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    Sorry in advance for the long post but Curious about your opinions..... I am a fairly regular at a local club. Always friendly with the hostesses and several dancers and waitresses know me. I do VIPs with some girls on occasion.

    Last week on Wednesday, I was getting ready to leave and noticed a new girl talking to the manager prior to a shift change. She was absolutely beautiful in every way. Needless to say I wanted to meet her. She went to the dressing room to get ready for her shift and I talked to the manger (who also knows me) and it turns out she is a new bartender who is just starting but worked at a sister club for a short period of time. I decided to stay, and approached her before her shift started and told her how beautiful I thought she was and I wanted to get to know her, buy her a drink etc.... Her shift started, the bar wasn't crazy busy, so we were able to hang out and get to know each other. We both flirted with each other and had plenty of drinks together before I mustered up the nerve to ask her if she does VIPs. She said she normally didn't unless she is comfortable with the guy but she wanted to with me. We went up and wound up staying for 2 hours and had a great time, no extras offered or asked of from me, we just really got along well. In fact she did not remove clothes in the VIP and I was cool because we were having a really fun time together. She offered me her phone number and asked me to come back to see her on Friday.

    We texted back and forth a couple of times before Friday.I wasn't sure I could go on Friday but I really wanted to see her again. Because I had spent so much I told her I wasn't sure I would do VIP again but I wanted to see her so I went on Friday. Again we got along great, we traded personal stories and we probably know more than we should about each other considering we just met but it all felt pretty real to me.

    Let me pause here, as a regular I understand the business and know what I am getting into. Maybe because she was a bartender or new this felt a bit different to me. I liked her, she liked me, she called me her club boyfriend. During the night if dancers walked up to me and I chatted for a bit, I got a look from her and was questioned after by her. "Do you want a dance from her" "Do you think she is hot" etc............ We wound up doing VIP again for another 2 hours that night and I got considerably drunker, where I was not able to drive home after so I had to hang out after at the bar to sober up before going home. She asked me in the VIP if I minded her talking to other people or if I am the "jealous type". I told her albeit a bit drunk that I get why you are here "to make money" and I did not have a problem.

    Now in 2 days I have spent $3,000+ with this girl between rooms drinks and tips, It was already close to 2AM club closes at 4. Would you have asked that of a potential whale?

    We went back to the bar, we did hang out but as the night was ending she was approached by another guy who starting chatting with her and hanging out, He walked away for a sec to get the hostess for a VIP, I asked her are you doing a VIP with him, first she said no and asked if I was jealous... I wasn't gonna lie, I had hung out with her all night and I was a bit, but she should do her thing if she wants.. She told me " Awe you love me.........." I brushed it off.........after 5 minutes I can see she was gonna go and she asked if I cared and if I did she would not go...........I told her to have fun and make lots of money....... I get it she is there to make money after she left I did find I was more jealous than I thought, not that she went up but that it was done right in front of my face. I am not sure I have the right to be annoyed but am curious if you would have done this with a potential big customer who had already spent a "boatload" (to me anyway) of money in 2 days?

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    Quote Originally Posted by readytotry View Post
    Sorry in advance for the long post but Curious about your opinions..... I am a fairly regular at a local club. Always friendly with the hostesses and several dancers and waitresses know me. I do VIPs with some girls on occasion.

    Last week on Wednesday, I was getting ready to leave and noticed a new girl talking to the manager prior to a shift change. She was absolutely beautiful in every way. Needless to say I wanted to meet her. She went to the dressing room to get ready for her shift and I talked to the manger (who also knows me) and it turns out she is a new bartender who is just starting but worked at a sister club for a short period of time. I decided to stay, and approached her before her shift started and told her how beautiful I thought she was and I wanted to get to know her, buy her a drink etc.... Her shift started, the bar wasn't crazy busy, so we were able to hang out and get to know each other. We both flirted with each other and had plenty of drinks together before I mustered up the nerve to ask her if she does VIPs. She said she normally didn't unless she is comfortable with the guy but she wanted to with me. We went up and wound up staying for 2 hours and had a great time, no extras offered or asked of from me, we just really got along well. In fact she did not remove clothes in the VIP and I was cool because we were having a really fun time together. She offered me her phone number and asked me to come back to see her on Friday.

