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    Dizzy do you have to dance during a lap dance?

    I work at a bikini bar and we have $10 lap dances in our "lap dance area" (2 booths).
    Last night I was giving a dance to one of my regulars and the security guard signaled to me that I had to dance... WTF?? he said because technically the customer does not have to pay if we aren't physically dancing.
    That doesn't make sense to me.
    When the customer asks for a dance aren't they basically renting my time and the booth space by paying the $10/ dance fee?
    If so, then I don't HAVE to dance if the customer doesn't want me to dance, do i?
    If that's not the case then, wouldn't we be able to sit in the booths and use them as regular seating if we weren't dancing?
    I don't get why my club keeps coming up with these stupid rules that effect my $$. Less $$ for me means less $$ for them. So many girls stopped working at our club because of all these obscure rules that we "have" to abide by and customers are threatening not to come back because they feel uncomfortable. We are a very clean club, I don't know what they are so scared of...

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    Default Re: do you have to dance during a lap dance?

    Your bouncer/club is weird. I'd understand if the customer was complaining and you were refusing to dance, but there are plenty of customers who just want conversation or company. I'd say at least half of my "dances" aren't actually dances! But not all things in the club make sense. If it hampers your $$$, time to try out a new club with less arbitrary rules/enforcement.

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    Default Re: do you have to dance during a lap dance?

    I have worked in a couple clubs where, if I was w/ a customer in the private dance area but not dancing for him, the bouncer/dance tracker would get theirs in a bunch & tell me to get dancing, or get out. If your staff is this nitpicky, why not just take the customer to a corner of the club, apart from the private dance area, & do an unofficial VIP there? The customer can then pay you for dances or for company (or both) w/o meddling from the staff.

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    Default Re: do you have to dance during a lap dance?

    I actually posted a thread just now in Hustle Hut about a related issue. My manager is saying they won't enforce payment for songs spent not dancing, even if the customer requests a dancer's company. You may want to check it out later to see if it gets any good responses that could help you.

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