word, before I even put the vibrator in me lol. Idk whether I'm just not cutting it and they don't want to waste money, they ran out of tokens, or they came after those quick 5 minutes and didn't want me to know LOL.
    I'm new and haven't done many privates, but I have had successful privates before.. just not sure what's up with this wham bam thank you mam thing.

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    Soon the "wham bam thank you mam" thing will become so ingrained in you, that you will be used to seeing your face drop in a millisecond from your best ever sex "I'M HAVING THE MOST EXPLOSIVE ORGASM OF MY ENTIRE LIFE OMG!" face, to your completely regular "on my computer so don't care what I look like right now" face because someone just left your private and you're getting ready for free chat again.

    It kind of amuses me to watch myself do that... "OMG OH OH OH YES BB I'M CU- oh, they left, k where's my bra?" lol.

    Yes, this is completely normal!





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    That makes me feel better hahah, thanks! That's definitely how it is though, especially the one private I was talking about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Incantatious View Post
    Soon the "wham bam thank you mam" thing will become so ingrained in you, that you will be used to seeing your face drop in a millisecond from your best ever sex "I'M HAVING THE MOST EXPLOSIVE ORGASM OF MY ENTIRE LIFE OMG!" face, to your completely regular "on my computer so don't care what I look like right now" face because someone just left your private and you're getting ready for free chat again.

    It kind of amuses me to watch myself do that... "OMG OH OH OH YES BB I'M CU- oh, they left, k where's my bra?" lol.

    Yes, this is completely normal!

    I am glad im not the only one that does that.

    I just stop what im doing and go clean my toys immediately. Then I come back and they are all like:"you should be paying ME cause I made you cum so hard!!!"

    When it was alllll pretend. Lol.

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    This happens all the time. I even have a minimum for Prvts and a required tip before i accept a prvt and this happens! I have tried everything to rid the min. Man with no such luck!!lol

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    Default Re: Ending privates early?

    This happens all. the. time.

    I can't stress enough how annoying it is to figure out what they want, take off ALL your clothes, lean back, and -Your Private Show has Ended-.

    Then, you're in this massive speed rush to put back on your clothes and sit there, waiting for another private or tip.

    Especially on Streamate. 5 minute-ers are only good if 5 people are in your room. Then you make 20-30 bucks in 5 minutes.

    That 30 second timer is the bane to my existence, though.

    -30 Seconds Remaining-
    "SHIT! *hectically puts on clothes, realizes I can't do it in time and moves the camera to point at the couch.*

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    yes! Luckily I'm on CB so I can take as much time as I need, but it's frustrating because then I lose all my views for a minute long private. It makes me hesitant to take privates when I'm getting great views but at the same time I don't want to lose potential good money.. it's like a gamble. Wait for some good tippers to come in and chance losing a long private or take a private and chance losing your views.

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    ^^^ Yep, agreed! Soooo Annoying! Minute men seem to be happening a lot more lately, even with my regulars, who always used to spend at least 8-10 minutes with me. I always think they got booted, but they never come back into chat to tell me that.
    What I am noticing also, is that a 'quickie' custie, who is a minute man, will then pop into my chat about 15 minutes or so after our prvt., and quickly pop out! i just think, at that point, that he's the 'Buffet' type custie. You know, 'A little from her, a bit more from her'. Pisses me off, but nothing to do about it,sadly.
    But, as everyone has already stated, until sm gets rid of the 30 second rule, there will forever be guys who abuse that priviledge.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyAnderson View Post

    That 30 second timer is the bane to my existence, though.

    -30 Seconds Remaining-
    "SHIT! *hectically puts on clothes, realizes I can't do it in time and moves the camera to point at the couch.*
    This is why I prefer having the break button. It's particularly handy if you can't waddle/roll off the bed fast enough cuz of random case of the baby bumps. XD
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    Can't you guys just sit there and force them to chat with you for the 30seconds and not do what they want until you are getting paid?

    Well...then again I suppose some of them will want to tell you their fantasies for those 30 seconds and just get off telling you about it?

    I am so glad I don't have to deal with that, it sounds very frustrating.

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    ^ The problem is when those guys come in whilst you're already performing for someone else...

    Someone takes you private... you wait 30 seconds to a minute or so, asking them questions, "hey baby how are you? What's your name? Do you have cam? What can I do for you?" etc, you get going... then some other person comes in whilst you're mid-cum.

    In those moments I just let them come in whilst I'm doing that because otherwise my show would be constantly interrupted with 30-second pauses of nothing, and probably NO ONE would enjoy that. :/ Nothing that can really be done aside kick those one-minute fucks.




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    How do they know when to join your private for the perfect moment to watch you? Or do they just hope for the best and jump in to the private and look to see if you are doing something they want to jerk off to?

    And...I didn't know that randomly joining a private already commencing allows THEM to ALSO get the 30second free preview. I figured that was for the initial person that took you in to private.

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    Meh, I don't think she exactly meant it. Plus there's no need to get that upset - to the cheap asses who care that much about getting free shit from us - I hardly think this will change very much. They're always going to exist anyway. No one is teaching anyone to take advantage. Actually I am hereby teaching any and all peepers who may be reading this, to come into my room tonight so I can "perform" for them. Free 30 seconds bb OMFG what a deal! You come in - and I ban.




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    Quote Originally Posted by sammii View Post
    OMG. Ruby, I hope you know guys read this forum.

    Thanks for teaching guys how to take advantage.

    And no I'm not being paranoid, I'm just annoyed when newbies discuss this shit in the open ... take it to verified. Or PM, idc.
    What the hell are you talking about. I do not work on streamate. How am I going to teach some guy how to "take advantage" if I hardly know any secret "in's and out's" of the site???

