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    Default Do You Ever Turn Down Pvts/Exclsv?

    I've seen some girls say no to pvt/exclsv 'just because' they didn't want to do them then. Do any of you ever do this or do you take every session that comes your way? I don't turn anyone down, unless they are looking for something that I don't do. It must be nice to be in the position to turn guys down just because you don't want to play right now though.

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    Default Re: Do You Ever Turn Down Pvts/Exclsv?

    I turn them down sometimes. I request that members message me first so we can talk about what they want to do in private. Sometimes they are unwilling to do this and they are probably just minute men anyway. Other times, if I'm in the middle of a countdown and I'm close to my goal.. I won't leave for a private because I think it's unfair to my members who have been contributing to the countdown. I'll ask the person who wants a private to wait a reasonable amount of time before leaving. If the countdown hasn't moved in a while or if it's still new, I'll go private.

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    Ya, turned down someone on SM named "Nikita" for a loud, crazy insane rape role play. Yeah ummm, not my cup o'tea. Model's who don't want to do exclusives/prvts. would rather just do gold shows, 3 gold shows an hour can be around 100.00/or more an hour, so I understand. Gold shows always screw up on me, and I hate begging for money, so I do a lot of exclusives and prvts. Which doesn't put u at the top of the page often. Also this 50 video crap with a 4$ buy in is BS! Why would they NEED to come back and see you, when they have seen it all....lol!

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    I never "refuse" exclusives. I do, however, ban actually quite a lot of people, now that I think about it, who take me private and immediately start demanding things, like "strip" or "show cunt" or I-don't-know-what, because from my experience I've noitced that:
    1) They are usually minute-men.
    2) These are the kind of guys who have a high potential to give me a bad rating because they don't communicate with me, the vibe isn't good and they might even expect me to do things I don't do.

    I tend to always take a guy who goes exclusive with me rather than private more seriously. But regardless of that, once I enter a private chat, I smile, greet them, ask them for their name and a few other questions; this way I can kinda test the waters to see whether they are time-wasters or not; I just wanna break the ice and have good vibrations.



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    Yes, I have for incest, jizz eating and anything that has to do with rape role play! A girl's gotta have standards! I am first a human being not a sexual being. I'll draw the line on what's acceptable.
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    Yes,when im tired or when my kitty hurts.Sometime i dread certain people taking me private cuz i know they're going to drain me out.
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    Default Re: Do You Ever Turn Down Pvts/Exclsv?

    I've turned down pvts/exclusives for a few reasons:
    - if I am getting sick, or have a sore throat, I won't do deepthroat. This is a MAJOR draw for me, so in those cases, I am turning down every other pvt. Health comes first.
    - same with anal, if I have been having a lot irl and I am sore, I'm not going to push myself physically for a couple bucks.
    - obviously there are the ones that I don't do, or don't have the props for when I'm asked.
    - If I know that someone is wanting a really, really LONG session, and I have shit to do, I will turn it down. Apologetically, but if you are a customer of mine who I know always does 30 mins at a time, and I have to be logging off in 10 to go meet someone, I'd rather not do it than not give you what you want.
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    It sounds like from your post that you are on MFC or another token based site, so girls there are different where they don't want to clear out their room when they are reaching their public show goal, etc.

    Shows that I turn down:
    - anything against the rules
    - calling anyone "daddy"
    - anything submissive, not that I always have to be dominant I just don't do submissive, if that makes sense lol
    - anyone that asks before we start if I can get naked "really fast"

    Marina I thought rape roleplay was against the rules? If it's not then I don't do that either even if it is allowed. I have told and seen many guys eat their own cum though haha that's one of my favorites.
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    I'm sure it's against the rules but we have some crazy that will ask so I would ban them instantly! I won't eat my own but I don't mind guys eating theirs, lol!
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    Marina I thought rape roleplay was against the rules? If it's not then I don't do that either even if it is allowed. I have told and seen many guys eat their own cum though haha that's one of my favorites.
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    Default Re: Do You Ever Turn Down Pvts/Exclsv?

    @Sassy - rape is technically against the rules. However, in the same way that you can get around "incest" by doing the "step sibling/parent" thing, you can get around rape rules by calling it "reluctance". It's all about the "oh no don't do that....but it feels so good...".
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    Default Re: Do You Ever Turn Down Pvts/Exclsv?

    I ban when they go to private without telling me in free chat first.
    If someone wants to go private and I didn't plan on sticking around long, I'll leave it up to the guy.
    One day I was waiting for a friend to come over and told my room that when someone asked me to go private. Everyone started laughing at me and telling me to go make my money.
    So glad I did. My friend ended up taking awhile and the private was AMAZING.
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    Ashamed to say, I do. All of the time. When I don't have a close wax, when I am on my period, ect. When I'm not in a sexy mood I am not good at faking it. That in my mind is what makes the pro's bank. Pro's push trough those feelings and I don't.









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    Default Re: Do You Ever Turn Down Pvts/Exclsv?

    Yes, I turn down private shows sometimes for different reasons.


    Quote Originally Posted by Elysia36 View Post
    I've seen some girls say no to pvt/exclsv 'just because' they didn't want to do them then. Do any of you ever do this or do you take every session that comes your way? I don't turn anyone down, unless they are looking for something that I don't do. It must be nice to be in the position to turn guys down just because you don't want to play right now though.
    It's not so much about "being in the position" to turn down shows. It's about having standards and a comfort level, and doing what's best for you. If you don't do anal and have absolutely no desire to try it, that's reason enough to decline an anal private show. And there are plenty of other guys who will come along who won't require anal play in the show. I don't know about anyone else here, but I think that if I accepted every private show that came my way, I'd probably be a pretty pissed-off cam girl...lol. That's why you'll never see me with the room topic "Anything goes." LOL. You never know what some of these people will start requesting/demanding...
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    I haaaaaaaaaate calling guys daddy as well. I won't do shows where they degrade me verbally, or sub shows just because I am a piss-poor sub and I turn into grumpy cat so fast when I try to be one.

