I'm 26 and had two relationships. I never got into the dating scene, pretty much just talked to girls I found attractive and nothing much materialized from that besides a platonic friendship. Anyways a couple months back, I was really wanting to be in a relationship, to have a girl I could count on and look forward to spending my days with. Fast forward to the current, and while I am no longer actively seeking a girl...I don't mind flying solo either. I could go either way but I am leaning towards being single. I had my heart broken once, and that was just tough as I am sure most of us have had that happen. The feeling of not wanting to eat, sleep, breathe, etc.
I am thinking if I stay solo, I will be stronger in the end because there is no girl to lose (whether that be via accidental death, sickness, or simply she breaks it off) and by not having that someone...that is one less thing to hurt/hinder me emotionally in a bad situation. If I just keep the best friend I have (I literally have 3 friends now...never had much friends to begin with), live a meaning full life, decent career, etc I can be content. But that is me.
How do you feel about the matter? Do you need/want somebody? Or can you go solo? Whats up?
P.S. I do however know that I will get old...and growing old and alone might be something that would be hard for me and by then I would be wishing I had someone.



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