    I am sure guys are WELL AWARE the first 30 seconds is apparently "free time". Cheap free loaders that want to waste their life getting an itty bitty free preview all night are not going to stop because I asked a question.

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    They always knew that, though.



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    *Looks all sexy*
    'oooh yes babe I love your cock
    you're so hot
    I'm so wet for you right now
    are you gonna cum for me

    KERCHING

    'Cheapskate'.

    'hey beautiful, do you like x/Y/Z'
    'yes I love it you sexy beast, you want me to show you how much?'

    'Fuck yes I'll just get credit'
    *5 minutes*

    'Enters private'

    'Hi babe! I'm ready for you'
    *private has ended'*

    'Nobhead'.

    (struggles to change out of X/Y/Z outfit quick as possible whilst muttering how cheap men are tonight)

    *MrHungLikeaHorseMyArse has entered private*
    'Hey babe what can I do for you then?'
    *private has ended*
    'Shit'.

    Rinse.Repeat....
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    You know what's so funny? When I used to cam on SM I always expected the shows to be shorter and I usually got short shows (averaging around 3 minutes, yikes!). Then I switched sites and just kind of made up my mind to do things differently and now my average show is 10-15 minutes. The short shows still happen, honestly they happen to the best of us, because some guys just like to get ask worked up as they can in free chat and only pay you for the final Pop. What's worked for me is just not doing anything in private until they ask me to. Just yesterday I had a show where I didn't even take my clothes off until the 8 minute mark, because that's when the guy decided to ask me to undress. Before, when I was new, I was SO eager to please and would just jump right into instant action because I thought that's what I was supposed to do, and I unfortunately trained guys to expect that from me. I had more frequent shows back then, but they were shorter. Now guys know they should probably re-up their credits before taking me private because they will likely max out (depending on what credit package they purchase, of course). I get far fewer shows but they are much, much longer. It kind of balances out but it's much less work so I'm happy.

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    There's a lot of stuff we talk about on here that some may think is more suited for the Verified section, and sometimes it's kinda hard to make the call whether or not to post it here or in Verified. Not everyone is gonna join the Verified section, and I'd still like to be able to help out fellow models on here when I can. It's kinda tricky because on one hand, we don't want to give the lurkers any crazy ideas. But on the other hand, I was a SW newbie once too, and I wouldn't have learned so much from here if everything was kept hidden away in a Verified Group. So it's tricky.

    As for the discussion about the SM 30 seconds...well, I just do exclusives.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Incantatious View Post

    It kind of amuses me to watch myself do that... "OMG OH OH OH YES BB I'M CU- oh, they left, k where's my bra?" lol.
    Lol. Or the angry-face + swearing.

    -guy enters prvt-

    guy: bb play with yourself for me.

    "Ohhhh ye-"

    -guy has left the chat-

    .... ....


    "FUCK YOU. Shithead. You stupid piece of shit. Motherfucker!"

    30 seconds of rage until I go back smiling into free chat lol








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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    What I am noticing also, is that a 'quickie' custie, who is a minute man, will then pop into my chat about 15 minutes or so after our prvt., and quickly pop out! i just think, at that point, that he's the 'Buffet' type custie. You know, 'A little from her, a bit more from her'. Pisses me off, but nothing to do about it,sadly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    You know what's so funny? When I used to cam on SM I always expected the shows to be shorter and I usually got short shows (averaging around 3 minutes, yikes!). Then I switched sites and just kind of made up my mind to do things differently and now my average show is 10-15 minutes.
    I know exactly what you mean....I am so used to super short shows on SM that when I am on MFC and a show lasts more than 3 minutes I kind of get this panic look on my face because I have no idea what on earth I am supposed to do next to fill up the time!

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    This is my argument why the '30 second peeper rule' should not be information that is only kept to verfied.

    It is about our risk for this information being released vs. the benefit to the newbie for having it.

    Our risk: We get more 30 second peepers.

    The newbie's risk: A loss of income for the newbie cam model and the ability for men who ALREADY know about the 30 second flaw to take advantage of new cam girls because are unaware of the information.

    I can't speak for any other cam girl other than myself but I am more than willing to take on more 30 second peepers who would of never had the intent of paying me anyway if it means not letting these douchebag asshats take advantage of newbie cam girls.

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    Is There a way to ban someone who just pops into prvt? Since there are no earnings, how do You do that? Most of them don't ever come back to my free chat.Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    Is There a way to ban someone who just pops into prvt? Since there are no earnings, how do You do that? Most of them don't ever come back to my free chat.Thanks
    As far as I know, not unless you can catch them in the act.

    It is why the peepers get to keep on with their peeping.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    I know exactly what you mean....I am so used to super short shows on SM that when I am on MFC and a show lasts more than 3 minutes I kind of get this panic look on my face because I have no idea what on earth I am supposed to do next to fill up the time!
    Lmao #camgirlproblems

    Since learning how to.... not waste time, but I'll say "fill time" with things other than pussy pounding it is amazing to me how long I can make my shows last if given the opportunity. Sometimes it backfires, though; I had a 10 minute block show the other night and didn't even start masturbating until the 7 minute mark. I felt bad because I totally fucked up my timing on that one but luckily was able to finish at the 9:40 mark. Considering that on my site the cam feed stops automatically once the time is up that could have ended in one Very disappointed customer! I still don't know what to do with myself when shows go over 20 minutes. Then my hands start cramping and I'm sweating and I've already cum but I NEVER end shows first. I can't help but ask myself what the hell is taking the guy so long to finish, but then I think about the money, and suddenly I've got a second wind. It's amazing how money is such a turn on for me

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