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    Yes if I don't like the theme they want or the person.

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    I think I misunderstood the original question. Well, if it's about certain things I decline to do in private/exclusive chat, ever, then here they are:

    - I defintely don't feel comfortable with being a sub.
    - I'm not ok with verbal humiliation (direct towards ME, not the custie), so sometimes I even ban people WHILE in paid chat for just referring to me as a "slut" or "cunt", even if I have a feeling they're going to stay on relatively long. It's just not for me, can't do it, won't do it.
    - I -never- do anything feet related, because I hate my feet (for a reson, but it's kinda personal). So even if a guy asks for something stockings or heels related, and they do, a lot, I sadly have to decline.
    - If they ask me to shave my bush on camera. Not going to happen, lol. I love my bush!
    - Of course, anything which is against Streamate's terms of conduct.

    Other than that, I think I'm pretty damn open-minded. Still, my shows tend to be very vanilla and tender, which I'm cool with. The most important thing to me during a show is communication and a good vibe.



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    I turn down privates if they want something I'm not comfortable doing but I've seen some women have it right in their topic....No privates or exclusives...just hanging out tonight.
    That's not something I'd personally do. I'm on there to make money, not just sit and talk. It must work for them though.

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    If I can't convince them to do something a little tamer and within the rules, I'll turn them down. I had several asking for scat last week. I was like "what do I look like? A soft serve, ready when you want it machine?"..C'mon..no one poops on commands and tell them I can't help them and wouldn't even if I could.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_Den View Post
    I think I misunderstood the original question. Well, if it's about certain things I decline to do in private/exclusive chat, ever, then here they are:

    - I defintely don't feel comfortable with being a sub.
    - I'm not ok with verbal humiliation (direct towards ME, not the custie), so sometimes I even ban people WHILE in paid chat for just referring to me as a "slut" or "cunt", even if I have a feeling they're going to stay on relatively long. It's just not for me, can't do it, won't do it.
    - I -never- do anything feet related, because I hate my feet (for a reson, but it's kinda personal). So even if a guy asks for something stockings or heels related, and they do, a lot, I sadly have to decline.
    - If they ask me to shave my bush on camera. Not going to happen, lol. I love my bush!
    - Of course, anything which is against Streamate's terms of conduct.

    Other than that, I think I'm pretty damn open-minded. Still, my shows tend to be very vanilla and tender, which I'm cool with. The most important thing to me during a show is communication and a good vibe.
    1) I like foot shows.
    2) Won't shave my pubes either!
    3) Humiliation, I give it more than I take it. Some won't even start in calling me names until they are close to cumming, so it's hard to tell who is who.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Holly_xoxo View Post
    I've seen some women have it right in their topic....No privates or exclusives...just hanging out tonight.
    That's not something I'd personally do. I'm on there to make money, not just sit and talk. It must work for them though.
    They must be relying on public chat tips then. On MyFreeCams I know I could get away with the 'no privates tonight' thing, because I pretty much make all of my tokens in public chat. On Streamate, however, it's the complete opposite. If I'm not willing to do private shows that day, fuhgettabout it...lol. No point in even logging onto SM if I'm on like day one of my pd. On there it's like pulling teeth to get anyone to tip in public chat, except for a MFC reg. who tips periodically (and I'd rather he just tip me on MFC where I get a larger %).
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    This post actually makes me feel better. There are times that I really want to refuse, but for some reason I always feel bad... Like I am going to lose customers or that I am missing out on good money. I just need to realize that I am in control of everything. It was much easier on MFC, but on SM I feel bad.

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    Don't feel bad for turning down shows. Sometimes I'll turn down shows where I can tell the customer wants me to pound away mindlessly at my puss, or the five minute 'cum bb' shows. Most of those occasions I'll pull stealthily pull out the ethernet cord to stop the show because I just can't anymore. I'll also turn down roleplay shows occasionally because it gets so exhausting.

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    I reject/stop a show and/or ban people from privates/exclusives usually if:

    * There is verbal humiliation towards me. I don't mind (too much) if it's just them getting carried away with dirty talk like slut, but if they go on saying something like POS whore etc then goodbye! Edit: I will do humiliation towards them as long as it's not racist

    * Anything against site rules ("body functions", incest, pedo, rape, fisting). If it's a really creepy request then I screen cap it, ban them & report it

    * Anyone that starts a group show in between gold show resets especially knowing I'm about to reset the timer. So annoying & disrespectful towards me and the guys trying to get the show going

    * Nothing that involves smearing food on my body (had a bad experience once, will not do it again)

    * Anyone that starts a group show for an exclusive request

    * I ban anyone that does not take no for a request during a show. I don't need them to take me for 3 min private to demand I fist my ass and then give me a 1/5 for being a "prude"
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    What about the few regulars that come in ALL the time and there's just nothing more to talk about or ALLLL they talk about is meeting up someday...omg dude, nooooo it's not gonna happen! I love my regulars but omg sometimes I'm like ugh can you just stay away for tonight..we need some space lol! But then when it's dead it's like ok miss you lol!

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    My question was geared more towards the girls who say ' No shows tonight, just hanging out.' Some guys will try to take them exclusive anyway and they don't accept the request. I definitely turn down requests if I don't do certain shows.

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