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    hey everyone im going to start camming in the next 2-3 wks and have read plenty of threads on here with lots of helpful tips, i still have a question

    i live in a small country, and i know i can block out people from my country, but i'm still worried about being "found out". i also have an accent from my country...so i was thinking about just putting my location as the country next to mine and saying i live there for school or something. whats everyones opinion on this? should i be honest about where i live or is it ok to lie?

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    Default Re: new cam girl..lie about location?

    It's okay to lie as long as you can be consistent with your lie. Also, I think some sites list your country based on you IP address, meaning you can't change it willy-nilly, so you might want to look into that.

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    I would definitely do that. Most cam girls don't use their real locations for security reasons. If you live in a small country especially I would say saying you are from the next country over is a good idea. Better safe then sorry. I'm from the states and always say I'm from the next state over from me since I have a bit of a distinctive accent to my region that some people pick up on. Works for me
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    I have quite a few wonderful regulars from my country who spend hours with me because they want to hear me talk dirty on our native language; or they just feel a connection because we live in the same country. I'm not against lying at all, this is the only reason not to lie that I can think of. I think it depends on your circumstances, I'm open about what I do, but if you're worried to be found out, maybe it's better to just lie After all, it's not like you would ever meet them, or they have any reason to know your real location. You're selling a fantasy! It gets on my nerves that everyone on SM starts with "where are you from bb"...
    Oh, and about accents: I've been asked if I'm British, because I have a British accent (no, I don't, I wish!); if I'm American (no American accent either, would be nice though), and if I'm Russian (most definitely don't sound Russian, although it would be cool). I don't think the majority of guys have an ear for accents when they're on a porn site

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    ^I'm American with an American accent. Specifically, I am from a rough neighborhood in New York City (the "ghetto" if you will). Due to my fancy education and book learnin' I don't really have much of an accent when I'm having a generic conversation. However, when I get mad/upset/emotional my New York accent comes out SO STRONG! When I first moved to the suburbs friends would always say rude things to me to get me to "talk Bronx," as they called it. Lol. Sometimes- maybe often, these days- my Bronx accent comes out really strong when idiots come into my free chat- which is pretty much all the time, amiright?

    Claudia, you bring up a Really good point about accents and how that can give away more than your listed country. Whether that is a good or bad thing, it can go either way. I think it goes back to whether or not you can be consistent if you choose to lie. It's one of the reasons when guys ask where I'm from I say I'm from New York but I live in the Sonoran desert now. I know if my accent comes out guys who are familiar with the area will be able to pinpoint it, regardless of what I tell them my current location is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    I think it goes back to whether or not you can be consistent if you choose to lie. It's one of the reasons when guys ask where I'm from I say I'm from New York but I live in the Sonoran desert now. I know if my accent comes out guys who are familiar with the area will be able to pinpoint it, regardless of what I tell them my current location is.
    I always get many questions about my country, people tell me if they've been here, they tell me which places they visited and what did they think, etc. I get many paying customers like this, it's a good conversation starter. If I would lie, I would definitely say something like "I just moved here" or something like that. But then again, I'm the nice but naughty girl next door on cam, I rely a lot on conversations. If you're more a "bad bitch" type, or maybe the "glamorous goddess" type, it might not be much of an issue.

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    That's funny, I also have met so many guys from my home city (it's kinda freaky, actually) BUT they are all broke asses who never go private. They also love talking about all the spots, in free chat, without tipping. If you can get guys from your location to pay you based on that, that is AWESOME! I wish I could find custies like that! It seems like when guys do recognize my accent they think we are kindred spirits or something and that they don't need to pay me because we have some connection or something. Psh

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    Most of them talk to me in Hungarian and wait to see if I answer in Hungarian or not I guess that's a first test or something, lol! I type one or two lines in Hungarian but they have to pay for more. I used to talk to them in free chat when I was new and naive, but not anymore I guess it's that Hungarians are not as many as Americans for example, so when they find a fellow Hungarian, they all get very excited

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    I used to lie about where I'm from, but too many dudes ended up being from the city I was pretending to be from. So I just say my real state. Never met anyone from here.

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    I am new to camming myself. When it comes to location when they I ask I say .... Today I am from Montana or Texas or New York.... I just pick a state and be from there. Some of the regulars always laugh and say 'wow, you make it around'...lol This way it makes it easy I don't have to remember where I am "suppose" to be from.

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    How did I not know you are Hungarian?! I used to know two ladies from Hungary from my old job and they are both Amazing! They were both super sweet but also no nonsense. I so wanted to be besties with the girl my age but it would have been inappropriate since it was a client/customer relationship

    I am pretty much incapable of lying on cam because I am SO bad at it. The most I do is try to deflect. I live in Arizona which I don't mind guys knowing because it is such a big state but when they start prying it gets SUPER weird! When they ask where I live I will usually say I live in the Sonoran Desert and some guys have been like oh, Phoenix? Luckily I do not live in Phoenix but it's rather close to my city so I get this panicked look on my face and tend to freak out. I don't like playing these unsolicited guessing games and I know if they guess a few more major cities nearby they'll hit the nail on the head. Usually at that point I tend to ignore EVERYone or just log out because I can't deal. *sigh* what I wouldn't give to be able to lie more easily...

