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    Mind Blowing Hi ladies! Boyfriend returns from Hawaii in 1 week, i want to surprise him.. (tmi?)

    (Somehow!) With learning how to squirt and having the ability to be more on the "wet" side compared to my typical "dry". Here is the quick background storylease let me know if the subject is too explicit! Like many of you, i am an adult entertainer and we tend to be very open about sexual topics. I work peep shows, so it is a little sad that i havent been working to figure out my issues before now.. I have a problem with getting wet. My main issues *may* have something to do with the fact that i am self conscious, and that i am typically not well hydrated, but i can almost guarantee there were times where these werent factors. I have been sexually active for 6 years and it has always been this way. A large majority of the women he has dated have never had wetness issues, and quite a few were able to squirt ALOT. I know he doesnt feel like he is really getting me off because i dont get excessively wet. There have been *maybe* five times that i got noticeably wet during sex, never during foreplay. I just cant recall what made these situations unique.. I tried to discuss this with my doctor and basically got brushed off. They acted like it was no big deal (that i have issues getting wet) and told me to just use lube. I will be seeking out a new gyno shortly. I dont know if i can tackle either of these issues within one weeks time, but i would love to see some improvement. I have been working out and toning up since he left a few weeks ago, im feeling pretty good and it is building my confidence I dont really have a specific question, more i would ask for general advice, opinions/anyone else have the same issues? Were you able to overcome them? Does this seem like something i can figure out in a week? I have done online research here and there regarding both topics, mixed opinions on squirting. Wetness may be medical issue, etc. I welcome your input!!
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    Default Re: Hi ladies! Boyfriend returns from Hawaii in 1 week, i want to surprise him.. (tmi

    Quote Originally Posted by MissAva View Post
    (Somehow!) With learning how to squirt and having the ability to be more on the "wet" side compared to my typical "dry". Here is the quick background storylease let me know if the subject is too explicit! Like many of you, i am an adult entertainer and we tend to be very open about sexual topics. I work peep shows, so it is a little sad that i havent been working to figure out my issues before now.. I have a problem with getting wet. My main issues *may* have something to do with the fact that i am self conscious, and that i am typically not well hydrated, but i can almost guarantee there were times where these werent factors. I have been sexually active for 6 years and it has always been this way. A large majority of the women he has dated have never had wetness issues, and quite a few were able to squirt ALOT. I know he doesnt feel like he is really getting me off because i dont get excessively wet. There have been *maybe* five times that i got noticeably wet during sex, never during foreplay. I just cant recall what made these situations unique.. I tried to discuss this with my doctor and basically got brushed off. They acted like it was no big deal (that i have issues getting wet) and told me to just use lube. I will be seeking out a new gyno shortly. I dont know if i can tackle either of these issues within one weeks time, but i would love to see some improvement. I have been working out and toning up since he left a few weeks ago, im feeling pretty good and it is building my confidence I dont really have a specific question, more i would ask for general advice, opinions/anyone else have the same issues? Were you able to overcome them? Does this seem like something i can figure out in a week? I have done online research here and there regarding both topics, mixed opinions on squirting. Wetness may be medical issue, etc. I welcome your input!!
    Interesting first post ever. You have to be able to get wet before you can even consider squirting. You have to crawl before you can walk. I suggest finding a new gyno, as you mentioned.

    Also maybe see a sex therapist and find a boyfriend who doesn't compare you sexually to his ex girlfriends. You might get wet if you have a boyfriend who isn't criticizing your body.

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    Default Re: Hi ladies! Boyfriend returns from Hawaii in 1 week, i want to surprise him.. (tmi

    Quote Originally Posted by Obenta View Post
    Interesting first post ever. You have to be able to get wet before you can even consider squirting. You have to crawl before you can walk. I suggest finding a new gyno, as you mentioned.

    Also maybe see a sex therapist and find a boyfriend who doesn't compare you sexually to his ex girlfriends. You might get wet if you have a boyfriend who isn't criticizing your body.
    Hello Obenta! Thank you for your reply! Admittedly a strange first post, but i suppose since i have been reading through the forums months before i even created an account, all of my work related concerns (particularly hustling and general worry over the uncertainty of our industry) have been addressed in posts by other forum members. I will be making the call tomorrow to get an appointment with someome new, but as usual there is usually a few weeks wait time for women who dont have a serious health issue. I have been to planned parenthood about it and they gave me the same advice as my current gyno.

    Please do not confuse my observations as him "criticizing my body and comparing me to past sexual partners" I know of his past sexual experiences because we openly discuss them. He told me about his most memorable times. I know during sex, even though i clearly had an orgasm or several, he may ask if i got off or how many times he got me off. There were never condescending comparisons, nor did he ask me to try to change things. I want to change because i feel it would be beneficial to me, my work and my own sexuality.

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    Default Re: Hi ladies! Boyfriend returns from Hawaii in 1 week, i want to surprise him.. (tmi

    i have problems getting wet..as well as horny lately ( its my meds im pretty sure, and maybe my relationship isn't as exciting as it used to be) but i don't give it much thought. i just use lube, every woman is different..as long as you are hydrated and eating properly and you know you are getting turned on, not everyone has to be a big fountain of juices! some women can, yes, but your man shouldn't be asking you to "prove it". maybe you can talk to him, and explain that every woman is DIFFERENT. some women can squirt, other simply CANNOT. no matter how much i try ( for shows) i cannot do it. you can look in camming connection for tips to help you ( many threads on that) but you may just not be able to. he may not be able to see "proof" he just needs to be able to trust you and have a very clear, honest sexual relationship with you. there is a post in body business "pussy cream" about getting more juices flowing. but don't set yourself up for disappointment thinking that you will just be able to squirt a mile. maybe you will, maybe you won't. but that in and of itself would make me dry as a bone feeling pressured

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    Default Re: Hi ladies! Boyfriend returns from Hawaii in 1 week, i want to surprise him.. (tmi

    I think you're worried about the look and not the feel. Since your sex with your bf isn't a porno shoot I wouldn't stress trying to create wetness to appease him. Does he know your body in an out. Can he make you have multiple orgasms just from a glance? Probably not yet he's not scouring the internet looking for options. The only other thing I could suggest is try a hitachi wand , while using a toy to hit your gspot. When you're about to cum hard bare down and push.. After some play you may feel a trickle and later you may start squirting.

    I cam and started squirting about a 1.5 years ago. I watched a few vids and played with myself. I couldn't figure it out until one day I was in a private and squirted accidentally. After that it happened easier but really an annoying mess. I almost wish I never actually started doing that because I don't want to sleep in the wet spot. lol Plus I go through towels to crazy levels.

    The point I'm making is that you can teach your body to do it but when it really comes down to it ... it's more of the look not the feeling that people want. I don't even always have my best orgasms when squirting because I'm more so worried about messing up something or splashing my computer by mistake. Still hitachi wand+ dildo should help.

    Also everyone's body is different some women get wet faster or more than others. There isn't anything wrong with their body, it's just how it works.

    I will say my best orgasms actually are without a physical in person partner. Sometimes you know your body so well that a stranger's hands, cock can't compare. Dildo's never get soft, never go down, and don't cum too fast. Plus the hitachi is so intense for me regular sex now would probably be boring. Again that's just me.

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    Why not turn him off with a squirting dildo, men always enjoy involving their partner with a toy and if a dildo/vibrator is not enough these safe ejaculating sex toys can give him the raw satisfaction of getting him aroused from just the fake cum it shoots out. You can get them along with some toys to turn up the mood. Forum members can get 10% off anything from site with code beyond10. Let me know how we can help.
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