    We texted back and forth a couple of times before Friday.I wasn't sure I could go on Friday but I really wanted to see her again. Because I had spent so much I told her I wasn't sure I would do VIP again but I wanted to see her so I went on Friday. Again we got along great, we traded personal stories and we probably know more than we should about each other considering we just met but it all felt pretty real to me.

    Let me pause here, as a regular I understand the business and know what I am getting into. Maybe because she was a bartender or new this felt a bit different to me. I liked her, she liked me, she called me her club boyfriend. During the night if dancers walked up to me and I chatted for a bit, I got a look from her and was questioned after by her. "Do you want a dance from her" "Do you think she is hot" etc............ We wound up doing VIP again for another 2 hours that night and I got considerably drunker, where I was not able to drive home after so I had to hang out after at the bar to sober up before going home. She asked me in the VIP if I minded her talking to other people or if I am the "jealous type". I told her albeit a bit drunk that I get why you are here "to make money" and I did not have a problem.

    Now in 2 days I have spent $3,000+ with this girl between rooms drinks and tips, It was already close to 2AM club closes at 4. Would you have asked that of a potential whale?

    We went back to the bar, we did hang out but as the night was ending she was approached by another guy who starting chatting with her and hanging out, He walked away for a sec to get the hostess for a VIP, I asked her are you doing a VIP with him, first she said no and asked if I was jealous... I wasn't gonna lie, I had hung out with her all night and I was a bit, but she should do her thing if she wants.. She told me " Awe you love me.........." I brushed it off.........after 5 minutes I can see she was gonna go and she asked if I cared and if I did she would not go...........I told her to have fun and make lots of money....... I get it she is there to make money after she left I did find I was more jealous than I thought, not that she went up but that it was done right in front of my face. I am not sure I have the right to be annoyed but am curious if you would have done this with a potential big customer who had already spent a "boatload" (to me anyway) of money in 2 days?

    Why are you doing rooms with bartenders in a strip club to begin with? Strippers do rooms... bartenders sling beverages.
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    Default Re: Would like your opinion? Would you have done this to a potential "whale"???

    I can absolutely guarantee you that not a single dancer is going to respond to this thread by saying that she wouldn't have done VIP with the other customer. (so far I'm right!)

    You are a customer. The other guy was a customer. Why should she take your money and not his? I know that you have already put yourself in the "I'm special" zone but that is a zone that is created when you walk into VIP and ends when you walk out. All the flirting at the bar that goes on in between is designed to get you back into VIP. It's good that you recognize the fact that you are a customer but you are not the only customer. No dancer-or bartender for that matter-is ever going to settle for just one guy's money. As far as she knows you could leave at the end of the night and never come back. You need to understand that your definition of "boatload of money" may not be the same as her's. You are looking at it as a lot of money to spend on a girl. She is looking at it as a part of what she needs to earn in a day a week or a month to pay all of her bills.

    My first-ever ATF many years ago used to sit with me for two or three hours on her Saturday night shift. We would chat, laugh, flirt and have a great time. Around 9pm I would do a couple of VIP's with her. When we came out we would hug, she would give me a peck on the cheek and that was basically her way of saying good night to me. By the time we were done in VIP the club was packed and she went off to make the rest of her money for the night.

    If you try to place your feelings about where you stand with a dancer above her need to earn you are going to lose every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Why are you doing rooms with bartenders in a strip club to begin with? Strippers do rooms... bartenders sling beverages.
    I usually only do VIPs with dancers, but I found her to be very beautiful and my other brain took over!!

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    Sorry that you are jealous. Sorry that you're upset about this woman's actions... she's taking advantage of the monetary opportunities available to her... but she has zero, zippo, nada, zilch-o commitment to you.

    She owes you NOTHING.

    And even though you may be a "big customer", "whale", "boatload", etc. Mo' Money is still Mo' Money.


    I have one question: If a dancer had a VIP room with you and then snagged another guy right after, would you be upset?
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I can absolutely guarantee you that not a single dancer is going to respond to this thread by saying that she wouldn't have done VIP with the other customer. (so far I'm right!)

    You are a customer. The other guy was a customer. Why should she take your money and not his? I know that you have already put yourself in the "I'm special" zone but that is a zone that is created when you walk into VIP and ends when you walk out. All the flirting at the bar that goes on in between is designed to get you back into VIP. It's good that you recognize the fact that you are a customer but you are not the only customer. No dancer-or bartender for that matter-is ever going to settle for just one guy's money. As far as she knows you could leave at the end of the night and never come back. You need to understand that your definition of "boatload of money" may not be the same as her's. You are looking at it as a lot of money to spend on a girl. She is looking at it as a part of what she needs to earn in a day a week or a month to pay all of her bills.

