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    Hey, I'm new; only just auditioned at a nude club, a clean place under new management (DayDreams in Philly). I really didn't have a terrible first audition for being nervous and new (hey, I got naked and somebody even pulled me aside asking for a VIP room or whatever they call it there). The new manager, Brett, said he'd give me a trial run that Sat., but my mother was sick so I asked for the following Saturday, to which he said "sure" but then decided they had enough girls a few days later. I said that I understood and could we try next weekend. I didn't get a reply so I messaged him again about this latest Saturday, to which he said "no" because they have too many girls.

    What the hell do I say to that? If he wasn't going to hire me, why string me along?
    I mean, I need the money badly and this was my first club. It was so nerve wracking and I'm 33-24-34, 5'8", 120lbs, blonde, pouty-lipped, and blue eyed. Summers are bad in Philly, so I'm trying to tell myself that they actually do have too many girls...not that I was that terrible.

    Advice? Encouragement?

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    Default Re: What's wrong with me? I'm disappointed.

    I don't know why the manager would "string you along" so to speak but they probably do have too many girls. Maybe their regular girls are being consistent and that's why he's being inconsistent with you? Try Delilah's? A coworker at my vanilla job was there recently for a bachelor party and said it was busy (Saturday night, no idea about during the week).
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    Try asking for a less popular shift. It's not uncommon for management to not like brand new girls to start on busy Saturday nights, especially if it's quiet and veteran girls are complaining about too many girls/not enough money. Really though, I'd just go somewhere else. Why waste your time waiting around when you could start making money now somewhere else?

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    Yeah, Lynn2009 and Shanna Dior: I think I'll throw caution to the wind and audition at Delia's, then. It just sucks that I just bought white MaryJane pleasers - I look so good in school girl outfits.

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    Just make sure you are SUPER done up for delilahs! they hire just based off looks, so you'll go in they'll have you fill out an application (with 3 references required, wtf? I think I just put down friends lol). the hostess will take a picture of you in street clothes, show a manager in the back, then hopefully bring you upstairs to the dressing room to take a picture of you just in a thong, show the managers and that's the point where I got the "someone will call you BS". I would recommend full hair, makeup, wear regular heels to go in and something sexy. idk why they didn't hire me...I'm sure it wasn't cause of my looks. I think maybe my schedule was too difficult to be worth it for a new girl. I plan to try there again at the end of the summer, good luck!

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    In general I've found it tough to start on a Fri or Sat nite, as those nites are typically the most girl-populated & mgrs will often not let you start in order to keep wk day-working house girls happy. In most of the clubs I've worked, you had to either work a min # of wk day shifts in order to work the wk end, or else house fees skyrocketed or they just flat-out wouldn't let you work. This may be the case where you are, rather than it being b/c of smtg you've done or the mgrs not liking you.

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    I auditioned @ Daydreams and got the Sat shift.

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    Good for you, Tempest

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    Thanks. It hasn't been too bad. When did you talk to Brett last?

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    Like two days ago. This is all very recent. I'm frustrated that he rethought hiring me because I had to reschedule. I'm trying to take this as a cosmic sign to try a club closer to home. It's just a mindfuck and a hit to my newgirl shaky confidence

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    Yeah. Idk the club, but've had similar stuff happen to me..mgrs. can be flakes, going back n' forth like that. I hope you find a great club to work


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    Default Re: What's wrong with me? I'm disappointed.

    Well he said he WANTED you to come on sat and you couldn't so maybe he just thought you were flacky and was like forget it. These managers now adays act like we should be grateful they hire us( seems he may be one of those power trip types) since he said " well try you out on Saturday". I'd just go somewhere else....or go back in person ready to work so he knows your serious...

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