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    I just tell them that I have had some bad experiences with telling men where about I live, so I only give a time zone, never a province / state, etc.

    I live in like two different countries, all different time zones....cause I don't share my secrets with strangers >________<;;;;;

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    At first, I tried going with the nearest large city but too many said they were from/visiting there and wanted to meet. So now I just answer with a simple "USA"...and explain that I do not give out my specific location or state. They have been okay with that.

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    I tell them USA and say I used to live or do live in CA which was true! But it's nowhere near my current location.

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    I tell guys I am from Nebraska, I haven't had anyone say they are from there yet.

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    I always just tell them "I'm from the East Coast." If they ask me where, I say, in the south but I never get more specific than that!

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    I've heard this one before on Streamate:

    Member: Where you from?
    Model: I'm from my mother's vagina.

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    thanks for the replies everyone

    my accent is really specific, so anyone who hears me speak will know straight away what country i come from. on one hand i think my "niche" could be that im from this country...there isnt many MFC girls from here..so guys from here would love the fact im so close to them...but i dont think its worth risking my safety or being "outed". so i will just stick to my story that i moved abroad but am from there originally. and i will block users from my country so they can't find me. thanks everyone!

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    I lie about my location. Pick a city/country that's very heavily populated. I pick a far away city that's very populated, so lots of customers are from there, I can talk about it because I grew up there, and I use the "we could easily meet in real life" thing as a selling point even though I would never meet any of them. Even if you know nothing about where you say you're from you can always just open up a tab and Google stuff. NEVER SAY YOU"RE FROM WHERE YOU ARE REALLY FROM!

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    You could use google earth if someone says is from the same area... also you should speak the language of that country, no? If you say that you are from Netherlands but you don't speak dutch would be quite strange considering that perhaps people from Netherlands would search for cam models from their own country just to be able to talk in their own language.

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    we are from the same country and I also have a quite strong accent... I am just about to start camming and was thinking on the same issue... but now I know what will I say, 'I am from H but moved abroad' /I will pick a country where I lived for 2 months in the past/ and in the meantime my location is banned of course. Thanks!

    Quote Originally Posted by nikki09 View Post
    thanks for the replies everyone

    my accent is really specific, so anyone who hears me speak will know straight away what country i come from. on one hand i think my "niche" could be that im from this country...there isnt many MFC girls from here..so guys from here would love the fact im so close to them...but i dont think its worth risking my safety or being "outed". so i will just stick to my story that i moved abroad but am from there originally. and i will block users from my country so they can't find me. thanks everyone!

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    Hmmm with an accent it can be hard, but you can still lie. Expats are all over. You can say, I live in X, I'm a student. I say I'm from my mother's vagina and if they persist I tell them I only tell guys where I'm from in private, and then I lie about that too. I only pick "coasts" if that makes sense, entirely opposite and nowhere close to where I actually live. At the end of the day, it's none of their damn business.

    I find that guys who want to know where you live want one of two things. 1. To fuck you hoping for a meet up and 2. to stalk/date you and hoping for a fuck meetup lol. I tell them this isn't a dating site, and it's pay for play. I also like teasing them that if they can't afford to take me private, they probably won't pay for drinks either or dinner.




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    I lie too, I'm from a small country, and if I would tell the truth, I would be outed in like a second. It's no secret that at least 80% of these guys are clicking girls from their countries, for chat in their own language and of course in hope to meet sometime in the future. The problem is that SM doesn't let me to choose any country I want, but only my real country, and 4 other. I don't speak languages of any of those countries, and I was never there even for a short trip, so I have no clue how the cities etc.. look like. I get guys from the country I've listed all the time, and they are all cheap, so it isn't a great loss, but still it annoys me, so I try to just ignore if they type in their language. Or I say I only speak english on SM, or that it bothers me if they come to my room in hope to fuck me in rl. If I could choose I would probably list UK or Germany, and say I've just moved there or something. Sad to say, but all the guys who spent the most money on me, are from USA or UK, despite the fact I don't get them in my room so often. All the eastern europeans are CHEAP CHEAP CHEAP and demanding, at least in my experience.

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    I live in NYC so I don't lie because it's a place a lot of members want to chat about and no one could possibly find me because there are so many people here. I obviously don't give specifics.

    Definitely okay to lie about whatever you want in terms of personal info like this. We are performing a fantasy and there's no reason these guys need to know where we live to enjoy the service we provide.


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    All right, so I am after my first day on MFC and I told people that I am from H and recently moved to UK, seems to work, but I have to remember - I forgot this some times when I got tired and told to some users the simple truth LOL - although they don't really give a flying f* I think they usually ask this only as a conversation iniciation.

    I agree - the ones who REALLY want to know where do I live are should be suspicious. Anyway, I have to be more careful with this, there are so many psychos out there.

    Soon, when I will be already sure that I continue camming on long term, I plan to start the project described here, because I believe to lie about location is really not enough to protect myself. !

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