    My first-ever ATF many years ago used to sit with me for two or three hours on her Saturday night shift. We would chat, laugh, flirt and have a great time. Around 9pm I would do a couple of VIP's with her. When we came out we would hug, she would give me a peck on the cheek and that was basically her way of saying good night to me. By the time we were done in VIP the club was packed and she went off to make the rest of her money for the night.

    If you try to place your feelings about where you stand with a dancer above her need to earn you are going to lose every time.
    I hear what you are saying and you are right...... Need to get that "special thing" out of my head..........but by the same token, I shouldn't be getting looks when talking to another dancer while she is serving drinks..........
    And usually I get "it" And have no problem with it..... Just the male ego thing made me a bit jealous that I wasn't getting all the attention, as I really liked her!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Sorry that you are jealous. Sorry that you're upset about this woman's actions... she's taking advantage of the monetary opportunities available to her... but she has zero, zippo, nada, zilch-o commitment to you.

    She owes you NOTHING.

    And even though you may be a "big customer", "whale", "boatload", etc. Mo' Money is still Mo' Money.


    I have one question: If a dancer had a VIP room with you and then snagged another guy right after, would you be upset?
    I wasn't angry at her by any means..........and totally was cool with her when she went....... I know she owes me nothing..........It was my stupid ego after she left and went to the VIP..........As far as a dancer.........I have never been upset before....... And I always encourage the dancers to make lots of money after we are done.......... For some reason this girl got to me a bit.........it felt more real...................I realize now that it was just a business thing............but at the time I did feel that way... I guess what I was trying to get at was, would you hustle someone else right in front of a potential good customer.................But after some thought you guys are all right......

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    Yoda hit the nail on the head with the "special zone" I honestly never put myself there before but for whatever reason I did with her, she made me feel very special...............and she got to me.............. Thank you for helping to clear my head!!!!

    Maybe the fact that she said that she normally doesn't do VIP's helped put me in the "special zone" in my head, but now thinking back that is just probably part of the hustle.........Either way I had a great time with her and will go back but just be a bit smarter and not let my emotions cloud me!! Thank you!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by readytotry View Post
    I wasn't angry at her by any means..........and totally was cool with her when she went....... I know she owes me nothing..........It was my stupid ego after she left and went to the VIP..........As far as a dancer.........I have never been upset before....... And I always encourage the dancers to make lots of money after we are done.......... For some reason this girl got to me a bit.........it felt more real...................I realize now that it was just a business thing............but at the time I did feel that way... I guess what I was trying to get at was, would you hustle someone else right in front of a potential good customer.................But after some thought you guys are all right......
    Glad you see the light.

    P.S. I never said you were angry.

    P.P.S. ..... I'll entertain anyone... anywhere... at any point in time (at work), should the opportunity arise. The word "potential" means nothing to me. I believe in actual, factual, concrete pay... then and there, on that day. Good customers are great, multiple good customers are even better.
    Who knows? There is always the chance to meet a *great* customer at any moment.
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    A few things...

    A few of the clubs that I go to allow bartenders, waitresses, shot girls and back-rub girls to do VIP. It's a bit of a new thing to me as, in the past, I never heard of it. I'm very to know, when this happens, how much the lady involved has to give back to the club. I find it hard to believe that the dancers-who are paying house fees and tip-outs are going to stand by while a bartender takes a guy into VIP and has her way with him without the proper fees being paid. Hmmm.....

    Anyhoo....

    Once a Bartender starts selling VIP's to customers she is going to view those customers in the same way that a dancer would. This means that some won't care who else you talk to or dance with and some will give you the evil eye. It sounds like you are making it pretty easy on this gal by paying her a lot of money for fully clothed talk time. If I were her I'd probably be a bit distressed if I saw another girl moving in on you as well. The jealousy thing cuts both ways but the difference is that she is only jealous of whomever else might be getting your money instead of her.

    Honestly, I don't believe for a nanosecond that she has never done VIP before. She has a tailored her approach to be "the naive girl behind the bar" rather than the cold professional dancer who only cares about money. She got three grand out of you in two visits and kept her clothes on so I'd say she's pretty good at her job...
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    Quote Originally Posted by readytotry View Post
    I usually only do VIPs with dancers, but I found her to be very beautiful and my other brain took over!!
    Have you learned your lesson?

