Yes I have definitely noticed a thing in strip clubs regarding race. Working in clubs really opened my eyes in regards to how people behave and treat others because of race.
I am mixed, but look like your run of the mill white girl. I am thin with fairly large boobs and I’m often confused for many things: Italian, Eastern European or Russian, Israeli or white Jew. I dance in large city and the stereotype thing is the same in the clubs here. I've even met a couple of customers (one who even referred to themselves as a good ol' boy) who were very surprised at how segregated the city and clubs are compared to the south where they are from.
In fact, check out this map, this map does not lie:
http://projects.nytimes.com/census/2...g=-73.994&l=12
This is my club experience:
Older and younger white guys: they generally go for my look and I make most of my money off of them. Most middle aged men like the fact that I have no tattoos. The geriatric ones are generally creepy to me, as the ones I have met come to the clubs looking for a cheap BJ or HJ. There were occasions where if I were one of the few white women working, they would find comfort in me and confide to me how relieved they are to see another white person. They have a tendency to say insulting and racist things without really meaning to.
Hispanic guys: they like me, but many of the non-English speaking ones are incredibly handsy with me and will often try to kiss me during lapdances.
Black guys: not really into my look, which is unfortunate because I would love to work at a more urban club where I could make a lot of money from stage for showcasing my dancing and pole abilities. In my case they tend not to tip at all, but sometimes if they don’t feel like tipping you could try doing a booty shake for them and then they’ll usually tip.
East Asian guys: I do really well with them and they are into my look. Apparently it is a somewhat common fantasy for many Asian men to get with a white girl, as many have told me. I have found them generally very respectful and kind (and sometimes shy) during lapdances and they usually keep their hands to themselves. I love them and they love me.
BUT, there is also another race of Asian which I have had very bad experiences with: South Asians and some East Asians, particularly the almost no English-speaking
South Chinese and foreign-born Indians and Bangladeshi.
These guys try to molest me and will often try to forcefully finger me during lapdances. Simone, do not feel bad about your opinion of Indian men because my worst club experiences were with exclusively them. When I first started to notice this trend I felt wrong for thinking like this, but if you do a search you will see many threads with the same against Indian men.
Unless they were born here or are younger and have been living in this country for a while, they’re cool. But as for the rest of them, I generally try to avoid them and unfortunately they love my look and will sometimes follow me around the club while I’m trying to get away from them!
In India women are treated terribly and I've read it's a real issue over there. In a country where men can gang-rape women inside of a moving bus (on more than one occasion), it comes as no surprise to me how awful some of these men treat dancers:
http://www.cnn.com/2013/01/13/world/...-new-gang-rape
http://www.cnn.com/2013/01/09/world/...ase/index.html
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-india-20863860
Crazily enough when I had blonde hair, I felt as though I didn’t have to work as hard. I’m pretty pale, but no one ever commented on it.
And that is my customer experience so far.
GingerLin, I’m very surprised you had a somewhat lackluster experience with white men, they generally love Asian girls. The Asian girls I’ve worked with usually banked with white guys.
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