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    Default Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    SO lets say that it's one of those clubs where the bar surrounds the stage and the ladies go around collecting the dollar tips. I know how you ladies that work in these sort of geographies usually push your boobs out or outstrech your booty so we can place our tips between your glands or between the g string/thong, but what if I INSISTED on handing you your tip in your hand because you're a person and not a pair or tits or ass. Would you get upset behind your smile because I don't conform to the norm? Now don't peg me as a white knight (or black knight in this case lol), I just rather savor the touch to the lap dances and VIPs and I figured you get tired of the gropes for a dollar?

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    no. although it might get akward if i held out my g string and a guy declined and insisted on just giving it to me in my hand..kind of weird and, as you said, "white knightish".

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    I'm not going to care. As simone said, it might be kind of awkward if I've already got my thong/tits out ready to accept the dollar, but I'm not going to get mad about it.
    On the other hand, I'm also not going to think "Ah! Finally, a gentleman that realizes I am more than just tits! How refreshing!"

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    I already realize I'm a person, so I don't need you handing me a dollar instead of putting it in my garter to reach that conclusion. All I care about is getting that dollar - and if it's only a dollar that you're handing me, then getting it as fast as possible so I can move on to a real customer. No need to dissect the seconds-long transaction so much dude.

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    ^^^^ This is almost word for word what I was going to reply.

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    Quote Originally Posted by estafador View Post
    SO lets say that it's one of those clubs where the bar surrounds the stage and the ladies go around collecting the dollar tips. I know how you ladies that work in these sort of geographies usually push your boobs out or outstrech your booty so we can place our tips between your glands or between the g string/thong, but what if I INSISTED on handing you your tip in your hand because you're a person and not a pair or tits or ass. Would you get upset behind your smile because I don't conform to the norm? Now don't peg me as a white knight (or black knight in this case lol), I just rather savor the touch to the lap dances and VIPs and I figured you get tired of the gropes for a dollar?
    Just put the tip where they ask you to put it. They're busy and need to keep moving. Your attempt at being a white knight with a dollar bill is just slowing them down...

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    I honestly feel like, if you're not going to want touching at the stage anyway, then don't bother to sit there. Enjoy the show from your seat and when you bring up the tip, just put it down on the stage (with an appreciative smile if she's watching you at that point) and go back to your seat. I've always appreciated it when that happened and would usually go talk to the guy later. But sitting right by the stage is kind of an indication that you want some sort of attention for your tip so, like others have said, it's awkward when a girl goes to do her usual thing and you mess up the flow by insisting on something else.
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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    Sorry, just re-read the question and realized you are talking more about doing tip-walks? General principle that others have stated still applies. If you don't want the "dollar dance" or boobs-in-face interaction, just say no thank you and hold out your tip. But if they then proceed to hold out their garter, just do what they expect you to do. Less awkward for everyone involved.
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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    OP some clubs will not allow this. In a few club the tips had to go in the garter ONLY. We weren't allowed to get tips via hand.

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Just put the tip where they ask you to put it. They're busy and need to keep moving. Your attempt at being a white knight with a dollar bill is just slowing them down...

    I thank God every day that the internet didn't exist when I started going to strip clubs. The picayune over-analysis that goes on on this site from the customer side is just fucking ridiculous.
    This x 10.

    This whole post smacks of "I am so superior to all the other customers, as I will not soil the lady of my dreams. In fact, when I go to a strip club, I always wear dark glasses inside so I cannot even gaze upon her naked form, that's how much I respect women."

    And yet, he is still IN the strip clubs and it such an important aspect of his life he joined this site.

    /insert dismissive handwanking gesture here

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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Just put the tip where they ask you to put it. They're busy and need to keep moving. Your attempt at being a white knight with a dollar bill is just slowing them down...

    I thank God every day that the internet didn't exist when I started going to strip clubs. The picayune over-analysis that goes on on this site from the customer side is just fucking ridiculous.
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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    Would I get upset? No. Would I find it awkward? Yes. And honestly, it wouldn't even cross my mind that you were doing it because "I'm not just an ass or a pair of tits." My thought would actually be, "This guy must be new, and have no idea how strip clubs work." Lol

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    It's a dollar...who cares?!

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    Lemme put it this way... if you're handing me over 5+ bucks... idgaf WHERE you put it. But, if you think that handing me a single dollar bill in my hand is going to make you so much better, trust and believe I'm gonna tell you my other hand is jealous and needs another. I do pole work and entertain... your "kindness" doesn't pay my bills... I just want your money. And the more you give me, the happier I am. Bang bang.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoscarletox View Post
    ... trust and believe I'm gonna tell you my other hand is jealous and needs another. I do pole work and entertain... your "kindness" doesn't pay my bills...
    I like the 'jealous other hand' line, pretty ballsy. I also get irritated when I bust my body on the pole to give a good show & come offstage w/ 2 bucks, from 2 guys who w/ superiority complexes so heavy I think the floors must warp under their weight.

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    Its a strip club not a country club...it is all about the tits and ass.

    I put it wherever is most convenient.

    Now I been to numerous viet coffee shops (lingerie/pasties)...now there is a place you should hand it to em. You touch there...they will break your arm.

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    OP I really appreciate what you're trying to do. Most people wouldn't even *think* of it, let alone dissect the meaning behind the gesture.

    Also, cool siggy pic.

    To your question though, the tip rail or tip walk isn't the best place for me to be receptive to feminist gestures. Making any amount of money requires the interaction to be as brief as possible, which means a script. He knows how this goes, I know how this goes. I offer body part. He gives me money on said body part. I smile and move on.

    I'm thinking, in your situation it would go; I see him.
    He has money out and and is sitting in the right spot = he must want to tip
    I offer body part ... nothing happens
    He sees me, he still has money. Is this money for me?
    He says something. I can't hear him very well, so I smile and nod, moving so I can hear him better. Now I'm tense and have wasted time.
    He tells me he wants to "hand" it to me. He says some more stuff, but I can't really hear him very well (it's a strip club). Guessing, I figure he literally wants to put it in my hand. I'm a little puzzled, and I'm sure it shows on my face, but I keep smiling and reach with my hand.
    Now he smiles too and hands me the money. I'm relieved that it wasn't some weird mind fuck joke he was playing, and that whatever else he said that I couldn't hear had no bearing on him giving me an actual tip. I smile again, thank him, and move on.
    My stride is a little broken, and I have no idea what just happened there.
    If the club isn't busy, I'll go check back in with him later because I'm not really sure what he said. For all I know, it might have been, "see me after your stage" in some way I didn't understand. Of course, it also could have been something shitty, so he won't be my first stop.

    TL: DR No harm, no foul really, but the gesture will probably go unappreciated/be minunderstood in that moment


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    Default Re: Do you ladies get upset if I insist on HANDING you your tip?

    yeah because just leaving money on the table will DEFINETELY got to you no problem. Not sure if you guys work in the best of situations or everyone is just really friendly, but I have simply laid down my tip (because I get lazy) and some other chick would quickly swoop down and take my 5 (I don't tip dollars, that's a fucking waste. Stripping ain't easy) that wasn't meant for her. But don't think I just make it awkward, I still tip in the garter.



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    Just wait until she exits the stage and hand it to her. A smile and a well placed "Thank you" punctuated by cash is all that is required to acknowledge her humanity.

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    Just pay the seductress in the proper place & she will let you know if there is a another $5..lol Knight..lol

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