    I think you're jealous because she is NOT a stripper.
    She's a bartender! She doesn't go from guy to guy (in your mind of course... the facts indicate otherwise)... that's what strippers do!

    She's more appealing to you because she's a challenge. There is a thrill in the chase. She doesn't get undressed in the room. She's just a regular girl that just happens to work in a strip club. She's special. She is different. She is more intriguing/desirable. Ooh La La.

    Even though she is operating like a stripper (who the fuck is mixing drinks while you two are in the VIP???), one of your *brains* got tangled up in the contradiction.

    Let's get back to basics, readytotry...

    Strippers do rooms.

    Bartenders make drinks.


    Best of Luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    A few things...

    A few of the clubs that I go to allow bartenders, waitresses, shot girls and back-rub girls to do VIP. It's a bit of a new thing to me as, in the past, I never heard of it. I'm very to know, when this happens, how much the lady involved has to give back to the club. I find it hard to believe that the dancers-who are paying house fees and tip-outs are going to stand by while a bartender takes a guy into VIP and has her way with him without the proper fees being paid. Hmmm.....

    Anyhoo....

    Once a Bartender starts selling VIP's to customers she is going to view those customers in the same way that a dancer would. This means that some won't care who else you talk to or dance with and some will give you the evil eye. It sounds like you are making it pretty easy on this gal by paying her a lot of money for fully clothed talk time. If I were her I'd probably be a bit distressed if I saw another girl moving in on you as well. The jealousy thing cuts both ways but the difference is that she is only jealous of whomever else might be getting your money instead of her.

    Honestly, I don't believe for a nanosecond that she has never done VIP before. She has a tailored her approach to be "the naive girl behind the bar" rather than the cold professional dancer who only cares about money. She got three grand out of you in two visits and kept her clothes on so I'd say she's pretty good at her job...
    I am not sure how the money works....... I know the bartender is not paying house fees upon entry.........but she is getting the same cut of the VIP plus her tips that a dancer would get in the VIP.........from what I know and I will ask in this particular instance........she does not need to tip out any money made from VIP

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Have you learned your lesson?

    I think you're jealous because she is NOT a stripper.
    She's a bartender! She doesn't go from guy to guy (in your mind of course... the facts indicate otherwise)... that's what strippers do!

    She's more appealing to you because she's a challenge. There is a thrill in the chase. She doesn't get undressed in the room. She's just a regular girl that just happens to work in a strip club. She's special. She is different. She is more intriguing/desirable. Ooh La La.

    Even though she is operating like a stripper (who the fuck is mixing drinks while you two are in the VIP???), one of your *brains* got tangled up in the contradiction.

    Let's get back to basics, readytotry...

    Strippers do rooms.

    Bartenders make drinks.


    Best of Luck.
    There are multiple bartenders at this club....... And you are right about the thrill of the "regular girl", it adds a dimension to the whole thing........HOWEVER..........this is not why I went to her....... This is crucial..........When she was talking to the manager before her shift I did not know if she was a dancer, waitress or bartender............. In my case had she been a dancer, I was going to approach her anyway.........I was instantly attracted to her and HAD to meet her!!! Any I knew my little head was doing the thinking for the rest of the night and the VIP was happening....... I may have gotten a bit more hooked in when I got to know her and the whole "Regular girl thing"

    I am not sure, but I don't think I was jealous that she was not a dancer........... My mind was set on her when I saw her walk into the club.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by readytotry View Post
    This is crucial..........I was instantly attracted to her and HAD to meet her!!! I may have gotten a bit more hooked in when I got to know her and the whole "Regular girl thing"
    I get what you are saying. I'm not implying that you wanted to spend time with her because she WAS NOT a dancer. I just think the "civillian girl" dynamic factored into your somewhat jealous feelings. Thatz all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    I get what you are saying. I'm not implying that you wanted to spend time with her because she WAS NOT a dancer. I just think the "civillian girl" dynamic factored into your somewhat jealous feelings. Thatz all.
    No arguments........... I would be lying if I said it didn't!! That said I am happy for your feedback!!

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    Default Re: Would like your opinion? Would you have done this to a potential "whale"???

