
Originally Posted by
readytotry
Sorry in advance for the long post but Curious about your opinions..... I am a fairly regular at a local club. Always friendly with the hostesses and several dancers and waitresses know me. I do VIPs with some girls on occasion.
Last week on Wednesday, I was getting ready to leave and noticed a new girl talking to the manager prior to a shift change. She was absolutely beautiful in every way. Needless to say I wanted to meet her. She went to the dressing room to get ready for her shift and I talked to the manger (who also knows me) and it turns out she is a new bartender who is just starting but worked at a sister club for a short period of time. I decided to stay, and approached her before her shift started and told her how beautiful I thought she was and I wanted to get to know her, buy her a drink etc.... Her shift started, the bar wasn't crazy busy, so we were able to hang out and get to know each other. We both flirted with each other and had plenty of drinks together before I mustered up the nerve to ask her if she does VIPs. She said she normally didn't unless she is comfortable with the guy but she wanted to with me. We went up and wound up staying for 2 hours and had a great time, no extras offered or asked of from me, we just really got along well. In fact she did not remove clothes in the VIP and I was cool because we were having a really fun time together. She offered me her phone number and asked me to come back to see her on Friday.
We texted back and forth a couple of times before Friday.I wasn't sure I could go on Friday but I really wanted to see her again. Because I had spent so much I told her I wasn't sure I would do VIP again but I wanted to see her so I went on Friday. Again we got along great, we traded personal stories and we probably know more than we should about each other considering we just met but it all felt pretty real to me.
Let me pause here, as a regular I understand the business and know what I am getting into. Maybe because she was a bartender or new this felt a bit different to me. I liked her, she liked me, she called me her club boyfriend. During the night if dancers walked up to me and I chatted for a bit, I got a look from her and was questioned after by her. "Do you want a dance from her" "Do you think she is hot" etc............ We wound up doing VIP again for another 2 hours that night and I got considerably drunker, where I was not able to drive home after so I had to hang out after at the bar to sober up before going home. She asked me in the VIP if I minded her talking to other people or if I am the "jealous type". I told her albeit a bit drunk that I get why you are here "to make money" and I did not have a problem.
Now in 2 days I have spent $3,000+ with this girl between rooms drinks and tips, It was already close to 2AM club closes at 4. Would you have asked that of a potential whale?
We went back to the bar, we did hang out but as the night was ending she was approached by another guy who starting chatting with her and hanging out, He walked away for a sec to get the hostess for a VIP, I asked her are you doing a VIP with him, first she said no and asked if I was jealous... I wasn't gonna lie, I had hung out with her all night and I was a bit, but she should do her thing if she wants.. She told me " Awe you love me.........." I brushed it off.........after 5 minutes I can see she was gonna go and she asked if I cared and if I did she would not go...........I told her to have fun and make lots of money....... I get it she is there to make money after she left I did find I was more jealous than I thought, not that she went up but that it was done right in front of my face. I am not sure I have the right to be annoyed but am curious if you would have done this with a potential big customer who had already spent a "boatload" (to me anyway) of money in 2 days?
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