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    I've been to strip clubs for a few years now and several dancers have told me that I'm good looking. I'm trying to determine if their comments were sincere or bullshit. So do you compliment customers on their looks? And if you do, do you mean it?
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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    I have a very low tolerance for bullshit. I don't take it from customers, & while I will happily jerk your chain in good fun, I won't give you a load either. It requires more energy & patience than I want to expend. So yes, I will compliment you on your looks if I find you attractive, or on your outfit, or smtg else abt you if your looks don't jump out at me, but I always look for smtg I can compliment sincerely.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie View Post
    I've been to strip clubs for a few years now and several dancers have told me that I'm good looking. I'm trying to determine if their comments were sincere or bullshit. So do you compliment customers on their looks? And if you do, do you mean it?
    Why not post a couple of pics so you can have the women of stripper web critique you?
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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    I am pretty sure they are yanking your chain but I personally cannot tell someone that they are good looking with a straight face if I really didn't think so. In my hustle, I like to be genuine and so trustworthy that you will hand me your cash and come back for more.

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    If you are tipping and asking if you are hot, very few will tell you no. I usually would say this if a customer was being sad and saying "no one wants me" then I would probably tell him he was nice looking.

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    I don't know if I've ever told a customer that they're attractive, even if they are. Being like "you're hot!" just... isn't something I do on a regular basis? Unless I'm drunk, but that's a different story.

    I do, however, immediately blurt out whenever someone smells good. Idk, is that creepier? lol
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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    I will happily compliment a customer on something if I feel that it's in need of a compliment (if I like their shirt, eyes etc) or if the customer looks like they need an ego boost i.e. a guy who has just broken up with his gf and been dragged to a SC by his friends .
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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    i always compliment customers. always. but my compliments are truthful. ill always find one or two things that i can like about a person.

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    I have come across a good share of attractive looking men and would tell them only to reciprocate his compliment so not to over inflate the ego.

    Now if he asked me if he looked good and he was ugly.....um thats like a woman asking you does her butt look big in jeans

    Take what you hear with a grain of salt.

    imo its more important how YOU feel about yourself.

    I'd always think im the baddest bic even if was ugly and wouldnt dare waste time asking others opinions

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    How in the world will knowing if random dancers (ie. not the ones who complimented you) truthfully compliment their customers help you determine if those girls who complimented you were being sincere? Every dancer has her own MO and hustle. Some lay it on thick with the 'you're hot's, some only make sincere compliments, and some won't say a word about you. Just accept the compliments as part of the strip club experience and stop trying to analyze them. What does it matter if they're real or not? Not much else about your experience in the club is real anyway.

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    Interesting that I found this post, because just a little earlier this evening a dancer made a point of telling me that I was good looking while stripping down for a lap dance. While I'm not ugly, nor overweight and try to be well groomed, I'm sure there was some flattery involved. (though I certainly found her good looking).

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    Only if they really are or if they are giving me lots of money. Lol.

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    Oh man, I feel so bad for all those other guys who hear this and beleve it when, obviously, they only mean it when they say it to me.
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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    Assume anything a stripper says is BS. That is just reality. They are in sales and complimenting customers is part winning the sale. Customers can believe whatever they want to, but the reality is that she wants to part you from your money, pure & simple. That's her job. Take whatever she says with a grain of salt and just enjoy your fantasy in the club and move on with your life once you pass the "exit" sign.

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    And my favorite tells me she loves me too, she wouldn't lie about that would she?

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie View Post
    I've been to strip clubs for a few years now and several dancers have told me that I'm good looking. I'm trying to determine if their comments were sincere or bullshit. So do you compliment customers on their looks? And if you do, do you mean it?
    It should not matter if it was real or bullshit, that is for you to discern. Asking us whether WE tell customers they're good looking isn't going to answer your question of whether what those other dancers tell you is the truth or not. I've only met customers *I* have found personally good looking only a very FEW times (2-3 times in 4 years), and even then I don't tell them they are good looking cuz I personally find no point in it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    I am pretty sure they are yanking your chain but I personally cannot tell someone that they are good looking with a straight face if I really didn't think so. In my hustle, I like to be genuine and so trustworthy that you will hand me your cash and come back for more.
    ^^same here. I really can't lie. Everyone has something special and amazing about themselves. When you give someone a sincere compliment it makes them feel really good (on some days I do it to everyone I encounter) and it feels really good doing it.

    One can always try and lie through their teeth, but most good people will pick up on that and it just throws the trust factor(along with the sale) right out the window: P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie View Post
    I've been to strip clubs for a few years now and several dancers have told me that I'm good looking. I'm trying to determine if their comments were sincere or bullshit. So do you compliment customers on their looks? And if you do, do you mean it?
    I'm assuming that you are at least in your twenties since you are old enough to have been going to clubs for a few years. At this point in your life has any woman told you that you are good looking? A girlfriend or two? A female friend? A sister? An aunt? Your mother? If the answer is no and the only women telling you that you are good looking are the ones that you are paying I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that they are complimenting you to get more of your money.
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    You actually consider their words of compliment? Bad move zombie. When ANY stripper tells you any sort of compliment you turn sentinal and just shrug. Saying "I guess" enough times also tells them that you're not buying the bull. You're there for the lap dances (at least you should be generally).

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    Depends on how much money you give me

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    I won't lie.

    If they're hideous but smell nice, I say "you smell fantastic."

    If they are beautiful, I'll tell them.

    I like bald men. One guy was overweight but bald and sexy in a Fat Joe kinda way, so I said "I love your bald head."

    Simple, to me.

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    Default Re: Do you often tell customers they're good looking?

    Only if I think they are. I'm explicitly honest , and I won't tell a guy he's hot if he isn't.I compliment in other ways if I don't find them attractive as a whole, on their intelligence, hair, mannerisms, hands,dress sense.... whatever I like lol and other games



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    After some thought, I have decided that those dancers really did like me (especially the one that begged me to do shots with her). I have never been more sure of my hotness than I am right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie View Post
    After some thought, I have decided that those dancers really did like me (especially the one that begged me to do shots with her). I have never been more sure of my hotness than I am right now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie View Post
    After some thought, I have decided that those dancers really did like me (especially the one that begged me to do shots with her). I have never been more sure of my hotness than I am right now.
    Good for you! That means the strippers are doing their job well and you're getting your money's worth!

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