    Ready, there was more money to be made that night and she pounced on it. That is the only lesson to be learned here. Spending money on a girl doesn't really earn anyone the right to monopolize her whole evening, especially when a guy is done spending and there is someone else waiting in line to fill her pockets. She had no way of knowing if you would ever spend a dime on her again, but she did know that she was going to leave lighter in the wallet if she didn't take that VIP.

    As a side note, true "whales" throw their heft around by taking their favorite girls off the line for the entire night. Two hours in VIP probably gave you closer to big dolphin status, truth be told, especially since you had to be coaxed into the VIP on the second night after initially saying that you might not spend that much again. Just some food for thought. I don't know anything about this club or its earning potential, but using the term "whale" may be a stretch in this context.

    Net-net, she ran a good hustle on you and you paid her well for her time. IMHO the reason we are discussing it now is that you got too caught up in it and forgot the cardinal rule, which is that any female working in the club is there to earn. I don't care if she is the bartender, waitress, shot girl, door girl, or whatever - and I've paid all of the above for any number of things over the years. She was there to make a living, not find a date.

    Anyway, just my

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post

    As a side note, true "whales" throw their heft around by taking their favorite girls off the line for the entire night. Two hours in VIP probably gave you closer to big dolphin status, truth be told, especially since you had to be coaxed into the VIP on the second night after initially saying that you might not spend that much again. Just some food for thought. I don't know anything about this club or its earning potential, but using the term "whale" may be a stretch in this context.

    Net-net, she ran a good hustle on you and you paid her well for her time. IMHO the reason we are discussing it now is that you got too caught up in it and forgot the cardinal rule, which is that any female working in the club is there to earn. I don't care if she is the bartender, waitress, shot girl, door girl, or whatever - and I've paid all of the above for any number of things over the years. She was there to make a living, not find a date.

    Anyway, just my
    Whale was probably the wrong term......... I am new to these forums, need to get the terminology straight!!

    I have been going to clubs for only 10 years or so, as my income has gotten higher my ability to spend has too.......Initially I wouldn't dream of going to the VIPs, so I guess doing 4 hrs in 2 nights for me is "whale" status.....

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    Default Re: Would like your opinion? Would you have done this to a potential "whale"???

    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    big dolphin status,
    You mean like Flipper or Mahi Mahi? Sorry Had to ask!

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    Default Re: Would like your opinion? Would you have done this to a potential "whale"???

    Here's how I see it, when my time with you is OVER (AKA I stop getting paid), that's when I stop paying attention to you. On to the next one !

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    Here's how I see it, when my time with you is OVER (AKA I stop getting paid), that's when I stop paying attention to you. On to the next one !
    Do you really STOP paying attention to him?? Don't you want to hook him in for another night..........

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    Default Re: Would like your opinion? Would you have done this to a potential "whale"???

    You sound upset that you spent a "boatload" of $ and she didn't show you special attention for it. You pay the girls for their time. When the time is up you gotta pay more or someone else will scoop her up. If you like her you'll come back, if not there's others out there. It comes off as you're upset she didn't waste her time and forfeit money in hopes of you possibly coming back and maybe doing VIP. Strip clubs work like pay as you go phones or juke boxes. The phone company is never gonna say here, have some free time because you spent so much last time. And in my opinion, you didn't spend a huge amount, and you seem needy requiring lots of flirting and convincing to get VIP then attention after so she's getting less money for time invested vs someone who decides in 15 minutes to do a VIP then leaves after his 2 hrs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by readytotry View Post
    Do you really STOP paying attention to him?? Don't you want to hook him in for another night..........
    This is truly amazing to me....

    Dozens of guys a year show up her starting "Am I special" threads because a dancer played them. A dancer who doesn't "play" guys with "yourspecialhere'smynumberletsgooutsometime" BS posts honestly about it and you are questioning her on her motives for simply doing her job and moving on? Wow...just...wow...
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    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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    Sophia_Starina is a sensible stripper...Naked all the way.....
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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    Default Re: Would like your opinion? Would you have done this to a potential "whale"???

    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    true "whales" throw their heft around by taking their favorite girls off the line for the entire night. Two hours in VIP probably gave you closer to big dolphin status...
    Quote Originally Posted by richdummy View Post
    You mean like Flipper or Mahi Mahi? Sorry Had to ask!
    What is the porpoise of this discussion?
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Default Re: Would like your opinion? Would you have done this to a potential "whale"???

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    What is the porpoise of this discussion?
    LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    What is the porpoise of this discussion?
    She's here all week folks! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcYppAs6ZdI
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    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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